Lil Red’s Book Club: Ambush By Colleen Coble Edition

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Lil Red’s Book Club: Ambush By Colleen Coble Edition

Hello everyone and welcome to a brand new edition of Lil Red’s Book Club! In a spoiler free setting, as always, we are going to be discussing a sort of thriller, sort of romance, sort of religious (Yuck!) book by Colleen Coble called Ambush. Had I known that Coble was known for Christian literature, I would have vetoed it from the jump. However, I was too far into the book to abandon it and saw it through. Ambush was a below average read that appears to be the first part of a series. Will I read the next one when it comes out? The jury is still out but let’s discuss anyways! Before we begin, I will be placing a trigger warning on Ambush for sexual violence, graphic crime scene descriptions, and general violence. Now, let’s get to it:

Paradise has had a tough go in life. After losing both of her parents she was bounced from foster home to foster home, each one being worse than the last. The only high point in those years was her relationship with Blake which came to a crashing halt when his attempt to help her failed. The two high school sweethearts never spoke again afterwards but Paradise’s past is about to catch up to her fifteen years later. Since her and Blake’s falling out, she went on to become a vet specializing in wild and exotic animals. Although she loves her job, an almost deadly attack by a big cat has left her broken and she takes the first opportunity she is offered to get her groove back. She will now be the vet at The Sanctuary.

The Sanctuary is exactly what it sounds like – a place for wild animals that were injured to roam, heal, and live the rest of their lives under expert care. It would be perfect minus the fact that Blake’s mother is the owner of The Sanctuary and he has returned in the wake of tragedy after the suspicious death of his father. Tensions are, indeed, high at The Sanctuary as the two former flames meet again but it is softened by Blake’s two younger brothers and his caring mom, Jenna. Paradise’s world at The Sanctuary revolves around caring for the animals and avoiding Blake at all costs. Soon, her avoidance of the man she has held a grudge against for so long will be the least important thing on her mind.

Since Paradise began her job, strange things have been happening at The Sanctuary and the surrounding properties. A body was found at a nearby ranch and angry activists have targeted The Sanctuary, committing break ins, arson, and shootings. The detective on the case feels no sympathy for Blake and his family and makes it clear that Blake and Jenna are his prime suspects in the murder at the ranch. With no help to be found for The Sanctuary from the police, the team decides to investigate themselves and that includes Paradise. As her and Blake work together to solve their own mysteries, they continue to grow closer and closer. If a flame is rekindling, it must wait until The Sanctuary’s problems are solved and Blake and his mom are in the clear. Will Paradise finally have the happy ending that she so needs and deserves? Read Ambush to find out!

In theory, Ambush offered a little bit of everything I like in a book. A juicy mystery, old love blossoming, and crooked cops. In practice, it was just very okay. My main qualm had nothing to do with the religious aspect of Ambush but had everything to do with the writing. Throughout the book, Colleen Coble made the decision to regurgitate the exact same phrases, words, and descriptions that had already been used several times over. It was verbatim and it drove me absolutely bonkers because lazy writing is the one thing I won’t stand for. There were countless times when it felt like I was rereading the same pages over again and it got to the point that it was laughable.

So the writing wasn’t great but what about the characters? Meh lol. Paradise as a leading lady was neither here nor there for me as she was extremely milquetoast. The personality factor was definitely lacking and she often read as bland and bored. Blake and his family, on the other hand, was too perfect and it was so unrealistic. I’m sure one would argue that god was on their side as they were ultra religious. What I mean by too perfect is that in the midst of all of this violence at The Sanctuary, no one got angry. Lives could have been lost and not one voice was ever raised. I don’t know about all of you, but I would be PISSED if I ended up being almost mauled by hyenas! Once again, I chalk this up to lazy writing to not even bother hinting at conflict within themselves and Ambush often read as a first draft as opposed to a published book.

Overall, I am going to rate Ambush with a two and a half out of ten stars. This is one that can certainly be skipped on but I’d be a liar if I said I don’t want to find out what happens in the next book!

What are you currently reading? What should I read next? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Refreshing Your Space Beyond New Decor

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Refreshing Your Space Beyond New Decor

A home refresh is so much more than just grabbing new pillows or a trendy rug. It’s actually a fantastic chance to hit the reset button on your space, clear out anything that’s not serving you anymore, and create a home that truly feels like you. Often, the biggest changes don’t come from adding more stuff, but from really thinking about what you already have and getting rid of what you don’t need. This whole process might sound daunting, but if you break it down into smaller, bite-sized steps, it turns from a huge chore into a pretty exciting project. By focusing on clearing out the old before you even think about styling the new, you’ll build a solid foundation for a home that feels open, calm, and authentically yours:

Before you start tossing things or making a beeline for the store, take a moment to walk through your home with fresh eyes. Try to imagine you’re a guest seeing it for the first time. What do you genuinely love about each room? What makes you feel a little stressed or cluttered? Maybe your entryway always seems to be a mountain of shoes and mail, or a certain corner of the living room has become a magnet for random bits and bobs. Think about why you wanted to do this because your decor might need a refresh in the first place. Has your style changed over time? Or has the room’s purpose shifted? A dining room that’s now pulling double duty as a home office needs a different setup than one used only for meals. Just make a simple list of what’s working and what isn’t for each area. This first look is your personal roadmap for the entire project.

Every single item in your home takes up both physical and mental space. That broken lamp you keep meaning to fix, the stack of magazines you’ll never actually read, or the exercise equipment that’s somehow become a clothes hanger – they all add to a general feeling of clutter. All of this visual noise can make it really hard to relax and enjoy your home. Getting rid of these unused items is often the single most effective thing you can do to refresh your space. Letting go of things can be tough but try to think of it as making room for new energy and possibilities. For items that are just sitting there, consider if you can donate them or sell them. For bigger jobs that go beyond a few bags for charity, professional junk removal can be a lifesaver. They can quickly clear out old furniture, broken appliances, or all that accumulated clutter from a garage or basement. The main goal here is to end up with only the things you actually use, genuinely need, or truly love.

Once you have a clear idea of what needs to go and what you’re hoping to achieve, it’s time to make a plan. A little bit of structure will keep you from feeling overwhelmed and giving up halfway through. Start by setting a realistic timeline. You definitely don’t have to tackle the whole house in one weekend. Maybe you focus on one room per week or dedicate a few hours every Saturday. Next, figure out your goals for each space. Do you want the living room to feel cozier? The bedroom to be more peaceful? The kitchen to be more practical? Write these goals down. This will help you make decisions later on. Creating a simple mood board on Pinterest, or even just a folder of inspiring images, can help you visualize the final result and keep you motivated.

After you’ve sorted your belongings into “keep,” “donate,” “sell,” and “toss” piles, you’ve got to deal with the aftermath. Smaller items are usually pretty easy to handle. You can drop a few bags at a local charity or list some things on a marketplace app. But what about the big stuff? That old mattress, the broken dresser, or a mountain of yard waste can be tricky to get rid of on your own. For these larger clear-outs, you have a couple of options. You could rent a truck and make multiple trips to the dump or a recycling center, but that can eat up a lot of time and be physically draining. This is another area where professional services can make a huge difference. They have the right equipment and know-how to remove bulky items safely and efficiently, and they often make sure things are disposed of in an eco-friendly way.

Now for the fun part: styling your newly decluttered space! With all the extra stuff gone, you can finally see the true potential in your rooms. The first step is to “shop your own home.” Try moving furniture, art, and decor from one room to another to see if they look better in a new spot. Sometimes just rearranging the layout can make a room feel completely different. Once you’ve made the most of what you already have, you can think about adding a few new pieces. This doesn’t have to cost a fortune. A new set of curtains, a colorful throw blanket, or a few healthy plants can really breathe new life into a room. There are tons of simple tips for a vibrant space that focus on small, impactful changes. Pay attention to lighting, different textures, and those personal touches that make the space feel like it belongs to you.

After all your hard work, take a moment to kick back and enjoy your revitalized home. You’ve created a space that not only looks better but also works better for your life right now!

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Preparing Your Outdoor Space For Any Season

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Preparing Your Outdoor Space For Any Season

Your outdoor space is like another room in your home, a lovely spot to chill out, host friends, and feel connected to nature. Keeping it looking great doesn’t have to be a huge headache. If you break down yard work into easy seasonal tasks, you can create a simple routine for preparing your home landscape that keeps everything thriving all year. A little effort each season really pays off, giving you a stunning yard to enjoy, rain or shine:

Once the snow melts and things start to warm up, it’s time to gently wake your yard from its winter nap. First, clear away any fallen branches, leaves, and other bits that piled up over the colder months. This initial tidy-up makes a big visual difference and stops mold or fungus from growing in damp, leafy spots. Next, give your garden beds some love. Carefully rake back old mulch so the soil can warm up and dry out. This is also the perfect moment to add a fresh layer of compost, giving your plants a nice nutrient boost for the growing season. Finally, check your lawn for any squished areas or bare patches. Early spring is ideal for sprinkling new seeds on thin spots and getting your lawnmower serviced so it’s ready for that first cut of the year.

Your trees are a real treasure for your property, offering shade, beauty, and boosting your home’s value. After a long winter, they definitely deserve a good look-over. Carefully check them for any branches that might have been damaged by snow, ice, or strong winds. Look for cracks, splits, or big limbs that seem to be hanging a bit dangerously. Dead or damaged branches can be a safety risk, so it’s best to deal with them quickly.

While you can probably handle a bit of light pruning on small, low-hanging branches yourself, bigger jobs often need special gear and know-how. For major limb pruning or figuring out if a tree is stable, it’s usually safest to call in the pros. If you have large, damaged trees or worry about a tree being too close to your house, getting an expert for services like tree removal and trimming is the smartest move. They can check your trees’ health and suggest the best way forward.

Summer is when your yard really shines, but the heat can also throw some curveballs. The secret to a healthy landscape during hot months is smart watering. Give your lawn and gardens a good, deep drink, but not too often. Early morning is usually best to avoid too much water evaporating. This encourages roots to grow deeper, making your plants tougher against dry spells. Mulch becomes your best friend in summer. A two to three-inch layer around your plants and trees helps the soil hold onto moisture, keeps roots cool, and fights off weeds that would otherwise steal water and nutrients. Also, keep an eye out for common summer pests and diseases. Catching issues like Japanese beetles or powdery mildew early makes them much easier to handle without needing harsh treatments.

We often think of autumn as the time for gardens to wind down, but a little work now can set you up for a much healthier yard next spring. While it’s tempting to rake up every single leaf, try mowing over them instead. Shredded leaves create a natural mulch that will break down over winter, enriching your soil with good organic stuff. This is also a great time to aerate your lawn. This helps loosen compacted soil, letting water, air, and nutrients get right down to the grassroots. And if you’ve always dreamed of a burst of spring color, fall is the moment to plant bulbs like tulips, daffodils, and crocuses. They’ll settle in over winter and be ready to put on a show as soon as the weather warms up.

Getting your outdoor space ready for winter is all about protecting it. Cold temperatures, ice, and heavy snow can really damage plants and outdoor gear if they’re not prepped properly. For delicate shrubs like roses or hydrangeas, you might want to protect your plants from frost by wrapping them in burlap or building a little protective frame. Don’t forget your tools and furniture! Drain and store your garden hoses to stop them from cracking in freezing temperatures. Clean and cover or store your patio furniture to help it last longer. A thorough cleanup means less work when spring rolls around, letting you jump straight into enjoying your beautiful yard.

With this simple seasonal approach, you can keep your outdoor space healthy and inviting all year long. Each task builds on the last, creating a sustainable cycle of care that makes maintenance feel less like a chore and more like a rewarding hobby!

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Pajama Party OOTD

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Pajama Party OOTD

Hello! It has been SO much fun seeing Halloween goodies in store and I say the earlier the better. In fact, it should be all year round! Halloween is, indeed, my favorite time to shop for home decor and scary cute clothes and 5 Below is one of my go to spots. There is nothing better than scoring little treats on the cheap! I am an avid fan of 5 Below’s pajamas and I couldn’t say no to two adorable sets during my first spooky shopping spree. They are the comfiest, softest PJs to snuggle up in and I have a feeling I’ll be living in them this fall. Check it out:

Pajama Sets: 5 Below

Candy Corn Plushie: TJMaxx

The Gengar plushie was a surprise from Johnny! ❤

I never used to buy pajamas because I always prefer to spend my money on clothes and shoes lol. However, 5 Below offers sets for under fifteen dollars and that is a deal that I would be hard pressed to find even at TJMaxx. I have purchased several pairs of pajamas from 5 Below and have quite the collection now. But, in my defense, I had a lot of time to make up for because my pajamas used to just consist of a few sad pairs of sweatpants and random T-shirts! While all of the PJs at 5B are uber cute, I think these Halloween themed ones take the cake!

Seriously, how darling are those little costumed bears doing their spooky best? And those teeny tiny ghosts?! Forget about it! Both of these pairs were hanging up at the front of 5B and I clocked them as soon as I walked in. They immediately went into my cart because I just knew they were going to sell out quickly. I was so right! The following week after buying them I ended up back at 5 Below with a client and there were no more sets of these pajamas in sight. I got them at the perfect time and feel like such a lucky duck. I can’t wait to curl up and watch scary movies and Supernatural in them all October long. 🙂

My plushies were my plus one to my pajama party and made for excellent company. Stay tuned for the Blooper Reel and stay comfy cozy!

What do you like to wear to bed? Is your wardrobe lacking any specific type of clothing? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Managing Pelvic Discomfort To Improve Your Daily Life

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Managing Pelvic Discomfort To Improve Your Daily Life

Pelvic discomfort is more than just a minor annoyance. It can disrupt your work, social life, and overall sense of well-being. That feeling of pressure, aching, or fullness in your lower abdomen can make it difficult to focus on anything else. The good news is that you don’t have to simply live with it. Understanding the potential causes and knowing your care options can empower you to take control and find relief. Managing this condition starts with recognizing the signs, adopting supportive health habits to start today, and learning about the self-care strategies and professional help available to improve your daily life:

Pelvic pressure often feels like a sensation of heaviness, fullness, or a dull ache in the lower belly and pelvic region. For some, it might feel like something is pushing down or sitting heavily in the pelvis. This discomfort can be constant, or it may come and go, sometimes worsening after standing for long periods, exercising, or at the end of the day. Many things can be causes of pelvic pain, from muscle strain and bladder issues to more complex conditions involving the pelvic floor. The pelvic floor is a group of muscles that forms a supportive sling for your bladder, uterus, and bowel. When these muscles are weakened or too tight, they can contribute to feelings of pressure and discomfort. Identifying the specific source of the problem is the first step toward finding an effective solution.

While mild or occasional discomfort might resolve on its own, persistent or worsening pelvic pressure is a clear signal to consult a healthcare professional. If the pain interferes with your daily activities, comes with changes in bladder or bowel habits, or simply doesn’t feel right, it’s time to seek an expert opinion. Don’t dismiss your symptoms as “normal.” Navigating the medical world can be confusing, especially when you’re not sure which type of doctor to see. For pelvic health, two common specialists are urologists and urogynecologists. Understanding the difference in urologist and urogynecologist can help you find the right care faster. A urologist treats urinary tract conditions for all genders, while a urogynecologist has specialized training in female pelvic medicine and reconstructive surgery, focusing on pelvic floor disorders.

While you’re seeking a professional diagnosis, there are several self-care practices you can adopt to help manage your symptoms. These strategies focus on reducing strain on the pelvic floor and promoting overall wellness. Gentle movement can be particularly beneficial. Certain exercises and stretches can help release tension in the pelvic muscles and surrounding areas like the hips and lower back. Consider incorporating the following into your routine:

  • Deep Diaphragmatic Breathing: Lie on your back with your knees bent. Place one hand on your chest and the other on your belly. As you inhale slowly through your nose, allow your belly to rise. As you exhale, let it fall. This helps relax the pelvic floor.
  • Gentle Stretches: Poses like child’s pose, happy baby, and gentle hip openers can alleviate tightness.
  • Mindful Posture: Pay attention to how you sit and stand. Slouching can put extra pressure on your pelvic organs, so try to sit upright with your feet flat on the floor.

These simple strategies for pelvic pain relief can make a significant difference in your comfort levels. Also, staying hydrated and eating a fiber-rich diet can prevent constipation, which often worsens pelvic pressure.

Once you’ve decided to see a specialist, preparing for your appointment can help you get the most out of your visit. Before you go, take some time to write down your symptoms. Note when the pressure started, what it feels like, what makes it better or worse, and any other related symptoms you’ve experienced. This detailed history will give your doctor valuable clues.

Don’t let pelvic discomfort dictate the terms of your life. Understanding your symptoms and proactively seeking the right care helps you find a path to relief and get back to doing the things you love!

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Signs Your Home Needs Some Extra TLC

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Signs Your Home Needs Some Extra TLC

Our homes are our sanctuaries, those cozy spots where we kick back and recharge. But let’s be real, every house settles and ages over time, sending out little hints that it might need a bit of TLC. Sometimes it’s just a tiny crack we spot while sipping our morning coffee, and other times it’s a door that suddenly decides it doesn’t want to close anymore. Catching these subtle clues early can help you tackle small issues before they balloon into big, expensive headaches:

Spotting a crack in your wall or ceiling can definitely be a bit alarming, but don’t panic just yet – not all cracks are created equal. Those thin, hairline cracks that pop up around windows or door frames usually just mean your house is settling naturally. They’re mostly cosmetic and a little spackle and paint can fix them right up. But you’ll want to pay closer attention to cracks that are wider than a quarter-inch, run diagonally across walls, or show up above doorways and stretch all the way to the ceiling. These bigger, more jagged cracks could be a sign that your house’s frame is shifting because of foundation movement. If you notice these more serious imperfections, it might be time to chat with a professional foundation repair company to get their take.

Ever had a door that used to swing open easily but now scrapes the floor or gets stuck in its frame? It’s a common household annoyance, but it can also be a little warning sign. Sure, high humidity can make wood swell and cause doors and windows to stick, but if it’s a persistent problem, something else might be going on. When a house’s foundation shifts, it can warp door and window frames, making them jam or not latch properly. If you notice that several sticking doors and windows are giving you trouble throughout your home, especially if there are also visible cracks around their frames, it’s a pretty good indicator that the structure is under some stress.

Your home’s floors should feel solid and level. If you start to notice a definite slope in a room, or if your floors feel bouncy or soft when you walk on them, that’s a clear signal of an underlying issue. A quick trick to check for a slope is to put a marble or a small ball on the floor and see if it rolls on its own. Uneven floors can stem from problems with the floor joists or, more seriously, from a foundation that’s sinking or heaving in certain spots. You might also spot related signs like ceramic tiles cracking under pressure or baseboards pulling away from the floor, leaving a noticeable gap.

Water is one of the biggest enemies of a healthy foundation. If you have constant dampness in your basement or crawl space, a musty smell that just won’t go away, or visible water stains on walls, those are all big red flags. These signs of excess moisture tell you that water is getting into places it really shouldn’t be. It’s also important to check your home’s exterior drainage. Are your gutters clogged? Are your downspouts sending water far enough away from the foundation? If the ground around your home slopes inward, rainwater can pool right against the foundation walls, creating huge pressure and eventually leading to leaks and structural damage.

It’s awesome to be a hands-on homeowner, but it’s also smart to know your limits. You can totally fix a small cosmetic crack or adjust a door hinge yourself. But when you start seeing multiple warning signs then it’s time to call in an expert. A structural engineer or a foundation specialist can do a thorough inspection to figure out the real cause of the problem. Trying to ignore or just patch over serious structural issues will only lead to bigger, more expensive repairs down the road.

Catching these problems early can truly make all the difference. A little proactive care helps ensure your home stays a safe and stable haven for many years to come!

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How To Be The Life Of The Party

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How To Be The Life Of The Party

If you have ever stood in a crowded room wondering what you are going to say to other people who are holding drinks and shouting too loudly over the music, you are not alone. Many people often wonder how they can be the life and soul of the party. What is actually involved in taking on this role? How can you become that person, at least for one evening? Here is what to do:

You’ll want to start by bringing the right kind of energy to the party. You don’t necessarily need to kick the door down and tell everyone a joke that you’ve been thinking about all week. All it requires is going with an approachable demeanor, smiling a lot, and bringing people together. Often, the person who’s considered the life and soul of the party is the person who is “facilitating.” Try to make that person you.

We’ve all been there. You go to a party, and the person you’re talking to only wants to discuss their experiences and their life. It’s boring and dull. The good news, though, is that if you can stomach it, you can turn this around and master the art of active listening. The idea is to encourage the person you’re speaking to and to say the right things at the right time. You’ll notice that if you do this, the person will warm to you far more quickly, and you can potentially have a much more interesting conversation with them. When you really engage with them, they become friendlier and view you as a charismatic person.

Another thing you might want to do, depending on the crowd, is to learn the steps and do what other partygoers do. What this means, of course, depends on context. It could be bringing a tasty appetizer, being the resident mixologist, or putting together an awesome playlist. If you have an understanding of the general expectations of the party, then you are putting yourself in a very good position. For example, let’s say you’re going to a corporate party. Expectations there will be very different from a party you’re going to with your friends!

Don’t be one of those people at the party who tries to dominate every conversation. Instead, exercise your quiet power and then move swiftly when the situation calls for it. Being a great social presence is often about knowing when to step back and let others take the lead. You don’t necessarily have to be the literal life of the party if you don’t want to be. Try to read the room and gracefully exit when necessary.

Finally, it’s a good idea to become a connector when you want to make an impression. As mentioned earlier, if you can bring people together through shared common interests, then you’re the person everybody goes to because you’re someone that they can rely on.

Step up your party approach with these tips and have fun!!

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Terrific T OOTD

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Terrific T OOTD

Howdy everyone and welcome to a brand new OOTD here on lifewithlilred! This past week was my full week back to work after my surgery and it was a doozy and a half. I kicked it into overdrive because surgery doesn’t pay for itself and by the time Friday rolled around I was beyond mentally and physically prepared to become one with my couch. After a lunch date with Johnny on Saturday, of course. Our meal was pretty lackluster but anytime out and about with my main squeeze is a good one and the perfect excuse to put together an outfit. I knew exactly what I wanted to wear because I have been on pins and needles to sport my new favorite T-shirt from Hot Topic! Check it out:

Twilight T-shirt: Hot Topic

Mini Skort: Kyodan, TJMaxx

Platform Heels: Olivia Miller, Walmart

Earrings: SugarFix By BaubleBar, Target

The cuffs are by Aerie and Betsey Johnson!

I have a confession to make… I have never read the Twilight books *GASP*. However, an old client of mine was an avid fan of the movies and working with her was a crash course on that franchise. I have seen each one several times and enjoyed every viewing. They’re just fun and the hot dads don’t hurt, either. I’m talking about you, Charlie and Carlisle!! As soon as I saw the I ❤ Hot Dads T at Hot Topic with my favorite fellas from Twilight, it was as good as mine. Not only does this shirt feature my exact sentiments but it is hilarious and I couldn’t say no! I was so amped to wear it and the experience did not disappoint. 😀

I am really not a jeans and a T-shirt kind of gal so I decided to pair my T with a flirty little tennis skort by Kyodan. I wish I could have their skorts in every color, style, and pattern because they are my go tos especially in the summer. The light breezy material keeps me cool and comfortable and the built in shorts provide peace of mind when I am on the move. I am very partial to this skort as the skirt is sheer and gives an adorable peek a boo pop to the shorts. This skort added that extra something special to a silly T-shirt and kept this look fashion forward even with a basic essential.

Next up was shoes and accessories. For shoes, I pulled from the pink in the shirt by wearing the cutest pair of pastel pink platforms by Olivia Miller. Like my lavender pair, they were only five dollars and it literally does not get better than that! These funky platforms are way cool and incredibly comfortable. My only regret will forever be that Walmart did not have my size in the black pair of the same shoe!! In the accessories department I added a pretty pair of sparkly earrings by Sugarfix and a couple of bangles for good measure. With that, Charlie, Carlisle, Johnny, and I were ready to go get some lunch lol. 🙂

Stay tuned for the Blooper Reel from this look coming soon! ❤

Who is your favorite character from Twilight? What is your favorite fandom? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

The Ultimate Activewear Accessory: Balancing Health Tracking And Personal Aesthetic

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The Ultimate Activewear Accessory: Balancing Health Tracking And Personal Aesthetic

Wearable health tracking technology has evolved. Today’s devices are designed to be as much a fashion accessory as a health tool. You no longer have to sacrifice your aesthetic for analytics. The key is finding a device that not only provides the health insights you need but also blends seamlessly with your wardrobe and expresses your personality. It’s about finding that perfect balance where your ultimate activewear accessory works for you all day long, from the gym to the office and everywhere in between:

When you start shopping for a fitness tracker, the sheer number of options and features can feel overwhelming. Most modern devices offer a standard set of metrics to give you a holistic view of your daily activity and well-being. Step counting is the most fundamental feature, remaining a simple yet effective way to gauge your overall movement. Beyond that, continuous heart rate monitoring has become a staple, providing valuable insights into your cardiovascular health, workout intensity, and stress levels throughout the day.

Sleep tracking is another critical feature that has improved significantly. The best fitness trackers now go beyond just measuring how long you slept; they break down your sleep into stages like light, deep, and REM. This detailed data can help you understand your sleep quality and make lifestyle adjustments to improve your rest. For those who love running, cycling, or hiking outdoors, built-in GPS is a must-have for accurately tracking distance, pace, and route without carrying your phone. Many trackers also include mindfulness features, such as guided breathing exercises, to help you manage stress during a hectic day.

The first wave of fitness trackers was purely functional. They were typically simple, rubberized bands designed for durability during workouts, but they weren’t exactly style statements. As wearable technology became more mainstream, brands recognized that users wanted a device they could wear 24/7, not just at the gym. This led to the rise of the smartwatch, a device that combines powerful health tracking with smartphone features and the aesthetics of a traditional timepiece.

Smartwatches offer a significant upgrade in both form and function. With large, vibrant displays, they can show detailed notifications, allow you to answer calls, and provide access to thousands of apps. From a style perspective, they are far more versatile than their simpler counterparts. Instead of being stuck with one look, you can customize everything from the watch face to the band. This level of personalization means your device can perfectly match your outfit or mood. For many, the Apple Watch has set the standard for a device that excels in both health tracking and design. If you want this premium experience without the premium price tag, a high-quality refurbished Apple Watch is a savvy way to get the features and style at a more accessible cost.

Beyond simply changing the band, the watch face itself offers another layer of customization. Most smartwatches come with a gallery of pre-designed faces, ranging from minimalist analog dials to data-rich digital displays that show your activity rings, the weather, and upcoming appointments at a glance. You can even create your own watch faces using your favorite photos. This ability to change your watch’s appearance so easily is a key reason why health wearables are more stylish and useful than ever. It ensures your tech accessory always complements your look rather than clashing with it.

The true test of a great wearable accessory is how well it fits into every part of your life, not just your active hours. While a bright, sporty band is perfect for the gym, it might feel out of place in a professional setting. The goal is to make your tracker a seamless part of your daily wardrobe, regardless of the occasion. Think of your watch bands as you would any other accessory, like jewelry or a handbag, and build a small collection that covers different needs.

For a professional or business-casual environment, classic materials are always a safe bet. A Milanese loop, link bracelet, or a simple leather strap in a neutral color like black, brown, or navy can make your smartwatch look like a high-end traditional watch. For everyday casual wear, you can have more fun with colors and materials. Woven fabric bands and soft silicone straps come in every color imaginable, allowing you to match your watch to your outfit or add a fun pop of color. For formal events, a polished metal band that matches your other jewelry can create an elegant, cohesive look. Many elegant fitness trackers are available today, and with the right band, even the sportiest smartwatch can be dressed up for a night out.

Many advanced trackers now offer metrics like Heart Rate Variability (HRV), which measures the variation in time between each heartbeat and can be a powerful indicator of your body’s recovery and stress levels. A higher HRV is generally better. If you notice your HRV trending downward for several days, it may signal overtraining or high stress, so schedule a rest day. Similarly, tracking your resting heart rate can provide clues about your cardiovascular fitness. As you get fitter, your resting heart rate will typically decrease. The best fitness trackers for reliable health data present this information in easy-to-read charts, helping you connect your daily habits, like a late-night meal or a stressful workday, to your body’s response.

The best activewear accessory empowers you without getting in your way. Today’s smartwatches and fitness trackers prove that you don’t have to choose between robust health data and a device that reflects your personal style. You can have a powerful health companion on your wrist that looks just as good in the boardroom as it does on the running trail!

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Groovy Movies: The End Of Oak Street Edition

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Groovy Movies: The End Of Oak Street Edition

Hello! This past week I enjoyed seeing one of this summer’s most fun popcorn flicks called The End Of Oak Street starring the incomparable Anne Hathaway. This is a very good year for my girl and I loved seeing her in The Devil Wears Prada 2 and The Odyssey. She will also be in Verity coming out in November, I believe, which I do plan on seeing just because it’s her even though I hated the book with a passion lol. But I digress. The End Of Oak Street was a wild ride that moved rapidly with nonstop thrills, the occasional jump scare, and dinosaurs galore. Honestly, Jurassic World who? The End Of Oak Street was the fresh take on dinosaurs that we all needed and left the latest installment of Jurassic World in the dust! Let’s discuss in a spoiler free setting, as per ushe:

^^^ As always, I have no rights to this video!

The year is 1982, it’s summertime and the living is easy. Kind of. Denise, her husband Greg, children Audrey and Brian, and family dog Starbuck live in a picture perfect suburban neighborhood. Families barbecue, children play together, and you can always count on a neighbor for help. Behind closed doors, however, Denise and Greg’s marriage is strained and their kids are constantly hearing them bicker. Denise goes through the motions while her husband works odd jobs and delivers pizza and when everyone is asleep, she heads to the basement to work on a book she is writing in secret.

Denise’s elderly neighbor is editing her book and after wrapping up their session requests her help. A strange plant grew out of nowhere in her yard and they each have no idea what it could be. Denise snaps a picture on her Polaroid camera, uproots the plant, and heads to the library to investigate. To her surprise, the librarian tells her this plant has been extinct since the time that dinosaurs roamed the Earth. The following night, a huge storm takes place with bright lights flashing that definitely doesn’t look like lightening. The power in the neighborhood goes out and Denise’s family hits the hay in the hopes that the storm has passed and the power will be on when they wake up.

That is not the case and what’s worse, Starbuck is nowhere to be found in their backyard. Greg and Denise decide to look for the dog together while the kids hold tight and step into an unfamiliar new world. Their neighborhood has turned into Jurassic Park overnight! The landscape has changed to lush greenery, mountainous terrains, and huge lakes and dinosaurs wander in search of something tasty to eat. Within minutes, the street devolves into chaos with families trying to escape, many of them not making it beyond their own front door.

Greg and Denise book it back to their kids and begin the process of boarding up their home. But they can’t stay there indefinitely and need a plan to get themselves back to 1982. Their daughter, Audrey, suggests that they could have entered a portal to go back in time and that could have been the bright light they saw during the storm. The trick is for that light to appear again, find it, and avoid the dinosaurs at all costs. Will this family learn to work together and make it home alive? Or will they be stuck on Oak Street forever? Watch the movie to find out!

If you are looking for a short and sweet action packed movie, then you can stop your search. The End Of Oak Street has you covered! This flick clocked in at one hour and forty minutes and after the brief introduction to the family and neighborhood every scene was more insane than the next. The threat of the dinosaurs was so palpable I found myself holding my breath as they wreaked havoc creating close calls that were centimeters away from disaster. Not only were the dinos fearsome but they were so well designed and it was such a nice change of pace to see these creatures in a movie other than Jurassic Park.

The only thing I really didn’t care for in The End Of Oak Street was the son, Brian, who was just whiny and annoying the whole time. My beloved Anne Hathaway made up for it in spades, though! It was wild to see her wielding a gun and being a total badass because I’m so used to her girl next door roles. As she always does, she played the part so well and my eyes were never not on her even when dinosaurs were mauling her neighbors lol. If you are an Anne Hathaway fan like me, this is a must see. Even if you’re not, this is a must see because this was one of the most exciting action movies I have seen in ages!

Overall, I am going to rate The End Of Oak Street with a nine out of ten stars. If Brian wasn’t so cringy it would have been a perfect ten!

Have you seen The End Of Oak Street? What did you think about it? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

DIY Home Hacks For Enhanced Comfort And Function

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DIY Home Hacks For Enhanced Comfort And Function

Making your home a more comfy and useful space doesn’t mean you need a huge renovation or a massive budget. Often, it’s those small, thoughtful tweaks that make the biggest difference in your daily life. With a little DIY spirit, you can tackle simple projects that clear out clutter, boost safety, and make your house feel even more like a haven. These little hacks are super easy to try and can totally change how you use and enjoy your home:

Quick Organization Projects:

Getting organized can feel like a giant chore, but you don’t have to do it all at once. Just pick one area that really bugs you and start there. That “junk drawer” everyone has? Spend twenty minutes emptying it, tossing what you don’t need, and using small dividers to give everything a proper spot. Another quick win is setting up a dedicated drop zone near your front door for keys, mail, and wallets. A simple wall organizer or a pretty tray on a console table can stop clutter before it even starts. Tackling these small spots gives you an immediate sense of accomplishment and makes your daily routines much smoother. For more ideas, you can find tons of clever DIY organization hacks to get your creative juices flowing.

Smart Storage Solutions:

When it feels like you’re running out of space, the answer is often to look up, not out. Vertical space is one of the most overlooked spots in any home. Popping up some simple floating shelves in your living room or bathroom can get items off the floor and turn them into a cool display. Under-the-bed storage containers are perfect for stashing away seasonal clothes or extra sheets, freeing up precious closet space. And don’t forget the back of your doors! Over-the-door organizers with pockets are fantastic for shoes, cleaning supplies, or pantry items. Thinking creatively about storage can help you find a place for everything without making your rooms feel cramped. Many great home organization ideas can help you make the most of every square inch.

Improving Walkways and Paths:

A home that works well is safe and that starts with clear, open pathways. Take a stroll through your house and look for anything that could trip you up. Are electrical cords snaking across the floor? Use cord covers or clips to keep them tidy along baseboards. Do your area rugs tend to slip or curl at the edges? A non-slip rug pad is a cheap fix that makes them instantly stable. Good lighting is also super important, especially in hallways and on stairs. Adding stick-on, motion-activated LED lights is an easy DIY project that makes navigating at night much safer. For those dealing with ongoing balance issues, these changes are a great first step, but professional balance disorder treatment can help with the root cause of dizziness and unsteadiness.

Adding Supportive Elements:

Comfort is just as important as how things work. Simple additions can make everyday activities feel less strenuous and more enjoyable. If you spend a lot of time in a home office, think about upgrading your setup for increased office productivity. A lumbar support pillow for your chair or a monitor stand to bring your screen to eye level can prevent back and neck strain. In the bathroom, installing a stylish grab bar near the shower or toilet gives you extra support without looking like a hospital. Even small touches, like adding plush, supportive cushions to your sofa or favorite armchair, can make a huge difference in how comfortable you feel while relaxing at home.

Enjoying Your Space:

Once your home is organized and functional, focus on making it enjoyable. Soft lighting, houseplants, and a cozy reading nook can create a more relaxing and inviting atmosphere.

These simple DIY changes can improve your daily comfort and quality of life. Start with one manageable project and enjoy making your home work better for you!

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Signs It Might Be Time To Get A Cognitive Test

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Signs It Might Be Time To Get A Cognitive Test

As you get older, it’s natural to experience a change in cognitive function. For some, these are only mild changes that result in occasional forgetfulness or repetition of stories. But for others, it can be a more significant change and result in lapses that need intervention and medical assistance to understand what is going on. If you’re concerned about your memory or that of a loved one, here are a few signs it might be time to get a cognitive test:

Forgetting Recently Learned Information:

Forgetting a conversation, appointment or a piece of information shortly after it happened and not recalling it later, even with a reminder, is entirely different from simply misplacing keys or blanking on a name temporarily. This type of memory loss tends to disrupt daily life, showing up as repeated questions about something already discussed or confusion over plans already confirmed. 

It might be that you need to rely on notes from others to help you fill in the gaps rather than managing independently. You can get a cognitive test, which gives you an insight into what is going on so you can catch anything untoward early and move forward with the right treatment or plan in place.

Losing Track of Familiar Tasks:

If you’re struggling to complete tasks or a loved one is having issues with them, especially for things they’ve done countless times before, like following a family recipe or paying a bill, this is a red flag that shouldn’t be ignored. It might show up as skipped steps, confusion partway through or needing more guidance than the task previously required.

Pay attention to things like having issues with problem-solving or with planning too, as this can expose more of a pattern than looking at different factors in isolation. Occasional distraction is normal for anyone, but this showing up more frequently should be looked into sooner rather than later.

Getting Lost in Familiar Places:

Everyone gets momentarily distracted from time to time, even in places they’re extremely familiar with. However, the concern here is that the familiar routes and locations suddenly come with changes in habits like taking a wrong turn or getting confused in familiar buildings. This can point to a disruption in spatial memory, not just an ordinary distraction. Note down anything that happens to track patterns of it happening more than once to give to a doctor to reinforce concerns you need to raise.

Repeating the Same Questions or Stories:

Asking the same questions multiple times within a short period or retelling the same story without realizing it has already been shared happens due to them not having been formed properly in the first place. This differs from simply enjoying a good story or forgetting who has already heard it, since the repetition tends to happen close together and without any awareness that it has been told before. Typically, family members will notice this before the person themselves does, which makes outsider observation more important in getting help and treatment for anything that is going on.

Pay close attention to yourself and loved ones if you notice any of these symptoms because a trip to the doctor is definitely in order!

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Beyond The Ear: Understanding How We Process Sound

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Beyond The Ear: Understanding How We Process Sound

We often think of hearing as something that only happens in our ears. While they’re definitely where it starts, the real magic actually takes place in your brain. Hearing isn’t just about picking up sound waves; it’s about making sense of them and turning them into meaningful information. Understanding this difference is crucial for realizing why you might hear someone speaking but still struggle to understand what they’re saying, especially in a noisy restaurant or a busy family gathering.

Your brain can’t make sense of a sound until it receives it. This whole process is an amazing biological feat. It kicks off when sound waves enter your outer ear and travel down the ear canal to your eardrum. Those eardrum vibrations then pass through three tiny bones in your middle ear to the fluid-filled inner ear, also known as the cochlea. Inside the cochlea, thousands of tiny hair cells change these vibrations into electrical signals. These signals then travel along the auditory nerve to the brain. According to the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders, this intricate system is how we hear and perceive the world around us. It’s a lightning-fast sequence that lets us instantly react to a car horn, enjoy music, or hear a loved one’s voice.

Once sound signals reach your brain, the next step begins: Auditory processing. This is what your central nervous system does with the information it gets from your ears. Think of your ears as microphones capturing audio; your brain is the sound engineer that filters, organizes, and makes sense of it all. It separates important speech from background noise, figures out a voice’s pitch and tone, and recognizes familiar sounds.

When this system works well, you can easily follow a conversation. When it doesn’t, you might hear the sound but miss the meaning. This is where the difference between hearing and understanding becomes clear. Difficulties here aren’t always about how loud something is; sometimes, the problem is clarity. Professional assessments like speech testing can help figure out how well you understand spoken words in different situations, giving a clearer picture of your brain’s processing abilities. This is a key part of your overall auditory process.

It’s normal to mishear someone now and then, but ongoing difficulties can point to an underlying auditory processing challenge. You might notice some of these signs in yourself or someone you know:

  • You frequently ask people to repeat themselves, even in quiet places.
  • You struggle to follow conversations in noisy spots like cafes or parties.
  • Following multi-step verbal directions is tough.
  • Phone conversations are challenging because you can’t see visual cues.
  • You feel exhausted after social situations that demand a lot of listening.
  • You often mix up similar-sounding words, like “seventy” and “seventeen.”

These challenges can be frustrating and isolating, making communication feel like hard work. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward finding effective ways to manage them and improve how you communicate.

If you find listening to be a challenge, you can take practical steps to improve your comprehension and reduce frustration. These strategies focus on making your environment better and using smarter communication habits. First, try to cut down on background noise whenever you can. If you’re having an important conversation, turn off the TV or radio. In a restaurant, ask for a table in a quieter spot, away from the kitchen or main entrance.

Second, set yourself up for success. Face the person you’re speaking with so you can see their facial expressions and lip movements; these offer valuable context. Don’t be afraid to politely ask others to speak a little slower or more clearly. Finally, practice active listening by paying close attention, asking clarifying questions, and summarizing what you heard to make sure you understood correctly.

Taking small, proactive steps can make a big difference in how well you connect with others and fully participate in conversations. Being mindful of how you listen and communicate can help you navigate challenging auditory environments with more confidence!

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So Cute It’s Scary Craft

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So Cute It’s Scary Craft

Hello! Marc’s is a staple discount store in the greater Northeast Ohio region that is known for its pretty good prices but better known for its famous “closeout aisle”. The closeout aisle is, indeed, exciting because you truly never know what you are going to find. It could be anything from clothing and home decor to little gadgets, toys, or seasonal goods. It is my favorite when the closeout aisle features Halloween decor and I look forward to it every year! My dad tracks the progress of when the best Halloween goodies are out and they have recently began stocking their shelves, one of which had the most delightful spooky craft on it! Check it out:

My dad purchased this adorable sticker craft for our nieces and let me bring it back to my place as Johnny and I were hosting them for a slumber party. The book contained pages full of stickers to build faces for tons of Halloween characters like witches, ghosts, vampires, Frankenstein, black cats, mummies, and more. We spent a solid hour with the girls decking our characters out with stickers and each completed four pictures. Not only was this craft pure spooky fun but it was also a great exercise in sharing and teamwork. When one of us needed a certain sticker like ears or a nose, we all stopped what we were doing to browse through the sticker options together to find the perfect addition for the picture. We shared ideas, collaborated on ingredients for a witch’s brew, and even pretended to be our characters afterwards!

This craft was So Cute It’s Scary and the girls had such a good time with it. However, I think us grown ups liked it even more! Halfway through our early spooky season sticker session, Johnny declared that he wanted to get another one. I concurred and when he returned back from work the following day with the sticker book in tow. I have a feeling we’ll be spending some down time filling the pages together and will definitely be saving some for the next time the girls are over. There is no better time for me and Johnny than Halloween and we just love sharing our joy for the season with our girl squad! ❤

If you have kiddos or are a Halloween loving adult, this is such a fabulous craft if you can find something similar. Highly recommend!

Have stores near you started putting out Halloween items? What is your favorite Halloween character? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Unique Unicorn OOTD Bloopers

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Unique Unicorn OOTD Bloopers

Howdy y’all and welcome to the Blooper Reel from my Unique Unicorn OOTD! This little look was worn to celebrate my darling middle niece’s birthday and it was such fun. The birthday girl had the best day – so much so that she has been asking when it can be her birthday again lol. We’ve got a ways to go for that, kid! My sister put together such a delightful party and even hired a face painter for the festivities. Although the kids had a blast with it, I daresay that I enjoyed it the most. How often does an adult get the opportunity to get unicorn style face paint?! The answer is: Not often enough. The face painter really did do a bang up job but these pictures do not do her work justice! Let’s take a looksee:

Johnny and I recently hosted our two big nieces for a slumber party before they go back to school and it was a hoot. We did lots of crafts, ordered pizza, and watched Toy Story 4. And, as per slumber party tradition, we had ice cream sundaes for dessert! Normally when I am with the girl squad, I am constantly picking them up, swinging them around, or giving piggy back rides. This time, however, was different as I can’t lift more than ten pounds post surgery. The girls understood and were SO attentive to their TT and it really warmed my heart. ❤

When I got up to start sundae prep, my middle niece stopped me to ask if I could still carry ice cream lol. Blessedly, I could still swing that! The following day when my sister picked them up, I started to carry some of their belongings down to the car. I wasn’t thinking about my post op instructions whatsoever but my biggest niece was. She stopped me in my tracks and said “TT you can’t carry that!”. She remembered what I had completely forgotten as I am forever a DIY kind of gal. Both of their concern was so sweet and it was one of the best slumber parties ever!

This little story is a firm reminder to myself to not carry heavy things lol. Shout out to my bestie girls for having my back!

Are your kids ready for back to school? What is your favorite animated movie? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Unique Unicorn OOTD

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Unique Unicorn OOTD

Hi! This past week we had a beautiful birthday celebration for our darling middle niece and it was so joyous. Friends and family gathered to celebrate our special girl and we couldn’t have asked for a better sunshiny day! My sister even hired a face painter for the party and she was a huge hit for the kids and your girl alike lol. You know TT had to get her face painted too as the extra aunt! My nieces were tickled that I participated in the face paint and immediately clocked the KPop Demon Hunters crop that I wore just for them. We love our Huntrix girls!! Take a look at this Unique Unicorn OOTD:

KPop Crop: 5 Below

Mini Skort: Kyodan, TJMaxx

Lavender Platforms: Olivia Miller, Walmart

The lightning bolt earrings were purchased on a vacation to Universal Studios many moons ago!

In hindsight, it was a mistake to wear an all white ensemble to a child’s birthday party because some stainage definitely happened on my skort lol. However, I am pleased to report that the stains came out in the laundry and it’s as good as new. GREAT SUCCESS! Anywho, I started styling this look in the KPop crop department as I have a couple of different ones from 5 Below and I love them all! I decided on the one featuring Rumi as she is my birthday girl niece’s favorite and even has a singing doll of her. Honestly, it’s really cool and I kind of want one for myself! 😀

Next up was a skirt, shorts, or jeans and I chose both of the first two options by wearing a skort. I am all about my Kyodan tennis skorts and they are so perfect for running around like crazy people with my nieces. No wardrobe malfunctions? No problem! Although the crop top is more of a cream hue, it still paired well with the crisp white of the skort and I adore the sweet movement that the school girl pleats provide. From there, it was onto shoes and accessories…

I didn’t need to browse my shoe collection because the lavender Olivia Miller platforms were an obvious choice. Once again, it wasn’t a perfect match to the purple in the crop but it was close enough and that’s all that matters to me. I got these babies for FIVE BUCKS at Walmart and am still blown away by that purchase. You just can’t beat a pair of Olivia Millers for that price! The last addition to my OOTD was a groovy pair of bedazzled purple lightening bolts that I snagged at Universal Studios. You’d be amazed at what fun jewelry you can find at zoos and amusement parks! With that, I was ready to celebrate the birthday princess on her big day!

Stay tuned for the Blooper Reel from this OOTD and remember that if you have the option to get your face painted: Go for it! It was a hoot!

Are you celebrating any birthdays soon? What would you have a face painter paint on you? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

T-Shirt Time

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T-Shirt Time

Hi! I recently enjoyed a shopping trip with my brother to Belden Village Mall as he had some gift cards to spend and I am always down to browse. It was honestly crazy being at a mall because it is the last place I think of when I want to shop. You all know that I am a TJMaxx girl! However, I think my extensive tenure working retail at Summit Mall more than makes up for my lack of going now considering I basically lived there lol. We hit up a couple of stores at Belden Village and had a great time seeing what’s good. I’ve got to give credit when it’s due because their Hot Topic ruled and I just could not say no to these hilarious graphic Ts:

When I saw the I ❤ Hot Dads shirt a la Twilight on display, I literally clutched my pearls. I am very familiar with the Twilight franchise as I had a client who adored it and, I’ll tell you what – I sure do love those hot dads lol. Sweet Charlie and Carlisle are never far from my mind and have always ranked high in my hot dad category so it’s nice to have a shirt to celebrate that. It really is too funny and I cannot wait to see the reaction I get when I wear it out in public. Twilight fans UNITE! I didn’t think it was possible that this shirt would continue to give to me but then I noticed what was underneath them on the shelves and truly couldn’t believe my eyes…

There were Supernatural shirts!!! I have another client who got me and Johnny hooked on Supernatural and we have been loving watching a couple of episodes every night. Supernatural is essentially just CSI but with ghosts with episodes that are jam packed with humor, crappy effects, and mystery. It’s a blast! Johnny and I have actually looked up Supernatural Ts before but all of them pale in comparison to the one I found at Hot Topic. It reminds me of those tie dye shirts of wolves howling at the moon at different angles and it cracks me up. I was beyond excited to show Johnny as soon as he got home and we have decided to schedule who gets to wear it and when lol. What can I say? We’re super Supernatural fans!

Shout out to Hot Topic for gifting me with these Little Treat Ts. I am obsessed!

Do you like to shop at the mall? What’s your favorite store? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Healthcare Heroes

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Healthcare Heroes

Hi! The month of August has been a whirlwind of appointments to prepare for my LEEP and tubal, have surgery, and a visit to Aspen Dental for a cleaning. This has all been a bit stressful but thanks to the expert care I received, it was basically a cake walk. My gyno, the hospital staff, and the team at my dentist’s office provided the absolute best care and I am so thankful for that. Through simple conversations and their genuine concern, so much of my anxiety was eased to the point that I walked into everything with the utmost confidence. It can be hard to track down medical practitioners that are an excellent fit for you and I feel lucky to have such a trusted team in my corner!

As you all know, my gyno has been monitoring the abnormalities in my cervix for quite a while through routine biopsies. Those were always a bit scary but it needed to be done and her calm, cool demeanor soothed the butterflies in my basket. What I have appreciated about my gyno since my first appointment with her is that she speaks in layman’s terms so I am never in the dark with even more questions. Leading up to the surgery I, of course, had a lot to clarify for my own peace of mind and she was so patient with me. By the time my surgery date rolled around, I had no questions for her or the staff as preparations were underway because all of that had been explicitly covered with my gyno. It made my surgery day such a breeze because I went in feeling totally ready for what would happen next.

A week out from my surgery, it was off to the dentist where I continued to receive exemplary care. I have been going to Aspen Dental for years and will continue to do so because I simply adore my dental hygienist. She is well aware of my nerves when it comes to dental care because of a horrible oral surgery gone wrong. During my cleanings, she allows plenty of time for me to take breaks and expertly uses story telling to take my mind off of the work she’s doing on my teeth. This past appointment, she told me all about the concerts she has attended ranging from David Bowie to Lady Gaga and I was entranced. So much so that I barely felt any nerves whatsoever throughout my appointment.

I have to go to Aspen four times per year because of my gum health and I am pleased to report that I had my best visit yet. It was so good that now I only have to go every four months! Score! Both my hygienist and dentist were so proud of me and I felt such a childlike wave of pleasure as they sung my praises. I have been working really hard on my oral health and applying their recommendations and the hard work paid off. After this great success, I just had to thank them for making going to the dentist not scary anymore and they both recalled my state during my very first appointment there because I was straight up trembling. Now, I can walk into their office with my head held high and a major phobia under control!

Having such amazing medical care is a gift that I do not take lightly. Thank you to all of the Healthcare Heroes out there for everything you do! ❤

Do you have any phobias? What is your least favorite medical appointment (I’m not fond of the eye doctor!)? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

5 Differences You Notice Instantly When You Get Your Roof Fixed

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5 Differences You Notice Instantly When You Get Your Roof Fixed

Your roof is one of those parts of the house you probably don’t think about much until something goes seriously wrong. It’s only then that you start noticing drafts, potential ceiling stains, or even the unmistakable sound of dripping water during after a storm. That’s why you can’t miss the impact of repairing a damaged roof. No matter the level of repair you need, whether you are dealing with missing shingles, age-related deterioration, or even a minor leak, investing in professional roofing repairs will not only protect the top of your home, but it will also transform how your home feels:

Does your upstairs feel freezing in the winter? It’s no wonder that roof repairs are on top of the to-do list to winterproof your home. Your roof and attic are part of the thermal boundary that protects your living space from outdoor conditions. So when your roof doesn’t fulfill its job anymore, you struggle to regulate temperatures both in winter and summer. This is because the roof also provides a strong insulating function. It ensures the outside air doesn’t come into your home through the top.

Insulation doesn’t just make your home more comfortable. It also makes it cheaper to run because your heating and cooling system doesn’t need to fight against the cold winter air (or the hot summer air) inside the house. The HVAC system doesn’t need to work harder, and therefore your energy bills also show a difference. Naturally, you should ensure that insulation is suitable throughout the entire property and not just in the roof area, but there’s no denying that the roof is one of the major ways in for outdoor air.

There’s nothing quite like heavy rain when you are worried about roof leaks. You are likely to find damp patches on the ceilings just below the roof. This can also bring musty smells and long-lasting moisture problems. When your roof can withstand the rain, you can simply chill and enjoy a cup of hot cocoa while the rain pours outside… not inside!

No, seriously, it does. The roof may not be a mind-blowing difference you’d notice in photos. But it does improve the curb appeal of the property, even if you can’t pinpoint the exact elements that elevate its appearance. There’s no discoloration in the roof, no visible missing shingles, or no sagging sections. When the roof looks the part, the entire house looks better for it.

The roof is designed to protect the structure and materials underneath it, which in short, means the entire house. Damaged roof coverings can allow wind-driven rain into a building and that unresolved damage can eventually affect the entire structure’s strength. This means moisture can damage decking, seep into insulation materials, and fragilize walls.

Fixing roofing problems early is about much more than ticking one task off the to-do list. It’s a protective layer that looks after your home and your comfort!

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5 Below Clothing Haul

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5 Below Clothing Haul

Hi!! October is my Halloween happy time but spooky season has come to stores early and it absolutely tickles me. It is so fun to see Halloween decor galore in store (I like to rhyme!) in August! While I love seeing what’s good at TJMaxx, I am always especially excited for the Halloween drop at 5 Below. Gasp! Don’t tell TJs lol but it is really nice to get spooky little somethings without feeling like I’m breaking the bank and 5 Below scratches that itch. I have had many a Halloween haul there and recently had a frighteningly good score with new PJs and a fabulous T shirt for Johnny! Check it out:

I am an avid fan of 5 Below pajamas and have an ever growing collection of their sweet and cheap lounge wear. Their PJs come in the most adorable patterns, are uber soft and comfortable, and buying a set is fourteen dollars in total. It’s such a steal! As soon as I saw their two newest Halloween PJ additions with the bears in costume and tiny ghosts, they were as good as mine and I was SO eager to bust them out. I donned my ghosts and pumpkins this weekend and they were perfect to spend some lazy days in post surgery. These PJs actually remind me a lot of the Aerie line from American Eagle as I used to covet their pricey comfortable apparel and the fourteen buck price sure beats fifty dollars for a pair of pajamas! I am in trouble if 5 Below drops more Halloween patterns in this set because I’m going to want them all!! 😀

And, of course, I couldn’t leave 5B without a little treat for Johnny too! Every spooky season 5 Below drops the most fabulous horror graphic Ts. They are seriously Hot Topic level in both style and quality and Johnny loves the Michael Myers one I got him last year. I legit gasped when I saw a Texas Chainsaw Massacre T last week because holy WOW is this shirt cool. The Texas Chainsaw Massacre is my all time favorite horror movie and, although Halloween takes the cake for Johnny, it is high up on the list for him too. This movie poster print is everything and Johnny put it on as soon as I gave it to him. It made me so happy! There are a few more that I have my eye on for the next time I end up in 5 Below’s loving embrace because there is nothing better than getting a shirt that would have costed twenty-five smackers at the mall for five. Great success!

Ghosts, teddy bears, and Leatherface – Oh my! This 5 Below Clothing Haul gave sweet with a side of scary. Stay tuned for Pajama Party OOTDs coming soon!

What is your favorite classic horror movie? Do you have your Halloween costume planned already? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

From Hobby Space To Home Office: Remodeling Your Purpose

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From Hobby Space To Home Office: Remodeling Your Purpose

Our homes have really stepped up their game lately, haven’t they? More than resting quarters, they’ve become our offices, gyms, creative studios, and even classrooms. If you’ve ever tried to make a corner of the dining room work for your sewing hobby or taken work calls from the guest bedroom, you know it’s not ideal. Refreshing your home can give you a productive and relaxing spot for your passions and your professional life:

Rethinking Your Home’s Layout:

Before you grab a sledgehammer or hit the furniture store, take a moment to really look at how your home is set up right now. Are there any rooms you barely use? Maybe that formal living room that only gets used by guests on holidays or the spare bedroom that’s become a catch-all for clutter. Either of those could be the perfect spot for your new dedicated area. Also, think about how you move through your day. Perhaps swapping the dining room and living room could create a better, more private workspace away from the main hustle and bustle. Don’t be shy about rethinking your home layout to better fit what you need now, not just what you needed when you first moved in.

Hiring for Complex Renovations:

Once you have a good idea of what you want your new space to look like, it’s time to think about the practical stuff. While painting a room or assembling flat-pack furniture is totally a doable DIY project, some jobs really do need a pro. If your dream office needs a new window for more natural light or you want to add a sink to your craft room, you’re getting into areas like building codes, electrical wiring, and plumbing. For these bigger projects, it’s smart to hire a qualified contractor. They’ll make sure the work is done safely and correctly. A professional can also help you sort out permits and ensure your new space isn’t just pretty, but also solid and up to snuff.

Creating a Dedicated Craft Zone:

For anyone with a creative hobby, having their own dedicated zone is an absolute dream. It means no more rushing to clear your project off the kitchen table for dinner, or constantly hunting for your supplies. When you’re planning your craft area, think about maximizing vertical space. Shelves, pegboards, and tall bookcases can hold a ton without eating up precious floor space. Good lighting is super important too, so aim for a mix of overhead light and a focused task lamp. You can find amazing ideas for a home office craft room that cleverly combines functionality for both work and play. The main idea is to create a spot where you can organize your tools and leave a project until inspiration strikes again.

The Rise of the Home Office:

With remote work becoming a long-term thing for many of us, a makeshift desk in the bedroom just isn’t going to cut it anymore. When setting up a proper home office, you must establish a clear boundary between your work and personal life. A good workspace should feel comfortable and actually help you get things done. Also pay attention to ergonomics and get a supportive chair or a desk at the right height to avoid aches and pains. And don’t forget about sound! Soft furnishings like rugs and curtains can help absorb sound and make your environment quieter. A dedicated office helps you mentally “clock in” at the start of the day and “clock out” when you’re finished.

Spaces That Inspire Productivity:

Ultimately, the environment should really get your creative juices flowing. This is your chance to surround yourself with things that make you happy and help you focus. Pick a wall color that feels calming or energizing to you. Add some plants to bring a bit of nature indoors and hang art that sparks your imagination. When your environment is organized and suited to your needs, it supports your well-being and boosts your office productivity. 

Remodeling a room for a new purpose is a smart investment in yourself and your daily happiness. Your home should adapt to your life and refreshing a space is the perfect way to start!

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New Wool Buddy Drop

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New Wool Buddy Drop

Hi!! For the past several months my mom has been wool felting and it is so exciting to see her try something brand new. Every project she has completed is better than the last and she is constantly improving. I’m so proud of her and I love the bumblebee she made for me! Her most recent wool buddy was a unicorn as per her granddaughter’s request for her birthday and it is, easily, her biggest and best creation yet. Her first go at the unicorn, admittedly, looked more like a giraffe so she scrapped it and tried again. The end result is SO dynamite and my niece adored it! Take a look:

This unicorn wool buddy is giving My Little Pony and I am living for it! I am genuinely so impressed by this handmade plushie and I’d be a stone cold liar if I said I didn’t want one for myself. While I am blown away by the size of the unicorn and the skill it took to make it, what I love most of all is that she tried again. Attempt One was leaving a lot to be desired and the proportions were too thin. She knew what needed to be done to improve it by bulking up the size and did exactly that. And, in doing so, hand crafted something that she was proud of too. To try again is to put forth that extra effort and really lock those skills in and I think that is so commendable. ❤

It was a total joy to collaborate with my mom because she was open to any and all suggestions to make a special gift for the birthday girl. I picked out the colors for the mane and tail and, of course, that had to include green which is the b-day princess’s favorite color. I also thought some hooves would look nice and my mom made them yellow to match the horn. The last idea I had of a My Little Pony style marking on the side did not come to fruition as my mom was a bit nervous about it but that’s okay. Maybe she will try one if she makes a unicorn for me next. After she makes me a little ladybug to go with my bumblebee, of course!!

I am seriously on pins and needles to see what my mom crafts next because this unicorn exceeded all expectations. Fabulous job, mom!!

Do you have plushies at home? Which My Little Pony is your favorite? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

How Career & Technical Education Is Reshaping The Future Of Workforce Readiness

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How Career & Technical Education Is Reshaping The Future Of Workforce Readiness

Across the United States, a quiet transformation is underway in public education. Career and Technical Education, commonly known as CTE, has evolved far beyond the shop classes and vocational programs of previous generations. Today, CTE encompasses sophisticated, industry-aligned pathways in fields like healthcare, cybersecurity, advanced manufacturing, and renewable energy. As demand for skilled workers continues to outpace supply in nearly every sector of the economy, CTE programs are emerging as one of the most effective bridges between classroom learning and meaningful employment. Understanding why this shift is happening, and what it means for students, educators, and communities, is essential for anyone invested in the future of American education:

The skills gap in the American workforce is not a future problem. It is a present-day reality that affects industries ranging from construction and logistics to information technology and healthcare. Employers consistently report difficulty finding candidates who possess the technical competencies needed to fill open positions, even as millions of workers remain underemployed or seeking better opportunities. This disconnect has prompted school districts, state governments, and federal agencies to reinvest in CTE as a strategic priority rather than a supplementary offering. According to Pew Research Center, public attitudes toward vocational and technical education have shifted significantly in recent years, with growing majorities of Americans viewing hands-on, career-focused training as a legitimate and valuable alternative to traditional four-year college pathways. That shift in perception has opened the door to serious policy investment and institutional support for CTE at every level.

Contemporary CTE is not a single program or a narrow curriculum. It is a broad ecosystem of learning experiences designed to connect academic content with real-world application. A high school student in a CTE health sciences pathway might spend mornings studying biology and chemistry, then spend afternoons in a clinical simulation lab practicing patient care skills. A student enrolled in a cybersecurity pathway might earn industry-recognized certifications before graduation, giving them a measurable credential that employers recognize immediately. Many CTE programs now include work-based learning components such as internships, apprenticeships, and job shadowing, which allow students to build professional networks and gain practical experience while still in school. These programs are increasingly co-designed with industry partners, ensuring that what students learn in the classroom reflects the actual demands of the workplace.

The success of any CTE program depends fundamentally on the quality of its instructors. This is where a significant challenge emerges. Unlike traditional academic subjects, CTE courses are ideally taught by professionals who have direct industry experience, people who have actually worked as electricians, nurses, software developers, or welders. Recruiting and retaining these individuals as classroom teachers is not straightforward. Many face credentialing barriers, unfamiliar with the certification processes required to teach in public schools. Others find the transition from a private sector career to an educational setting daunting without adequate support and mentorship. Investing in cte training for teachers is therefore not a peripheral concern but a central strategy for ensuring that CTE programs deliver on their promise.

The evidence supporting CTE as an effective educational model is substantial and growing. Students who complete a CTE concentration consistently demonstrate higher graduation rates, stronger post-secondary enrollment, and better early career earnings compared to their peers. Communities benefit as well. When local schools produce graduates with the technical skills that regional employers need, it reduces talent shortages, supports economic development, and strengthens the tax base. States that have made sustained investments in CTE infrastructure have seen measurable improvements in workforce readiness metrics, and the return on investment for public funding of CTE programs has been documented across multiple independent analyses.

The most effective CTE programs do not exist in isolation. They are built on deliberate, ongoing partnerships between schools and the industries they serve. These partnerships take many forms. Local businesses may donate equipment or provide guest instructors. Regional employers may collaborate with school districts to develop curriculum that reflects current industry standards. Community colleges and universities may create articulation agreements that allow CTE students to earn college credit while still in high school, reducing the time and cost of post-secondary education. Workforce development boards and economic development agencies increasingly see CTE as a core component of regional talent pipelines and are investing accordingly. The challenge for educators and policymakers is to formalize and sustain these relationships so that they outlast individual champions and become structural features of the educational landscape. When industry and education operate as genuine partners rather than parallel systems, the results for students and communities are consistently stronger.

The momentum behind CTE today reflects a broader recognition that there is no single right pathway through education and into a fulfilling career. What matters is that every pathway is well-designed, well-taught, and genuinely connected to opportunity!

Hurray For 37K!

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Hurray For 37K!

Howdy! As you all know, I am a word girl through and through and writing on my blog is my favorite form of content creating. I begrudgingly scroll through Facebook and very rarely watch videos because I just don’t want to lol. This sentiment remains even though I have a TikTok now! The only videos I watch are the ones my best friend posts and that is all I need! Although I don’t care to watch videos, I have learned that making them is kind of fun and have enjoyed making daily content for my TikTok for the past year and change. My expectations for my TikTok is negative zero but I do feel pretty proud of it as I am not a video girl whatsoever. Which is why I am pleased to report that I just had a 10K come up!

During my last TikTok check in in February, I had 27K likes and gained 10K more in the past half a year. Is 37K likes an outrageous amount? Not in the slightest. Is my self worth based on the number of likes I get? Only slightly. Lol, I kid!! But, hey, I think it’s cool and that’s all that matters. Yes, my videos get like three hundred views. No, I am not a Spielberg level content creator. However, making TikToks just opens up another pathway to be creative in social media and that it what I like the best! My TikTok is essentially just an extension of my blog and it’s exciting to introduce lifewithlilred to potential new viewers.

Starting my TikTok was such a spur of the moment thing that took me far outside of my comfort zone which is why it’s important to me to celebrate big milestones. I definitely consider this 10K increase to be one! Somewhere out there are three hundred people taking the time to watch my subpar videos and, to me, that’s meaningful. My blog started with the mission of making new friends and I feel the same way about my TikTok page. In the great big void of constant video uploads, there could be a new friend, a new reader, or someone simply just passing by. My videos are a little glimpse into Lil Red’s world just like my blog is and I SO appreciate any and all love for it. ❤

50K TikTok likes is my next goal and I am going to be elated when that happens. Stop by my TikTok to help me reach it!

What is your favorite social media platform? How often do you post on social media? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

WE SAW IT!!!!!

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WE SAW IT!!!!!

Hi! After celebrating my bestie girl’s engagement, Johnny and I continued the festivities by celebrating another monumental occasion: The Oscar Mayer Weenie Mobile made a stop in downtown Cuyahoga Falls. As the brewery we were at for the engagement partay was just down the street from our downtown hub called the Riverfront, Johnny and I obviously had to make a cameo. My Johnny is a hot dog loving guy. Lol so much so that he even has one tattooed on his arm! Needless to say, seeing the Weenie Mobile IRL was a must and we scored big time. Johnny got a Weenie Whistle as well as a hilarious sticker with the Weenie Mobile on it that simply says “I SAW IT”. We came, we saw, and it was a hoot!

^^^ Pure ecstasy!!

Downtown Cuyahoga Falls rules and it has been spruced up so nicely over the years as a one stop destination for shopping, dining, and community events. There are countless sweet boutiques and antique shops, a delicious ice creamery, and a candy store that we love taking our nieces to for a shopping spree. Their parents can deal with the sugar rush afterwards! 😀 The Riverfront also hosts lots of concerts, festivals, and movie nights as a lovely way for the community to come together and have some fun. There are splash pads in the summer, a skating rink in the winter, and fireworks on special occasions. We are very lucky to have this spot for folks young and old to enjoy throughout the year.

All of the aforementioned is great but, honestly, the Oscar Mayer Weenie Mobile really took the cake lol. I have been to many a Riverfront event with excellent turnouts but the joint was JUMPING on Weenie Mobile day – as it should! There were food trucks galore, music playing, kiddos running around in the splash pads, games, face painting, and basically every Cuyahoga Falls resident within a ten mile radius. We were there for the Oscar Mayer but stayed for the true joy of being out and about with our friends and neighbors. There is nothing better than an entire community coming together and the Riverfront does exactly that. If the Weenie Mobile comes around more often, then I think we have lots of evenings in downtown CFalls to look forward to!

WE SAW IT and our lives are the better for it. Shout out to my hometown for kicking ass and taking names!!

Do you have an event center in your neck of the woods? Does your city host festivals often? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Fetching In Flowers OOTD Bloopers

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Fetching In Flowers OOTD Bloopers

Hello everyone and welcome to the Blooper Reel from my Fetching In Flowers OOTD! This lil look was worn to celebrate my lil BFF on her engagement and the most fabulous time was had by all. And the good times are just going to keep rolling because it’s wedding planning time, baby! I am elated to help my best girl in any way she needs for her big day and I honestly can’t wait for her big day to get here because Johnny and I simply come alive at a wedding. The last one we will have attended prior to bestie’s was in May of this year so it will be a long time coming. Bring it on!! And bring on these yikes shots too for good measure:

I haven’t had a surgical procedure since I was twenty and there were some things that really stuck out twelve years later when I got my LEEP and tubal. For example, I was able to pop a Zanny basically as soon as I got into the room before my operation and that was a really nice touch lol. I wouldn’t say I was over the top nervous but I definitely had anxiety and I wasn’t not going to take a Xanax that a literal nurse offered to me! This was the best case “someone offers you drugs” scenario! I even got an Orange & Ginger scent clip attached to my gown to soothe any nausea and nerves that the Xanax didn’t tackle. But I’m pretty sure the pill did the trick all on its own. 😀

Speaking of gowns… Have y’all had a surgery lately because WHAT EVEN?! The paper gown that I had on had a flap that could be pulled up which revealed a spot where you could insert a tube. Obviously, I had to see what that was all about and these gowns attach to a heating/cooling device! My mind was blown! My nurse started it up for me and before I knew it, my gown was being inflated with warm air and I looked like the Marshmallow Man lol. The heat felt nice but it was mainly just funny to watch my gown blow up like that. Were any of these upgrades really necessary to my surgical experience? Not really but I sure enjoyed it!

Prior to my surgery (And after!), I got treated to all kinds of good stuff. I would say the Xanax took the cake but that inflatable gown act was truly something special!

What helps ease your anxiety? Which scent do you consider calming? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

6 Smart Ways To Lower The Cost Of Travel

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6 Smart Ways To Lower The Cost Of Travel

If you love to travel but hate the price tag that comes with it, then this guide is for you. We are going to look at some of the most brilliant ways people have come up with to lower the cost of flying overseas and experiencing new cultures and adventures. Here are some of the ways you can cut expenses without sacrificing trip quality:

If you’re looking to travel at a lower cost then going in the shoulder seasons is the obvious solution. February to May and September to November tend to be far cheaper, which is something you’ll notice if you regularly book flights throughout the year. What’s more, many destinations are still worth visiting during these shoulder seasons. Weather is often pleasant, avoiding extreme heat or cold.

We’d also recommend using flight deal alerts to lower the cost of travel. For many trips, the cost of the flight is the biggest item and often larger than staying in accommodation, especially if you’re traveling to a long-distance destination. Signing up for airfare is easy these days. Just find your favorite flight aggregator and get them to send you their weekly newsletter. They can tell you which destinations will be cheaper to book for the following week, giving you more flexibility.

There are numerous competitions available these days that allow you to win back money on your travel expenses. Playing a lot of these on average can help you reduce the cost of your travel significantly and even enable you to get things that you wouldn’t ordinarily be able to obtain on a regular budget. The key here is volume. The more games you play, the more likely you are to win. Many games are free to enter.

Flights are usually the largest travel expense with accommodations coming in second. You can lower your budget significantly by looking into alternatives to conventional rentals or hotel stays. For example, you might sign up for a house-sitting platform or go to reputable hostels with private rooms. You could also look at short-term apartment rentals away from sightseeing hot spots. All of these options can significantly lower the price of staying in a particular city or location.

Another popular option is to travel light to avoid baggage fees. More people are mastering the art of packing everything they need into a single personal item-sized backpack. Most airlines won’t charge for this as long as it’s under around 7 kg. When you travel light, you avoid the hassle of stowing your regular baggage or having to pick it up from baggage collection. Usually, you can save around 10 to 15% of the price of a flight by traveling this way.

Finally, to seriously cut the cost of travel, you could skip the restaurants located directly next to major tourist monuments and go to the ones that the locals use instead. The best way to find these is to look for eateries outside the city center with hundreds of thousands of reviews on Google Maps.

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Travel smarter and cheaper with the tips above! Bon voyage!

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Surgery Story

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Surgery Story

Howdy! This past Tuesday I had a LEEP procedure done to remove precancerous cells from my cervix and I got a tubal as well and it went swimmingly. Johnny, my knight in shining armor, got me to the hospital for my seven o’clock check in and then it was all systems go. Between visits from registration, nurses, my gyno and surgeon, and the anesthesiologists (I can’t believe I spelled that right on the first go!) time moved at a rapid pace and before I knew it, it was nine o’clock and I was off to the OR! My two surgeries lasted about an hour and a half, I woke up in the recovery room two hours later, and we were basically on our way home as soon as I was awake. It felt SO good to go home and lay down some more!

My day after surgery consisted of laying in bed, drinking Gatorade, watching TV, and playing Pokopia and my Johnny waited on me hand and foot. He has been the absolute sweetest! The night after my surgery was the worst, though, because I was pretty much up all night trying to get comfortable. I am a belly sleeper and having to sleep on my back because of my stitches was just not happening. Therefore, the following day consisted of laying in bed, drinking Gatorade, watching TV, and playing Pokopia lol. Johnny even took that day off of work too to care for me since I was still fairly out of it. ❤

I am writing this two days out of surgery in case you can’t tell and am feeling okay. I actually ended up sleeping thirteen hours last night to make up for that first night of no sleep. It felt heavenly!! However, I am still really tired, somewhat sore, and TMI but constipated as all get out lol. And here I was thinking that I would go back to work the day after my operation SMH!! I definitely needed this recovery time though and am glad that I took it because despite the pain, it has been nice to have a few days off. 😀

This entire ordeal has been a bit crazy but I am so thankful to Johnny, my amazing gyno, and the hospital staff for taking the best care of me. The time at the hospital was a whirlwind but even in my froggy state on the way home, I couldn’t stop thinking about how lucky I was. My precancer was caught early and removed, I finally was able to have my tubes removed which is what I have always wanted, and I had a full team behind me ensuring expert care. Any kind of surgery is scary and there were several butterflies in my basket on the way to the hospital but all of those nerves were eased as the process got started. Or maybe it was the Xanax they gave me? Lol the jury is still out on that! But, in conclusion, I am feeling good enough to type this monologue today and that is a strong start!

I apologize for the rambling but even post op, your girl refuses to break her daily content streak and I wanted to update all of you. As relaxing as these days off were, I am ready to get back to the grind!

How has your week been? Do you have any exciting updates? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Fetching In Flowers OOTD

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Fetching In Flowers OOTD

Hi! This past Friday we had the greatest joy of celebrating my best friend’s engagement and it was the most wonderful time! A gathering of bestie and her fiance’s family and friends all met at HiHo Brewing Company for some drinks and good old fashioned Tom foolery and we were so honored to share in the happiness of the beautiful couple. Of course, a partay called for some fancy dress and I LOVE styling special occasion OOTDs. It was, unfortunately, hot and muggy AF on Friday but this little fit kept me somewhat cool. Let’s just say I was thrilled to take it off as soon as I got home lol check it out:

Button Down Dress: Zara

Platform Heels: Marc Fisher, TJMaxx

Earrings: Lucky Brand

To begin styling this look, I knew I wanted to wear a dress but the question was which one. A majority of the dresses in my collection felt way too casual while others were too fancy for a get together at a brewery. I needed something hey diddle diddle, right down the middle for the event and was in business when my eyes landed on this little number by Zara. This button down dress is oh so chic with its silky material, slightly oversized fit, inky black flowers, and corset tie sides. It feels dressy without feeling like the queen of England and just right for a summer evening celebration. It was a huge hit at the party and blessedly no one could tell I was sweating buckets underneath lol.

It was WAY too hot for any extra additions to this outfit, which now brings us to shoes and accessories. I wanted the striking pattern of the dress to do all of the talking so kept things simple with my go to pair of Marc Fisher platforms. The ballet slipper pink added such a sweet pastel pop to the bold dress which I adored because the easy choice would have been a pair of black heels! For one more pop of color, I added my favorite pair of dangly turquoise cross earrings and was ready to see my bestie in the best style! ❤

Although this outfit didn’t have many bells and whistles, it felt so effortlessly cool and sometimes simple is best. Stay tuned for the Blooper Reel coming soon!

Are you attending any upcoming weddings? What is your special occasion style? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Best Weekend Ever!!

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Best Weekend Ever!!

Hi!! This past Friday was the most fantastic, wonderful day because my Johnny and I got to celebrate the engagement of my best friend of almost two decades, Lea! Her fiance, Zack, planned this day so beautifully with a proposal at the Cleveland Botanical Gardens and a party with family and friends afterwards at the HiHo Brewing Company. We had the best time mingling with friends new and old and it was so special to be a part of my best girl’s big day. I am beyond excited to be included in all of the wedding fun but the most excited for Lea to be treated like the queen she is every day. She truly deserves nothing less! ❤

Ever since our freshman year of high school in *gasp* 2008, Lea and I have been with each other through thick and thin. For two years shy of twenty, we have been together for wins and losses, birthdays and holidays, and transitioning from clueless teens to slightly less clueless adults lol. I would not want anyone other than her by my side and am so incredibly lucky to have a friend like her. My Lea is the most hilarious, selfless, kind, intelligent person and to know her really is to love her. She lights up a room with her infectious smile and laugh and treats everyone she meets like a dear friend. It has been such a joy to essentially grow up with her and it has brought us into the here and now on her big engagement! ❤

Johnny and I were both so touched to have been thought of to join the engagement partay and it meant the world to share in the happy couple’s happiness!!! Both Lea and Zack were glowing and it legit radiated as if a spotlight were on them. My main squeeze and I have really been enjoying getting to know Zack since they started dating and he has always been a part of our ragtag family. It’s just official now!! I can’t wait to watch their relationship continue to blossom as they prepare for their biggest adventure yet. I will be there cheering them on and probably crying a little every step of the way!!

Here’s to my best girl on her engagement!! I love you forever and a day, darling!!!

How long have you been friends with your bestie? Do you have any special occasions coming up? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

TJMaxx Skin Care Haul

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TJMaxx Skin Care Haul

Hi! This past Tuesday I went to TJMaxx on my break as I needed a skin care restock and wanted to browse for upcoming birthday gifts for a couple of my bestie girls. I had great success on both counts and actually ran into one of my bestie girls! While I was perusing the skin care, I sensed a presence beside me who seemed to follow me in step. I felt like I was blocking whomever from their shopping and felt SO awkward and it kept happening. Finally, I turned to the person to apologize and it ended up being my BFF of eighteen years, Lea!! Omg did we have a laugh and after we parted ways I texted her with “you scare me :(” lol because she really did! It made my TJs trip even more magical and I walked away with the following skin care goodies:

For my skin care I was on the market for a new moisturizer, serums, an eye cream, and a scrub. And, of course, I never say no to my go to micellar water if it is available! Selecting a moisturizer was an incredibly easy choice because I actually purchased the same Goodness moisturizer a few months ago, am using it now, and am absolutely LOVING it. The Goodness Every Morning Moisturizer is really rich despite its thinner texture and feels like clouds when I apply it. It is ultra hydrating and leaves my skin feeling soft as can be and looking refreshed. The last moisturizer I used was a total dud and the Goodness brand was a total breath of fresh air the first time I used it. I will happily continue buying it as long as it’s available!

As far as my preferred serums go, TJMaxx always seems to have Glow Elixir and Precision Beauty in stock and I am a fan of them both. Like the Goodness moisturizer, it was a no brainer decision to pick up a few in my tried and true Collagen + Vitamin C formula for a dose of radiance in my beauty routine. A scrub was also needed as I had just finished up one of my favorites by ValJean Labs. In fact, I used it up this very morning. I really enjoy their products and was hoping to find the same scrub to use again. The shelves were bare in that regard but I did find a ValJean Labs eye serum that I am looking forward to trying! I opted for a Vitamin C & Turmeric scrub by Skin 2.0 which is a brand I have never used before. I’ll get my introduction tomorrow so stay tuned for a review coming soon. 😀

Prezzies, skin care, and a bestie sighting – oh my! This TJMaxx trip had it all and I can’t wait to use the new to me products and gift my beloveds with what I found for them! ❤

Do you like to shop alone or with someone? What are your go to skin care brands? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

How The Disposable Camera Became A Live Photo Feed

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How The Disposable Camera Became A Live Photo Feed

Every wedding reception used to have one, sitting quietly beside the centerpiece: a small cardboard box camera with a hand-lettered tag asking guests to snap a photo before dinner started. For decades, that little camera was the only proof that people had actually been there. It captured blurry toasts, someone’s shoe mid-dance-move, a candid laugh nobody staged. The story of how event hosts collect and share guest memories has quietly evolved from that single disposable box into something far more immediate, and tracing that path says a lot about how celebrations themselves have changed:

Before digital photography became common, capturing a wedding or milestone birthday meant relying almost entirely on a hired photographer and a handful of guests who happened to bring their own film cameras. Disposable cameras became popular in the 1990s specifically because they solved a real problem: they gave every guest, not just the professional, a way to contribute their own version of the day. Hosts would order a dozen or more, scatter them across tables, and hope enough came back with usable shots. The catch was that nobody saw the results until the film was developed, often weeks later, long after the excitement had faded. Guests never got to see their own contributions, and hosts had to sort through blurry, double-exposed rolls hoping for a handful of keepers.

As digital cameras became affordable in the early 2000s, event photography shifted again. Photo booths entered the scene, offering instant printed strips that guests could take home immediately. This was a meaningful step forward for the guest experience specifically, because for the first time, attendees received something tangible on the spot rather than waiting weeks. Photo booths turned picture-taking into an activity rather than a passive request. But they still required guests to physically visit a designated corner of the venue, wait in line, and pose within a fixed backdrop. Candid moments happening across the room, the flower girl asleep on a chair, an unplanned group hug, still went uncaptured unless someone happened to have a camera in hand at the right second.

By the 2010s, nearly every guest at every event carried a high-quality camera in their pocket. This should have solved the memory-collection problem entirely, and in some ways it did. Photos multiplied by the thousands at a typical wedding or corporate gathering. But a new challenge quietly emerged: those photos were scattered across hundreds of personal phones, buried in camera rolls, and rarely shared with the host at all. The Pew Research Center studies how people use mobile technology to document and share personal moments, and the broader pattern it has tracked over the past decade mirrors what event hosts experienced firsthand: people take more photos than ever, but sharing them widely and quickly remained the bottleneck. A guest might snap a wonderful candid shot and simply forget to send it, or hesitate to hunt down an email address at the reception.

The response to that bottleneck has been the most significant development in the history of event photo collection. Rather than asking guests to remember to email or text photos later, event technology now lets attendees upload images the moment they take them, directly into a single shared collection everyone can see grow throughout the night. A guest simply scans a printed card on the table using their phone’s camera, and within seconds their photo joins everyone else’s in one running album. This is where the humble disposable camera’s original purpose, giving every attendee a way to contribute, finally caught up with the speed of modern life. Many couples and event planners now set out a small printed card featuring a qr code for photo sharing so that guests can add their pictures to a communal album in real time, without downloading an app or creating an account. The simplicity of that single scan is what makes it work: no waiting weeks for film, no standing in a booth line, no photos left stranded on someone’s phone.

For the person attending the event, the difference is enormous. Instead of feeling like an outside observer whose photos might never be seen, a guest becomes an active contributor to a living record of the day that updates in real time. Someone can watch the album fill up during the reception itself, seeing a shot they took next to one taken by a stranger across the room minutes earlier. This has changed the emotional tone of how people participate at weddings and celebrations. Guests no longer have to choose between enjoying the moment and documenting it, because contributing takes seconds rather than minutes. Hosts, in turn, receive a far more complete and candid picture of their own event than any single photographer could capture alone, since dozens of vantage points are being recorded simultaneously throughout the night.

What stands out when looking at this history is how consistent the underlying goal has remained even as the tools changed completely. Disposable cameras, photo booths, and today’s instant shared albums were all built to answer the same question: how do you let every guest help tell the story of the day, and get to see the result? Each generation of technology solved the previous one’s biggest frustration, first eliminating the wait for developed film, then eliminating the need to physically visit a booth, and now eliminating the friction of manually sending photos to a central collection. The celebration itself hasn’t changed, people still want to gather, laugh, and remember. What has changed is how quickly and completely that memory gets assembled, and how included every single guest feels in building it.

Looking back at that cardboard camera on the reception table, it is easy to see it not as an outdated relic but as the first attempt at something event hosts have been refining ever since: turning a room full of individual moments into one shared story. The tools have gotten faster and simpler, but the instinct behind them, wanting every guest’s perspective to count, has stayed exactly the same!

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Wish Me Luck!

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Wish Me Luck!

Hi! As you all know, I have been having my cervical health monitored for the past year and change as my pap smears have shown abnormalities. These problems can resolve themselves but mine have not and my official diagnosis as per my last biopsy is moderate cervical dysplasia. Meaning that these abnormalities are precancerous. Scary? Yes. Fixable? Yes. And I will be having surgery tomorrow. Not only will I be getting the LEEP procedure done to remove the problematic cells via electricity but I will also be getting my tubes tied as well. Johnny and I do not want children and I figure that I might as well get it done while I’m already under anesthesia! (I also can’t believe I spelled anesthesia right on the first go. GOOD FOR ME!)

While this is all a little overwhelming, I mainly feel good about it and have been looking forward to it since my gyno told me we have to go the surgical route. I’m one of those people that once I know that something needs to be done, I want it done ASAFP so waiting for the past month and a half has been torturous! It has been over a decade since I have had a surgical procedure done and I would say my nervousness is at a solid ten percent which isn’t bad. It would be higher if I didn’t have full trust and confidence in my gyno who will be performing my surgeries. She has provided me with the most excellent care and I know that the LEEP and tubal will be successful.

I will definitely be in the best hands with the surgical team and my Johnny is going to be there every step of the way which really eases the butterflies in my basket. Although my nervousness is at a ten percent, excitement makes up the other ninety because this has all been a massive pain in the keister lol. Also is it bad that part of my excitement isn’t coming from solving my moderate cervical dysplasia? Because I’ve been fantasizing about the post op Taco Bell something FIERCE and I am not the slightest bit ashamed to admit it. Hey, I have to have something to look forward to to face the discomfort once everything is said and done!

If you are a person with women’s parts, I cannot emphasize enough how important your gynecological care is. Through early detection you can stop precancerous cells in their tracks. Here’s to scheduling an appointment with your gyno today and here’s to me for tomorrow. Wish me luck!

Have you had to have surgery? What was your recovery like? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

New Goosebumps Green & Sky Blue Nails

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New Goosebumps Green & Sky Blue Nails

Howdy! This past Tuesday I enjoyed a phenomenal fill on my break from work and it was just the best. TMI, but I started my period SO hard so to be able to take an hour and zone out to HGTV while I was pampered gave me a renewed pep in my step for the rest of the day. There is nothing like a fresh fill to get me feeling myself even when I am feeling miserable! I don’t know about all of you but I am more than ready for fall. In fact, I have been since last fall lol. Before the hopefully chilly days of September, I had to do one more hurrah for summer with brightly hued nails. Then it is onto the deep lush shades of autumn! Check it out:

As I perused my nail polish options, the neon green caught my eye and I went from there. My first thought was to pair it with orange but I already used that color during my last fill. Then, I thought about a lemon lime motif but already did that too! As I mentally vetoed all of my ideas I was left with a massive question mark until I saw the pretty sky blue and I was back in business, baby. These colors are summer sky and freshly mowed grass which is truly what I see. Other people had different opinions, though!

When my nail tech was done shaping and sharpening my acrylics to perfection, she painted on the green and described it as Goosebumps Green. She was not wrong and it gave me a hankering for Halloween something FIERCE! I think I’ll have to revisit this shade come spooky season regardless of just using it recently! Goosebumps was definitely on my mind and then it shifted to something totally different when I saw my brother. He said that it looked like a globe and now I can’t unsee it because it really does lol. All these nails need is a little airplane and map markings and they would make for the cutest travel theme. Summer sky and freshly mowed grass turned into a Goosebumps globe and I can’t say I’m mad at it! ❤

The most wonderful time of the year is soon to be upon us and I am SO excited to ring in a new season of fall fashion and fun here on lifewithlilred. Keep it posted!

How often do you get your nails done? Where is your happy place? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Rad At Rad Air

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Rad At Rad Air

Hi! A few weeks ago my car broke down in a major way and I knew exactly where I was going to have it towed to be worked on: Rad Air, of course! I am blessed to have a fantastic auto shop literally right down the street from my apartment and have been taking my car there for years. I admit, it can be intimidating for me to take my car in for repairs because I legit know nothing about cars lol. However, in all of my time going there I never once felt out of my league. Rather, I felt welcomed by the genuine hospitality of the employees and forever have full confidence in their excellent work and more than fair prices. It really is a gift to be able to take your car to a shop that you trust completely!

All of my experiences at Rad Air have been 12/10 but this past repair really took the cake. My car is an older model and parts had to be ordered which took a bit longer than expected. That was no matter, though, because they gave me a loaner car free of charge. As my parents only have one vehicle, I would have had to miss work without the loaner and that was SO appreciated since I am self employed. I got to drive myself everywhere I needed to be in a fancy Ford Fusion and although I missed my car terribly, I very much enjoyed the sun roof and functioning radio. My radio went kaput a year ago so having some tunes instead of dead silence for a few days was a thrill lol.

While my car was being tended to, I was kindly updated by the staff on its progress and couldn’t wait to pick my baby up! I even scored a sweet deal on the cost thanks to a seventy-five dollar off coupon which helped a lot. 😀 When I was finally behind the wheel of the Little Red Love Machine, I honestly couldn’t believe it. My almost fifteen year old car was running as if it was brand new. In fact, driving it home reminded me of the day I drove it home during a huge snow storm in 2014 when I purchased it. It was all sunshine this time! 🙂

As soon as I got home, I just had to give my go to shop a little shout out on Facebook and was absolutely tickled by their reply. Rad Air really is the only place I would take my Little Red Love Machine!

The moral of this story? That good work never goes unappreciated by me and to always shop around until you find a place that you are comfortable taking your car to. Rad Air for life!! ❤

Where do you take your car for repairs? How long have you had your car? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

What A Duty-Free Harbor Adds To The Value Of A Ring

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What A Duty-Free Harbor Adds To The Value Of A Ring

Jewelry shopping looks remarkably similar from one glass counter to the next: Velvet trays, loupes, and patient staff walking a customer through clarity grades and carat weights. But the industry behind that counter changes dramatically depending on where in the world it sits. Tax structures, sourcing relationships, certification customs, and even the pace of a sales conversation shift from region to region, and those differences quietly shape what a shopper actually gets for their money. Most buyers never think to ask why a ring costs less in one place than another or why an appraisal in one city looks different from one issued somewhere else. Understanding those regional mechanics reveals benefits that rarely make it into the conversation at the counter:

Duty and tax policy is one of the most consequential, least visible forces in retail jewelry. A diamond or gemstone that crosses an international border typically picks up import duties, value-added tax, or sales tax layered on top of the wholesale cost. In jurisdictions designated as duty-free, those layers disappear or shrink substantially, which is why certain ports and island territories have built entire retail districts around fine jewelry. The savings are not a gimmick or a markdown; they reflect a genuine difference in the cost structure a retailer operates under. A ring that would carry a noticeably higher final price in a heavily taxed market can be priced more competitively in a duty-free one, with the same materials and the same craftsmanship. Buyers who understand this distinction shop with more confidence, because they know the discount is structural rather than promotional.

Certain regions develop deep, generational expertise in particular gemstones simply because of trade routes, historical ties, or proximity to cutting and polishing centers. A retailer in a region with strong ties to Colombian emerald trade routes tends to carry more emeralds and employ staff who can speak knowledgeably about clarity characteristics unique to that stone. A retailer near historic diamond cutting centers may have stronger access to well-cut, well-calibrated diamonds at competitive prices. This regional specialization means a buyer often gets better selection and more informed guidance on the stones a given area is known for, compared to a general jewelry counter with no particular concentration.

Certification and appraisal practices are not identical everywhere and that variation matters more than most shoppers realize. Some regions have well-established networks of independent gemological labs that issue widely recognized grading reports, while others rely more heavily on in-house appraisals. Neither approach is inherently better, but understanding which is in play helps a buyer interpret the paperwork they receive. In the United States, the Federal Trade Commission oversees how jewelers describe metal content, gemstone treatments, and pricing claims, which gives shoppers a consistent baseline of disclosure regardless of which state or territory they are in. That regulatory consistency is itself a regional advantage worth recognizing, since it means a buyer working with a retailer under that oversight can expect certain disclosures as a matter of course rather than as a courtesy.

Some of the most meaningful regional benefits show up in ordinary, unglamorous ways. A traveler who spends an afternoon browsing st thomas jewelry stores, for instance, is shopping in a market shaped by decades of cruise tourism, duty-free status, and a concentration of retailers competing for a well-traveled, comparison-minded clientele. That competitive density tends to push service quality up: longer appointment times, more willingness to source a specific cut or setting on request, and staff accustomed to explaining grading terminology to buyers who may be shopping for fine jewelry only once every few years. None of this appears on a sign or a receipt, but it changes the actual experience of buying a piece. A buyer in a less concentrated market might find fewer options for immediate comparison, while one in a dense, tourism-driven district benefits from retailers who have every incentive to make the buying process transparent and unhurried.

Taken together, these regional distinctions add up to something buyers rarely articulate but often sense: the feeling that one jewelry shopping experience was smoother, more informative, or better priced than another, without quite knowing why. The reasons are structural. Tax policy determines baseline pricing. Trade history determines which stones a region handles with the most expertise. Regulatory environment determines what disclosures a buyer can expect as standard practice. Tourism density determines how competitive and service-oriented a local market becomes. None of these factors require a buyer to become an expert in international trade or gemology. They simply reward a little curiosity about where a piece is being purchased and why that place developed the retail character it has. A buyer who asks a jeweler about sourcing, certification, or how long the business has operated in that location often gets a richer answer than they expected, and a better sense of what makes that particular market distinctive.

Fine jewelry will always be judged first by the piece itself: the cut, the setting, the way a stone catches light. But the market surrounding that piece, shaped by geography, taxation, trade history, and regulation, plays a larger role in the buying experience than most people ever stop to consider!

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Comfy Cozy OOTD

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Comfy Cozy OOTD

Hi! Going to the movies is one of my favorite things in the world and I love checking out what’s hot in horror or anything else that strikes my interest on the big screen. I frequent the local Cinemark with Johnny, my friends, and family at least twice a month and there is just nothing better than loading up on snacks and getting lost in the cinematic universe for a few hours. As you all know, I love to dress up for any and every occasion but that was so not the case the last two times I hit up the movie theater. The live recording of Hadestown and The Odyssey were both long AF and, for once, I could not be bothered to dress for cuteness lol. In those situations, it was all about comfort to settle into the almost three hour flicks! Check it out:

Rock On Hoodie: Zoe + Liv, Target

The sweats are just an old pair I work out in lol – like I said, I could not be bothered for cuteness!

Sneakers: Adidas, TJMaxx

Wow! That’s a totally different look than what you usually see me in but the thing is, this is how I look 95% of the time! During the work week, I am sporting no makeup, a hoodie or t-shirt, and jeans or shorts. The OOTDs I post on here are reserved for weekend dates with Johnny and outings with friends. Johnny and I both get up at the buttcrack of dawn for work and I just don’t have the time or desire to get myself done up to meet with clients or do content shoots after my morning work from home rush. And you know what? That’s okay!

Back when I was a teen and early twenty something, I would have been shocked to read myself say I go to work comfy and bare faced a decade later. In the olden days, I wouldn’t have left the house without makeup and a cute outfit! As I have gotten older, however, I simply don’t care as much lol. My clients all know what I look like, my content shoots all revolve around working outside, and I would rather eat a good breakfast and watch an anime in the morning over doing my makeup. That is honestly my favorite part of the morning and I wouldn’t have it any other way. 😀

No matter what I leave the house in whether it’s a full fit or lounge wear, I’m rocking it because I’m me. And the same goes for you too! This Comfy Cozy OOTD is a reminder that what you see online is usually far from what you see in real life. That’s why I’m posting this outfit and share bloopers from my OOTD shoots because that’s Lil Red too! I might look put together in the clothes I style, but I am still a goofy, imperfect, often fresh faced gal and don’t care who knows it. Especially because I was probably the comfiest person in the theater when I saw The Odyssey!! Lol GREAT SUCCESS.

This is Lil Red IRL but trust and believe I will be putting a few killer OOTDs together this weekend for the plans in my calendar. Stay tuned for the latest and greatest! ❤

How do you dress on a normal day? How are you required to dress for work? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Groovy Movies: The Odyssey Edition

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Groovy Movies: The Odyssey Edition

Hi! This past weekend I enjoyed a fabulous viewing of the latest blockbuster, The Odyssey. I went into it not really knowing what to expect and, I admit, I was a bit ambivalent. Primarily because the almost three hour run time is daunting and I was worried I was going to have to go to the bathroom the whole time lol. I am pleased to report that I didn’t need a potty break once and that this lengthy flick simply breezed by. By the time it was over, it was like no time had passed at all and I was genuinely sad that it was done. It was SO good and I wanted more!! Before we begin our spoiler free discussion, I will be placing a trigger warning on The Odyssey for animal cruelty. You ready? Let’s go!

^^^ As always, I have no rights to this video!

Odysseus, King of Ithaca, led the Trojan War and it is now time to make his way home to his wife and son, Penelope and Telemachus. It will be no easy feat to make his way back to his kingdom but he has his soldiers who are loyal and his love for his family to guide him home. And then… It all goes to Hades in a hand basket and for twenty years, everyone believes King Odysseus to be dead. In that time, Penelope is being courted to take up a new king but her heart only yearns for her husband. She confesses her fear of attacks on her kingdom to her son and Telemachus decides to go on his own adventure to locate his father.

Through interweaving story lines, we see Telemachus’s quest as well as what went so horribly wrong through Odysseus’s memories. On his journey home from war, he and his crew don’t just face the elements of hellacious storms and a lack of wind to sail, but mythical creatures that block their paths. They have run ins with a cyclops, Circe the witch, and sirens. One by one, his faithful soldiers are being killed off until it is only Odysseus left.

After years of travel, Odysseus falls under the care of Calypso who is a nymph and becomes infatuated with him. Rather than help him return home, she drugs him with an amnesia inducing flower. She denies Athena’s request to bring Odysseus home but does encourage him to remember what brought him to her in the first place. This could not come at a moment too soon as tensions raise in his kingdom for Penelope to select a new king. It is time for Odysseus to reign once more if he can make it back to Ithaca. Will he survive to return as husband, father, and king? Watch The Odyssey to find out!

I have no comments on The Odyssey but to sing its praises. The star studded cast was top tier and everyone was acting their hearts out. The cinematography? Moving. The scenery? Awe inspiring. The pacing? Chef’s kiss. Three hour movies can feel like they are dragging but The Odyssey plowed forward at such a rapid pace. The timing that Christopher Nolan created was spot on. Lulls in the story were instantly replaced by nonstop action and I was fully engrossed the entire time. In fact, it felt very similarly to watching a Lord Of The Rings movie, which was a delightful hit right in the nostalgia.

Christopher Nolan is a visionary and he guided his cast and crew with such care. The Odyssey is a HUGE story to tackle and everything about this movie felt so perfectly in place. I could tell that he put his heart and soul into making this movie and I could literally feel the tenderness with each passing scene. My favorite parts outside of all of the incredible performances was the cyclops and the visit to Circe’s island. Those parts were freaking crazy and I absolutely loved the way the cyclops looked. Honestly, I loved everything about this movie and would be more than happy to see it again. This is a flick that is a must see in theaters!!

I am going to award The Odyssey with the coveted ten out of ten stars. I seriously cannot recommend it enough and expect big things from it in the upcoming awards season!

What did you think about The Odyssey? What is your favorite lengthy movie? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Lil Red’s Book Club: It Could Have Been Her By Lisa Jewell Edition

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Lil Red’s Book Club: It Could Have Been Her By Lisa Jewell Edition

Hello everyone and welcome to a brand new edition of Lil Red’s Book Club! In a spoiler free setting, as always, we will be discussing Lisa Jewell’s newest thriller called It Could Have Been Her. I am an avid fan of Lisa Jewell and thoroughly enjoyed the talk she did through the library systems last year. It was so cool to see one of my favorite authors on the computer screen answering questions from readers and talking about her writing process and upcoming projects. I was super excited to read her latest book and it did not disappoint. It Could Have Been Her was a wild ride! Before we begin our chat, I will be placing a big fat trigger warning for child abuse, domestic abuse, sexual violence, and highly disturbing content. You ready? Let’s get to it!

Twice divorced Jane is in her mid fifties and lives a solitary life in her family’s crumbling estate located in the middle of nowhere. She doesn’t have much in the way of human company but she loves her four dogs more than life itself. As her and her pups take their daily walk, they come across a small white dog that Jane has never seen before. She takes him to the vet and learns from his microchip that the dog’s name is Hugo and lives in London. How did this little dog get all the way to her property? Although she would like to keep Hugo, she makes the trip to return him to his owner and is shocked by where he lives. In a home that will forever be seared into her memory as what could have been her final resting place when she was twenty-nine years old.

The man who answers the door is named Stuart Tucker and he is dodgy but appreciative that his dog is back. Shortly after Jane drops Hugo off, she receives a call from the vet who heard something strange from Jane’s closest neighbor. Hugo was with a girl who was renting a spare room in her house. She has left all of her belongings and is nowhere to be found. This piques Jane’s interest as she fancies herself an amateur sleuth and wants to crack the case. What happened to the girl who rented the room under the name Rose White?

Stuart Tucker is a keeper of secrets. He lives with his partner, Jessamine as well as her daughter Daisy and mother named Annie. Jessamine spent her childhood in a house of horrors and her life revolves around when she can have her next drink. Stuart dotes on Daisy because no one else will and waits on Annie as if he were a butler. All the while, he takes the verbal and physical abuse of Jessamine as she is prone to fits of rage. He knows something terrible happened in this house but does his best to avoid thinking about it. If he does, he might just run away for good even if that means leaving Daisy all alone.

Tucker knows that Jane is poking around with her detective work and his family’s downfall might be coming sooner than he thinks. And Jane doesn’t think, she knows that she is getting close to finding answers. Rose is somehow connected to the house that lives in her nightmares. If Jane finds her, she can come to terms with her own trauma and move on with her life. But will Jane really want to learn the answers to the questions that have lived rent free in her mind for over two decades? Read It Could Have Been Her to find out!

Let me just get this part out of the way: There were some parts of It Could Have Been Her that were really difficult to read. In fact, this is one of the most disturbing thrillers I have read in recent memory and I do not say that lightly. Having said that, this book was really REALLY good and might just be Lisa Jewell’s darkest novel yet. The plot of this book twisted and turned at a rapid pace and the beauty of it was that every twist made perfect sense. This was a delight after reading My Husband’s Wife where every reveal was meant to shock as opposed to moving the story forward. Lisa Jewell weaved a tale of inter generational trauma that infected everyone it touched and it was up to the characters in the story to pick up the broken pieces the best way they knew how.

For all of the macabre in It Could Have Been Her, it was balanced out by our lovely heroine Jane. This woman was an absolute joy with her quick wit, her loves for dogs, and the blinding pride she feels for all of her stepchildren. She was truly the bright light that this book needed as Jewell guided us through the depths of human depravity. Throughout the book, I could see her confidence grow and her world expand and it was exciting to read about her whole new lease on life. Because for her to move forward, she needs to confront her past. This is no easy feat for anyone and it will be impossible for you to not root for her every step of the way if you read this book!

Overall, I am going to rate It Could Have Been Her with an eight out of ten stars. This was exactly what I needed after reading the massive dud of My Husband’s Wife and further solidifies Lisa Jewell as one of my go to authors. Just read at your own discretion!

Who is your favorite author? Have you read any good thrillers recently? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Why Homeowners Are Becoming More Selective About Renovations

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Why Homeowners Are Becoming More Selective About Renovations

In recent years, many home renovation projects focused on staying in line with the latest design trends. Now, however, homeowners are adopting a different strategy. Because of increasing renovation costs, changes in their way of life, and the need for long-term financial planning, people are becoming more careful about where they spend their money and expect each improvement to enhance their daily living, improve efficiency, or add lasting value to the house.

The same thing has happened in the way renovation decisions are made. Homeowners no longer base their choice of products solely on how they look, but now consider durability, maintenance requirements, energy efficiency, and long-term performance before buying. A well-thought-out renovation is no longer aimed at keeping up with flashy trends; rather, it is focused on creating a home that will work better over many years:

Improving a house is now a far more financial commitment than it was a few years ago because the prices of materials, skilled labor, and specialist services have gone up, which has led many homeowners to plan their projects more carefully rather than doing all of them at the same time. Instead of spreading their budget thin over several upgrades, they are now selecting the improvements that give the best long-term value. As a result, people’s renovation activities are becoming more thoughtful. Instead of replacing things simply because they are no longer in style, homeowners are now thinking about whether an improvement will enhance comfort, reduce ongoing costs, or make their home more enjoyable to live in. This way of thinking is affecting the priorities people have when renovating the rooms in the house.

In the past, the reason for carrying out home repairs had been mainly to improve the appearance, with a preference given to striking finishes, bright colors and the latest design fads. While style still plays an important role, today homeowners ask themselves a different question before making a decision: will this repair improve the way we live on a day-to-day basis? Which is why practical improvements have risen in importance on lists of what people want to renovate. Upgrades that offer better storage, more intelligent layouts, improved lighting, and durable materials generally provide more value than those with an eye-catching appearance. At the same time, homeowners are growing more aware of products that are easy to maintain and built to last, lowering future repair and replacement costs.

There isn’t a renovation project that has a greater effect on daily life than an upgrade to the kitchen. This is because it is one of the most frequently used areas of the house, and even minor improvements can make cooking, cleaning, and entertaining more pleasant. Because of this, many homeowners choose practical upgrades that keep adding value long after the renovation is finished. Today’s kitchens are not assessed merely on their appearance. Instead, homeowners are seeking appliances that work quietly, use less water and energy, and match the way their household operates. When an older dishwasher, refrigerator, or cooking appliance is replaced during a renovation, efficiency improves, along with reduced maintenance and running costs.

If a new dishwasher is part of your renovation plans, take time to compare more than just the price. Shopping during a dishwasher sale can help reduce the upfront cost, but it’s equally important to consider how the appliance will perform over the years. A reliable, energy-efficient model that suits your household is far more likely to deliver lasting value than one chosen simply because it was the cheapest option available.

For many homeowners, reducing their ongoing household expenses has now become a major concern. Rather than just looking at the initial cost of a renovation, people are growing more aware of the impact their decisions will have on their monthly utility bills and future maintenance expenses. Even minor improvements can result in a noticeable effect after several years. Energy-saving appliances, LED lighting, upgraded insulation and water-saving fittings are now the norm in renovation plans. Although each of these improvements may appear insignificant by itself, collectively they can decrease energy usage, improve comfort and cut down the total cost of running a home.

Successful renovations seldom depend on selecting the most expensive items; instead, they begin with detailed planning and decisions appropriate to your home, way of life, and future requirements. If you take accurate measurements, set a realistic budget, and consider how each room will be used, you can avoid expensive alterations later on.

It is particularly important to plan when carrying out a kitchen renovation. The cabinet arrangements, the sizes of the appliances, and the storage options all have to fit together, which is why you should select the items early in the design process to achieve a more practical and unified outcome. At the same time, many homeowners are looking into integrated appliances since they offer a smooth, sleek look while continuing everyday functionality as a key aspect of the design.

The most effective renovations need not be the largest or the costliest; they are those that improve how a home functions daily while maintaining their value over the long term. When homeowners plan thoughtfully and focus on practical improvements, they can create spaces that are not only attractive but also support their way of living!

Anime Club

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Anime Club

Hi! My brother, Andrew, is an avid fan of anime and turned me on to so many great shows like Demon Slayer, Black Clover, and The Promised Neverland to name a few. We are always gabbing about our current anime line up, what we plan on watching next, and the releases of new seasons of our favorites. And, now, we have a brand new group to share in our love for anime too! There are so many wonderful local libraries in my neck of the woods that offer amazing programs for adults, teens, and children. One of the newest additions being an anime club for adults that meets once a month. We have been going regularly for about four months now and we both look forward to it because it is a total blast!

At anime club we watch a few episodes of a show while enjoying a Japanese snack, have a discussion, and then do a craft themed around whatever show we were introduced to. For two hours, we are immersed in our world of imagination with like minded individuals and it’s such a treat. It’s also a thrill to check out new shows that we might not have watched before. For example, during our second meeting we watched the first three episodes of My Hero Academia and I was immediately hooked. Since then, I have been watching an episode every morning while I eat my breakfast and I just can’t get enough. It is SO good and I’m already halfway through season three. I look forward to my viewings every day. 😀

While some animes have been a hit with me at our meetings, some of them are a miss and that’s truly okay! Last week we dabbled in Jujutsu Kaisen which I have always been interested in but never bothered watching. During our screening, I learned that it was not my bag whatsoever and it was no harm no foul because I could move onto something different. Regardless of if I would continue the show on my own or not, it’s so exciting to watch something new. To experience different styles, stories, and characters and getting into the nitty gritty of what we liked and didn’t with our group allows for the best conversations. I am already chomping at the bit for our August get together!

Long live libraries!!! Thanks to Anime Club my brother and I have both made new friends, found new shows, and get to spend time with people who share our passion. It is just the best!

Do you attend any programs at your local library? What kind of events does your library offer? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Spill The Tea OOTD Bloopers

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Spill The Tea OOTD Bloopers

Hello everyone and welcome to the Blooper Reel from my Spill The Tea OOTD! This little look was worn to attend a Mad Hatter’s Tea Party at the library with my niece squad and we had the best time. The girls loved making all of the tea party food like finger sandwiches, fruit salad, fruit punch, and frosted cookies and created a spread fit for a celebration in Wonderland! As the extra aunt, I had to show out in fancy dress to attend the party and it was received very well. These pictures, however? Were not received very well by me as I went through the million shots that Johnny took! Best blog husband ever! Lol, check it out:

As a very heavily tattooed woman, I am very used to people staring and asking questions. And, of course, the absolute certainty to get a comment at the gas station as soon as hot weather hits and I break out shorts and a tank. It happens every year like clock work! This past week when I went to pick up my car from the shop, I ended up having the most delightful conversation with the woman who was in line behind me. She asked if she could take a closer look at my ink which I always appreciate and then we began gabbing about anime when she saw my Demon Slayer tats. As she perused my leg tattoos, I couldn’t help thinking of another instance of a tattoo looky loo that went in a completely different direction that lives rent free in my memory…

Several years back, my bestie and I visited a winery for one of our birthdays and were enjoying drinks on the deck overlooking the vineyard. Seemingly out of nowhere, a lady who had several glasses of the good stuff crept behind me, dropped down to leg level, and started scanning all of my work. My BFF and I had no idea she was there because we were facing the vineyard and this woman was operating on stealth level. You could imagine my surprise when I sensed her presence, turned around, and caught her gawking lol. It was a horror movie level scare!! The moral of this story? Always ask before getting up close and personal with a tattooed person. Chances are high they won’t mind at all and you won’t end up scaring them half to death. Big ups to my repair shop companion for knowing the etiquette! 😀

Tea parties, tattoo peek a boo, and a broken down car – oh my! What will happen next in Lil Red’s crazy world? Keep it posted here to find out!

Have you gotten a new body mod recently? What did you get? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Lil Red’s Book Club: My Husband’s Wife By Alice Feeney Edition

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Lil Red’s Book Club: My Husband’s Wife By Alice Feeney Edition

Hello everyone and welcome to a brand new edition of Lil Red’s Book Club! In a spoiler free setting, as always, we are going to be discussing one of Alice Feeney’s newest books called My Husband’s Wife. When I began reading this book, I was most intrigued. Then, my tune changed drastically close to halfway through. I am telling you right here right now that My Husband’s Wife was the most far fetched garbage I have ever read lol and I encourage all of you to not waste your time on it. But, hey, that’s what these reviews are all about – for you to enjoy a book too or find something better! Before we begin, I will be placing a trigger warning on My Husband’s Wife for suicide, child abuse, cancer, and graphic crime scene descriptions. Let’s do this thing:

Eden and her husband Harrison have just moved to the famous Spyglass house in Hope Falls with the hopes of a fresh start. Harrison will continue to travel back to London as his business is booming and Eden will spend her time painting. In fact, she even has an exhibition at a gallery this very night. To clear her mind before the big event, she goes for a run and returns to Spyglass to shower, don a pretty dress, and show the world her art. She inserts her key into the lock and it doesn’t turn. Did Harrison change the locks while she was out? After pounding on the door, a woman answers and she looks a lot like Eden and Harrison is treating this mystery woman like his own wife. But Eden is Eden so who in the world is she?

Olivia Bird AKA Birdy lives a life of solitude and prefers the company of her dog, Sunday, to almost all people. Birdy is also harboring a secret. Her body is riddled with tumors and she does not have long to live. Before she passes, there are loose ends to tie in Hope Falls as her grandma left Spyglass to her in her will. Bird visits the home once before putting it on the market and it is quickly purchased by Eden and Harrison. Her task is done but her life’s trajectory will soon call her back to Hope Falls, a place that she only vaguely remembers from her childhood.

Hope Falls is one of the safest places to live and the small town only has one police officer named Carter. A promotion to become head detective hangs over his head but it is snatched up by a more decorated person on the force. Their arrival couldn’t have come at a better time as a body has washed up on the shore and it looks a lot like Eden. The real or fake one is yet to be determined as the body is badly disfigured. Whoever this person is, there is a murder to solve and every new piece of information leaves the officers even more confused. Was the death of the unidentified person a case of suicide? Or was it part of a sinister plot to both bury and avenge the past? *Don’t* read My Husband’s Wife to find out!

My Husband’s Wife started out with a bang. The changed locks, an identity crisis, the the introduction of the elusive Olivia Bird. I was loving it as I worked my way through the first one hundred and twenty pages or so and then this book took a drastic turn and not in a good way. The relative simplicity of the plot that was being established began to turn so convoluted and each discovery in the investigation seemed more unlikely than the next. Now, don’t get me wrong. I completely understand that the thrillers I enjoy reading are far fetched but My Husband’s Wife was just too much. Each passing plot twist upped the ante in ridiculousness that it was almost humorous if it wasn’t all so dumb lol.

The sad thing about this book is that it did start out so strong and I had a fondness for Olivia Bird. She was truly the only saving grace in My Husband’s Wife with her cool attitude, dry wit, and sleeves of tattoos. I really did like reading about her but that wasn’t enough to salvage this utter train wreck. As you all know, I fancy myself an amateur detective and revel in figuring out grand reveals. It’s a game I play every time I read but My Husband’s Wife was so lackluster that I didn’t even care to try. And that’s really saying something!!

I am going to bestow zero out of ten stars upon My Husband’s Wife. If you are looking for a twisty thriller, check out Freida McFadden’s latest books because this one is SO not it!

What is your favorite thriller? What are your thoughts on My Husband’s Wife? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

July 2026 Finishes

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July 2026 Finishes

Hello everyone and happy August! Also wait what? It’s August?! This summer is going by fast and I am not mad about it whatsoever. This summer has been hellacious and I am so ready to be wrapped up in the chilly comfort of fall. Before we dive into a new month, let’s time travel to one day ago because we must discuss my beauty finishes! I dropped the ball when I forgot about my June empties and took note of the mental note to not do that again lol. There are several good products in the mix for July so let’s take a look:

Would I Use Again?

Evoluderm Micellar Water: ALWAYS

Precision Beauty Glow Up Vitamin C Serum: YES

Gold Bond Healing Lotion: MAYBE

Bath & Body Works Champagne Toast Shower Gel: YES

Why/Why Not?

Precision Beauty Serum: I am a big fan of the Precision Beauty serums and have yet to find one that I didn’t like. The Glow Up Vitamin C serum, however, is my favorite. It takes me about five weeks of twice daily use to finish the bottle and I am impressed by it every day. This serum is rather thick and a little of it goes a very long way as just a smidgen packs a huge punch. The Glow Up formula leaves my skin bright and radiant even when I am feeling neither bright nor radiant lol. I am always amazed at how well rested and alert I look even when the hot days of summer screws up my sleeping schedule. Highly recommend if you are on the market for a new serum!

Gold Bond Lotion: Johnny purchased this bottle of lotion for applying on our tattoos that we got in April. It was the most fun day where myself, Johnny, and his aunt all got some ink! Truthfully, I don’t feel one way or another about this lotion but would use it again if it ended up at chez moi. I am extremely partial to my beloved Bath & Body Works lotion and rarely stray from it. BUT I used up the Gold Bond for one reason only: It has been hot AF and while I love the B&BW scents it was just too much in the heat. Sweating profusely to the aroma of a fruity or sweet fragrance is not my idea of a good time and it overwhelms me which is why I appreciated the scent free Gold Bond formula. Don’t get me wrong, it worked very well and left my skin feeling hydrated and nourished. But I am excited to get back to my favorite scents as summer draws to a close!

A Little Note: You all already know my love for Champagne Toast and my Evoluderm micellar water. I just wanted to mention that the mega bottle of Evoluderm lasts almost three months with twice daily use and it is such an awesome value. Definitely a steal if you find it at TJs. 🙂

Out with the old and in with the new! Keep tuning in on lifewithlilred as we tackle this new month together. Yay for it being almost fall!

What cools you off in extreme heat? Do you do well in really hot weather? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Spill The Tea OOTD

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Spill The Tea OOTD

Hello everyone and welcome to a brand new OOTD here on lifewithlilred! This past weekend I attended an adorable Mad Hatter’s tea party with my nieces at the library. It was such a lovely program where the kiddos got to make finger sandwiches, fruit salad, fruit punch, and decorate cookies with the assistance of their grown up helpers. We had a blast! As the extra aunt, I just had to get dressed up for the occasion as my squad has come to expect. They love my themed outfits as much as I love creating them! Here is what I wore to Spill The Tea at the party:

Cami Top: mittoshop, French Rooster

Pleather Skirt: BB Dakota, TJMaxx

Platform Heels: Marc Fisher, TJMaxx

Headband: Claire’s

When I think of a tea party, my mind instantly goes to floral patterns and my OOTD created itself from there. This look came to me in a vision and it turned out exactly how I wanted it to. I LERVE when that happens! 😀 I started building this fit from the middle because my pleather BB Dakota skirt was a must. This skirt is girly sweet Lil Red’s way as the black base and pleather added a healthy dose of edge. It saddens me deeply that some of the pleather has begun to peel but that is made up for with this skirt’s twirl-ability! As you can see on my TikTok, this skirt moves like a dream and I had to refrain myself from twirling with every step. So fun!

I chose to turn my skirt into a pseudo dress by pairing it with a black cami from French Rooster. This gauzy number was the basic essential I needed to blend seamlessly with the skirt and that touch of lace really turns it into something special. When both pieces were on, I felt like the belle of the tea party and I wasn’t even there yet! Next up was shoes and accessories before I headed out to Wonderland…

I went for one of my favorite pairs of ballet slipper pink platforms by Marc Fisher and although it wasn’t a perfect match to the pink in the skirt, it was close enough. These platforms gave me a a boost in height and elevated this look into a special occasion OOTD because it most certainly was. Any time with my girl squad is! For accessories I added a cuff from Aerie as well as a bejeweled snake cuff by Betsey Johnson that you can’t really see in the pictures lol. That’s no matter because the piece de resistance was the cute as can be flower headband from Claire’s to tie the garden party theme into a pretty bow. My nieces were obsessed with it and it really blew their minds when it lit up from the fairy lights scattered throughout the flowers. With that, it was time to Spill The Tea (metaphorically speaking) at the tea party!

This OOTD was a total hit with my girl squad so it was a GREAT SUCCESS in my book. Stick around for the Blooper Reel coming soon!

Did you like to have tea parties growing up? What food would you include in a tea party spread? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

How To Be There For A Friend Who Is Grieving

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How To Be There For A Friend Who Is Grieving

When someone close to you loses a loved one, it can feel impossible to know what to say or do. You want to help, but you do not want to overstep. You reach for your phone to send a message and then stare at the screen because nothing feels right. Most of us have been there, and the truth is that there is no perfect thing to say. But there are plenty of meaningful things you can do. Supporting a grieving friend is less about finding the right words and more about showing up in ways that make their life easier during an incredibly hard time. Here are some practical approaches that go beyond the standard “let me know if you need anything” text:

Telling someone “let me know if you need anything” puts the burden on the person who is already overwhelmed. Most people will never take you up on a vague offer, even when they desperately need help. Instead of asking, just act. Drop off a meal with a note. Pick up their groceries. Mow their lawn. Walk their dog. The key is to handle something specific without waiting for permission. A friend in grief is making dozens of decisions a day they never expected to face. Removing even one small task from that list is the most genuine form of support you can offer.

Grief comes with a mountain of logistics that nobody warns you about. There are phone calls to make, paperwork to sort through, and arrangements to figure out while your brain is running on almost no sleep. One of the most helpful things you can do is step in and handle some of that practical weight. Offer to coordinate meals from your friend group so your grieving friend is not fielding texts from fifteen different people. Help make phone calls to extended family or organize a carpool schedule for their kids.

If your friend is dealing with funeral arrangements, you can help them research options so they are not overpaying during an already stressful time. Many families do not realize that they can purchase a casket independently and have it delivered directly to the funeral home, often saving thousands of dollars compared to buying through the funeral home itself. Pointing a friend toward a supplier that sells affordable caskets can genuinely ease the financial pressure in this difficult time. It is the kind of practical help that most people would never think to offer, but it can make a real difference.

The first few days after a loss are usually packed with visitors, flowers, and casseroles. Then everyone goes back to their normal lives, and the grieving person is left sitting in a quiet house wondering what happened. The second and third weeks are often when loneliness hits hardest. Mark your calendar for two weeks, one month, and three months after the loss. Send a text. Stop by with coffee. Invite them for a walk. You do not need to talk about the loss unless they want to. Sometimes just being present without an agenda is exactly what someone needs.

People often avoid mentioning the person who passed because they are afraid of making their friend sad. But your friend is already sad. They are thinking about that person every single day. Hearing their name spoken out loud by someone who also cared about them is not painful. It is comforting. Share a memory. Tell a story. Bring them up naturally in conversation. Your friend will appreciate knowing that the person they lost is remembered by others too.

Some phrases are meant to comfort but land badly. “They are in a better place” or “everything happens for a reason” can feel dismissive even when the intention is kind. Comparing grief stories or trying to find a silver lining too quickly can sting. The simplest and most honest thing you can say is: “I am so sorry. I love you. I am here.” You do not need to fix the grief. You just need to sit in it with them.

A handwritten note, a photo album of old memories, a playlist of songs the person loved, a DoorDash gift card so they do not have to think about dinner. None of these are grand gestures. All of them are deeply meaningful. Grief is a long road, and the friends who show up quietly and consistently are the ones who make it survivable.

You do not have to be perfect at this. You just have to try. Your friend will remember that you did. ❤

How To Create A Low-Maintenance Backyard

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How To Create A Low-Maintenance Backyard

Having a beautiful backyard where you can relax and unwind sounds like a dream, but the thought of constant upkeep can be daunting. The good news is that creating your personal oasis doesn’t have to mean endless chores. With some smart planning and a focus on low-maintenance solutions, you can design an outdoor space perfect for enjoyment and less about work:

Before you buy a single plant or piece of furniture, take a moment to picture how you want to use your yard. Do you see yourself hosting big family barbecues, enjoying quiet mornings with a cup of coffee, or watching the kids play? Thinking about function first will help you create distinct zones for dining, lounging, and recreation. Consider the sun and shade patterns throughout the day to place seating areas and gardens effectively. A little foresight goes a long way in creating a layout that flows naturally and meets your family’s needs. With a clear plan, you can find thoughtful outdoor design solutions that make your backyard both beautiful and practical.

A swimming pool is often the centerpiece of a backyard retreat, offering a perfect escape on hot summer days. While the joy of a pool is undeniable, the maintenance can feel like a part-time job. Regular skimming, vacuuming, and balancing chemicals are all necessary to keep the water safe and inviting. To simplify the process, create a consistent weekly schedule for these tasks. However, if you’d rather spend your free time swimming than maintaining your pool, consider hiring professional pool cleaners to handle routine upkeep and keep your pool ready to dive in. This frees you up to revel in the best parts of pool ownership without the constant effort.

To truly make your backyard feel like an oasis, you need to incorporate elements that encourage you to slow down and relax. Comfortable seating is non-negotiable. Think deep-cushioned sofas, hammocks, or lounge chairs that invite you to kick your feet up. Shade is another crucial component, whether it comes from a large umbrella, a vine-covered pergola, or a mature tree. At night, soft lighting from string lights or solar-powered lanterns can transform the area into a magical retreat. These are some of the essentials of a peaceful space that turn a simple yard into a true sanctuary.

A gorgeous garden doesn’t have to require hours of weeding and watering. The key is to choose your plants and materials wisely. Opt for native plants that are already adapted to your local climate, as they will require less water and care once established. Using mulch in your garden beds helps retain moisture and suppress weeds, saving you time and effort. Instead of a vast lawn that needs constant mowing, consider incorporating hardscaping elements like a stone patio or a wooden deck. These areas provide usable living space and drastically reduce your yard work. Container gardening is another great option for adding color without committing to large garden beds.

Once your oasis is set up, the final step is to make a habit of enjoying it. Don’t let your beautiful space go unused. Plan simple weeknight dinners on the patio or start your weekend mornings with coffee in your favorite outdoor chair. You could set up a projector for a family movie night under the stars or simply grab a book and spend a quiet afternoon in the hammock. The more you integrate your outdoor area into your daily routine, the more it will feel like a natural extension of your home, a place for making memories and finding moments of peace.

Your backyard should be a source of joy, not a list of chores. Making intentional design choices and focusing on easy-care solutions helps you create a beautiful retreat with minimal upkeep!

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