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Aug7

Side Hustles You Can Start ASAP

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Side Hustles You Can Start ASAP

Howdy! Literally everything is SO expensive now and it often feels like you’re breaking the bank as soon as you leave the house. For this reason, the side hustle culture has been thriving. You might think side hustles are limited to creative based endeavors like crafting, a stand at the farmers market, or teaching music lessons on the side. This is great for the people who can do so and it’s amazing to support the local makers in your community. However, if you don’t have a talent that is monetization worthy, you might not know where to start. Let’s take a look at some side hustles that you can begin ASAP with no artistic strings attached:

Dog Walking:

If you love pets and you have some free time on your hands, dog walking could be the perfect side hustle for you. As a member of several Talk Of The Town groups on Facebook, I am always amazed by how many people are interested in this service when someone offers it in a post. It makes a lot of sense, though. A senior member of the community might not be able to walk their dog safely in the winter. Families with children might not have the extra time to walk their pup in the morning when school is back in session. Whatever the reason may be, it will not be as hard as you think to get a couple of clients quickly. From there, it could blossom into house and pet sitting too as the natural next step.

Housekeeping:

If you are a member of Talk Of The Town pages too, you will certainly have seen posts about housekeeping services. You don’t need to have experience with a professional housekeeping service to have a passion for a good, deep clean and if you have the skills to achieve it – why not give it a shot? Like dog walking, housekeeping is a task that families with children or senior citizens are typically seeking. You will have the satisfaction of cleaning to a shine as well as the fact that you are really helping someone who might not be capable of doing it themselves. Total win/win!

Tutoring:

With the first day of school looming just around the corner, the posts looking for tutors for the school year have been flooding my newsfeed. If you are a fresh out of college kid with a degree to flaunt, this could be an amazing way to make some extra cash as you seek out employment options. Tutoring could also be a great gig for retired teachers, teacher’s assistants, those who speak more than one language, or have a wealth of knowledge for the subject at hand. Having a tutoring job for an entire school year will not only be lucrative but really cool. You will be helping your student earn better grades and improve their learning skills which they will have for life.

DoorDash/Uber:

I know countless people who DoorDash on the side and I have heard nothing but good things about their experience. The key points they always mention are the same: 1) It’s easy. 2) They can do it whenever they want. And 3) The money is pretty good. If you have a car and are a safe driver, it can’t hurt to try a few DoorDash or Uber shifts. I, personally, would not be a good DoorDash driver because I would want to eat everything lol. However, if you have more self control than I, this could be an awesome side hustle when you have a couple of extra hours to spare.

Honestly, it sucks living in a world where a forty hour work week isn’t enough to get you by. The side hustles above could be a really good thing should you need a little extra cushion!

Do you have a side hustle? What do you do? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Aug6

How To Refresh Your Self Care Routine This Season

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How To Refresh Your Self Care Routine This Season

It’s easy to find yourself stuck in a routine that used to work but no longer suits you. It could be the skin care products you’re using or doing the same exercises on repeat. When it comes to self care sometimes you have to go beyond your checklist to find something that truly nourishes you in the here and now. If all of this sounds familiar then it might be time for you to shake things up a bit. Here’s a look at how you can do just that:

Start With a Seasonal Mindset Shift:

Each season brings its own natural rhythm and this should definitely guide your wellness habits. You might find that in fall you prefer warm foods or grounding rituals while in spring you want more outdoor time and lighter meals. Even the small types of seasonal changes such as switching out a heavier moisturizer for a lighter one or switching from coffee to herbal tea can make a fresh connection with what your body really needs. The goal is always to stay in tune with what your body is telling you. You don’t want to get locked into routines that are too rigid. 

Try Something You’ve Been Curious About:

Refreshing your self care doesn’t always mean you add more to your routine. It could mean you just try something different. Maybe you’ve been intrigued by herbal medicines or sound baths but you haven’t taken the time to try them. Now might be the perfect time to do so. Holistic wellness centers such as Davis Integrative Medicine offer alternative therapies along with personalized treatments. You can blend modern practices with ancient ones. Leading to a more holistic approach to your wellness.

Clear Space for What Actually Feels Good:

Not every self-care trend is going to fit you and you have to accept that. What works for someone may not work for you and it makes no sense to force it. Take a moment to reflect on which habits make you feel more grounded. Then look at the ones you are doing simply out of obligation. You may find that letting go of a few things will open up space for a lot more creativity, joy, and rest. 

A refresh routine should feel like something that you want to do, it shouldn’t be something that you are forced to do. When you feel obligated you are much more likely to flake and not do what you promised yourself to do. This can have an impact on your confidence. You may feel as if you can’t keep your own promises to yourself and this can be disappointing.

Ultimately self care is all about reconnecting with who you truly are and what you need as a person. As the seasons begin to change you should give yourself permission to change as well!

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Aug5

6 Challenges Parents Might Face With Their Children

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6 Challenges Parents Might Face With Their Children

Parenting is one of the most challenging journeys a person can take. From the toddler tantrums to teenage independence, every start stage of a child’s life brings new obstacles. The daily balance of nurturing, teaching, guiding, and sometimes just getting through the day can feel overwhelming. When considering educational options, many parents explore structured environments like Montessori preschools in hopes of supporting their child’s development. But this isn’t the only challenge that parents face, and how to navigate those challenges with patience and perspective is not always easy:

Managing emotional outbursts:

Parents are managing these outbursts from the moment they bring a newborn home from the hospital, but young children are still learning how to process emotions in healthy ways. Tantrums, tears, and yelling are all part of that process, but that doesn’t make it easy to handle. Parents will often struggle with how to stay calm and supportive while setting boundaries. Understanding that outbursts are normal and rooted in emotional development can help with consistency and empathy. Along with clear routines, you can give your children a sense of security and predictability.

Struggles with screen time:

This is a big challenge given that we’re now living in a more digital world than ever before. Managing technology in the home is a modern parenting challenge, and while screens can be educational, along with being entertaining, too much time can affect behavior, sleep, and attention span. Parents will often feel guilty no matter which way they choose to go because too much screen time feels lazy, but too little can feel isolating. The key is to find that balance.

Sibling rivalries:

When more than one child is involved, sibling dynamics can bring a whole new layer of stress to parenting. Arguments, jealousy, and competition are very common, and you might find yourself playing referee more often than intended. By encouraging cooperative play and celebrating each child’s strengths, you can foster empathy between siblings and ease that tension over time.

Sleep issues:

Whether it’s bedtime resistance, night wakings or early rising, sleep challenges affect everyone in the family. Lack of rest can impact not only their mood and behavior, but also the parents ability to function. A calm night time routine and limiting stimulation before bed can prove to be beneficial. Ditch the tablet for a good book, put on some white noise or calming music, and encourage healthier sleep hygiene.

Balancing discipline with connection:

One of the hardest parts of parenting is disciplining gently with love. It’s very easy to slip into extremes such as being too strict or too permissive, especially under stress. A big part of parenting is re-parenting yourself from an early age.

Worrying about their education and development:

From speech delays to learning styles, parents worry if their child is on track and the pressure to make the right educational choices can feel quite heavy. Choosing the right program can offer peace of mind, but it’s all about aligning it with your child’s pace and their individual interests. If you have concerns about your child’s developmental progress, it is a wise decision to make an appointment with their GP ASAP.

Whatever challenges you are facing, it is normal. And you are doing a much better job than you are giving yourself credit for!

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Aug4

The Simple Way To Clear Your Backyard

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The Simple Way To Clear Your Backyard

It doesn’t take long for a backyard to go from trim and tidy to overgrown anarchy. Maybe it started with a few weeds around the fence. Then the bushes doubled in size. A few fallen branches got ignored. Suddenly, it’s a whole situation. But getting it back to clean doesn’t have to be a huge, exhausting project. With the right tools and a smart approach, anyone can turn things around in one solid afternoon:

Why Most Backyards Get Out of Control (And It’s Totally Normal):

Backyards grow fast. Trees shoot out new branches, vines creep up fences, and weeds love popping up overnight. Throw in a few rainy weeks or a busy schedule, and nature just takes over. It’s not lazy or bad planning – it happens to everyone. The good news is, there’s a way to handle it without spending every weekend sweating in the sun. It’s all about using the right tools that do most of the work for you. Big gas-powered machines can be loud, messy, and hard to manage. But newer electric tools make the process way easier and a lot quieter.

One of the most helpful tools for these jobs is an electric chainsaw. Whether you’re trimming thick bushes, cutting fallen limbs, or dealing with smaller trees that took over the back fence, this tool can clear large messes fast and without the noise or hassle of gas models.

Start with the Biggest Problem:

The best way to tackle an overgrown yard is to go for the most obvious mess first. If there are branches on the ground or a huge bush blocking the walkway, that’s the place to start. Clearing those out makes the space instantly look better, and it gives more room to move around for everything else. Cut up large pieces into smaller chunks that can be stacked, bagged, or hauled away later. Just getting those big eyesores out of the way gives a huge boost and it’s that moment when it starts to feel doable instead of overwhelming.

What to Cut, What to Keep:

After clearing fallen branches and thick growth, it’s time to look at what’s still standing. Trees and bushes should have space between them and the house, fence, or path. If anything is rubbing against walls or blocking light, it needs trimming. Use the chainsaw for the thicker stuff, and grab some handheld shears or trimmers for small branches and dead plants. Don’t be afraid to cut more than expected as most plants bounce back fast. The goal isn’t to get everything perfect, but just to give it shape and space again.

Mow, Edge, and Sweep:

Once the big mess is handled and everything’s trimmed, it’s time to focus on the ground. Overgrown yards usually mean tall grass and wild edges. Start with mowing the lawn. Even if the grass looks patchy or dry, cutting it down cleanly makes a huge difference. After mowing, edge along the sides of walkways, flower beds, or fences. That clean line makes everything look cared for, even if nothing fancy is going on. Finish up by sweeping or blowing away the leftover mess like leaves, twigs, or sawdust from the branches. This step takes the yard from “cleaned up” to “wow, that actually looks nice.”

Dealing With the Leftovers:

One part people forget about: where all the branches, grass, and leaves are going to go. If the city has yard waste pickup, great – pile it up for collection day. No pickup? A local green waste drop-off center can help. For anyone with a little extra space, a compost pile works too (just skip the big wood). Either way, don’t let the cleanup pile sit for weeks. Moving it out right after the job makes everything feel done!

Keeping It from Getting Wild Again:

Once the yard looks fresh again, staying on top of it becomes way easier. The trick is to do small jobs regularly instead of letting it get bad again. Here are a few simple ways to keep it under control:

  • Do a quick scan once a week for fallen branches or trash.
  • Trim bushes or trees when they start reaching over walkways.
  • Mow every 1–2 weeks during growing season.
  • Use electric tools that are easy to grab and use without making a mess.

Keeping tools nearby and charged up helps a lot. When something’s easy to grab, it’s more likely to get used before the job becomes a big deal again.

What Really Makes a Difference:

It’s not about having a picture-perfect yard. Most people just want a space that looks neat, safe, and comfortable to hang out in. That’s totally possible without needing to be a pro or spending tons of time every weekend. The real difference comes from a few things:

  • Using tools that don’t make the job harder than it needs to be.
  • Tackling the biggest problem first instead of trying to do everything at once.
  • Cleaning up in layers – branches, then bushes, then grass.
  • Taking 15 minutes once a week to stay ahead of it.

Whether the goal is to have space to relax, let kids play, or just stop worrying about what the neighbors think, the path to a cleaner yard doesn’t have to be complicated. Start small, use tools that help, and let progress do the rest!

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Jul30

Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot

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Feeling Hot, Hot, Hot

Hello! I often mention that summer is my least favorite season to dress for, but it is also my least favorite season in general. I am on a hefty dose of a hefty amount of medications for my mental health and Every. Single. One. of them makes me more susceptible to heat related illnesses. Merely stepping outside on an uber hot day or returning home to my uber hot apartment when temperatures spike is enough to send me into a woozy tailspin. This was most certainly the case for me this past week because we went from lovely eighty degree days to ninety plus degree temps and the sudden change caught me off guard. So much so, that I wasn’t following any of the precautions I have perfected over the years. I DEFINITELY need to be better about this and if you do too or need advice, let’s go through a few friendly reminders:

Recognize your symptoms:

When I am starting to overheat, it goes from bad to worse quite quickly. This is why it’s SO important to recognize your tells when it is really hot out. For me, it usually starts with a wave of dizziness, followed by sudden fatigue, and finally an intense heaviness in my legs. As soon as your first tell reveals itself, Do. Not. Ignore. It!! This is your warning sign to get yourself to a cool area ASAP. If I am out and about, this means getting myself into a store because they always have crispy AF AC. If I am at home, I retreat to the bedroom because it is the only space in my apartment that has a measly AC unit. It’s amazing how much better I feel after a half hour or so in a cool environment!

ABS (Always Be Sipping!):

If you don’t already have a favorite tumbler mug or Stanley cup, I cannot recommend getting one enough and sipping often. My water intake has increased exponentially since I began toting a mug with me everywhere I go and the effects are noticeable when I forget to take one with me to work. Should you forget, swing by a gas station en route to wherever you’re going for a few bottles of water. You’ll be thanking yourself when your temperature is better regulated all day.

Take it easy:

It’s SO easy to forget to take it easy when everyone else is having fun in the sun. However, it is SO important to take it easy and take breaks frequently if you are more prone to overheating than your peers. If you are on the go, try and find a spot to cool off at least every hour. You can also start planning outdoor activities according to the coolest times of the day. Perhaps you take your dog for a walk first thing in the morning. Maybe that means playing outdoor games with friends in the evening instead of the middle of the afternoon. Make smart decisions with your plans and know when to say no or suggest a different time of the day if you fear the activity might be too much for you. You know yourself best!

Cold treats:

Every summer, cold showers and Popsicles are the name of my game for instant relief. Whatever your go to is, don’t be afraid to break it out as often as you see fit. When I get home from work, the first thing I do is grab a Popsicle from the freezer. Spoiling my dinner be damned because as soon as an ice pop hits my lips, I start feeling better. Maybe it’s in my head, maybe the Popsicles and cold showers really are working some magic. Whatever your relief is, keep it handy so you can start your cooling off process ASAP.

I have been over summer since it started but even more so now considering I almost fainted several times last week. Stay cool, stay safe, and stay hydrated regardless of if you are more susceptible to the heat or not. Fall can’t come soon enough!

Do you thrive in the heat or wilt? What is your favorite way to cool off? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Jul16

Car Care: Pay Attention To These Areas

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Car Care: Pay Attention To These Areas

Are you a car owner? If so, then you will no doubt be aware of the constant struggle to take care of your vehicle. To do this, you need to make sure that you understand the key areas that will always require your attention with your vehicle. There are lots of elements that you need to think about here, so let’s dive in:

Clean It Regularly:

First, you should make sure to clean it properly. In doing so, you can avoid a build up of dirt and grime. Believe it or not, this is more than enough to damage your vehicle and it’s why it’s always important to clean your car thoroughly. Make sure that you use the right cleaning liquids too. If they are the wrong choices, then they could ultimately end up damaging the paintwork and this could also eventually lead to issues with rust in key areas of the vehicle.

Dirt and grime may also cause issues with key areas of your vehicle like the brakes. If there is a problem with the brakes, then it could diminish your stopping distance and this will ultimately lead to a collision or a severe crash on the road. That means that you’ll need to pay a fortune to get your car repaired at some point in the future.

MOT And Service Regularly:

In most countries it is a legal requirement to book your car in for a regular MOT and service. This informs you that your car is safe to drive and roadworthy, the last thing you want to be doing is driving around on faulty breaks. You will be given a certificate when you book into an MOT or service and this stays with your car. If you prefer, you can go to the correct dealership for your services. If you have a Mercedes then you will need to book Mercedes service to find out more.

Keep Your Eye On How It Drives:

Finally, if you are trying to look after your car then it can tell you a lot about what is going on by the way it is driving. For example, if your car is jumping or juddering then this could signify an issue with the gearbox. Make sure you listen for any and all unusual noises and get it booked into a garage. You don’t want a simple issue to grow due to you ignoring it. A garage and mechanic will be able to hoist it up on the ramp with the diagnostic tool. This will give you a full workup of what could potentially be wrong with your car.

We hope this helps you understand some of the key areas that you need to keep in mind to ensure that your car remains in great working order in the future. In doing so, you can guarantee that your car retains as much value as possible and doesn’t let you down when you are on the road!

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Jun20

Could Multigenerational Living Work For Your Family?

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Could Multigenerational Living Work For Your Family?

For a long time, multigenerational living carried a bit of a stigma. People assumed you’d only move back in with family if something had gone wrong like a job had been lost or relationship ended. But now it’s more common to see grown up children living with their parents while saving for a home, and in many cases, ageing parents are moving in with adult children too (sometimes both).

What’s changed is the way families are doing it, it’s no longer just a temporary fix. It’s a setup that people are actually planning for, and in many cases, choosing. It usually starts with a practical reason like childcare, housing costs, or the price of care homes. But for some families, once the arrangement settles, it starts to work on other levels too. Grandparents and grandchildren spend more time together, meals are shared more often, and there’s always someone around. People begin to appreciate the overlap of different generations under one roof.

It only works when the space works:

Not every home is built for this kind of life, and not every family dynamic suits it either. But the physical layout matters more than most people realize. It’s easier when there’s a bit of separation. Not necessarily an annex or separate floor (although that helps) but enough room for people to spend time apart. A spare bedroom can become a small sitting room, a garage converted makes more space. Even just having an extra bathroom can make things more manageable. The smallest change can take pressure off if it gives someone a bit more autonomy.

Daily life can feel a little easier:

Multigenerational living really can improve the way life runs for everyone involved. From school pickups to dentist appointments, someone to keep an eye on the baby while the dinner’s on all become easier when you have a household with more people in. If you have an elderly family member who needs care, more people around to help with this can make things a lot easier for everyone. And you still have the option of using a home care agency too if you need extra help. It feels busier when you live with your multi generation family but it often works out to be more efficient too. There’s no need for constant favors or negotiations, it all just becomes part of life. That sense of support matters more than people expect, especially during the early years with small children or when someone’s health isn’t great.

It depends on boundaries, not rules:

There’s a balance to find with this kind of lifestyle and it doesn’t always go smoothly. Some families fall into old patterns, and it takes effort to reset those roles. Not everyone wants parenting advice from their own parents while they’re trying to raise kids of their own, and some older relatives struggle to let go of routines they’ve had for decades. But it tends to get easier when people talk openly about what’s bothering them before it builds up. It helps when there’s a clear understanding of what each person is responsible for. Not strict rules, just enough clarity so nobody feels walked over.

Multigenerational setups look different in every home. Some feel more communal, with shared meals and group outings. Others are quieter, with people mostly doing their own thing. Neither is right or wrong. What makes it work is usually a mix of space, patience, and a bit of flexibility. It’s not something everyone sets out to do, but for more families now, it’s becoming the option that feels most natural.

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Jun10

How To Take Care Of Your Self-Sufficient Home

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How To Take Care Of Your Self-Sufficient Home

In recent years, more and more people have seen the benefits of living a more self-sufficient lifestyle. This way, you are able to live off the grid and still look after your family. You can save money and reap the rewards of your own hard work. Even better, you can live a greener lifestyle as a self-sufficient lifestyle is often a more sustainable way to live. Of course, there are different ways to be more self-sufficient. A lot of people still rely on outside infrastructure, but you might be surprised at how much you can do for yourself if you look after your home:

Feeding Your Family:

There are a few different lines of thought about how much land you need to feed a family. If you want to be completely self-sufficient, most sources recommend about five acres of land for a family of four. This includes growing vegetables, crops, and even livestock. As well as the food itself, you also need to consider infrastructure like barns or storage areas, buffer areas like fences and hedges, woodland for firewood, and extra areas for rotational grazing if you have different livestock.

However, most people might not manage to be completely self-sufficient, especially because it takes a lot of land, a lot of investment, and a lot of work to keep it going. But even with a smaller portion of land, you can still grow most of the vegetables that you might need throughout the year, as well as rearing chickens for eggs and meat, and even keeping bees for honey. This middle ground is a much more common option because it’s more manageable for most people. No matter how much land you have, it’s important to plan what you grow, where you grow it, and how much food that will provide. This will allow you to maximize the land you have.

Utilities:

As well as looking after your plants and crops, you need to look after yourself. For many people, it’s relatively simple to set up their utilities so that they’re mostly, if not completely, separate from the grid. Solar and wind power can keep your property running, and you can set up a generator if there’s an emergency. You also need to get batteries for storing the power so that, if you lose it for whatever reason, your home can still have electricity.

You can also use natural water sources like lakes, wells, and rainwater for your home. You can store it in cisterns and clean it before you use it. You will have to make sure that you check local regulations when using natural water bodies or wells. A septic tank can store any waste so your home doesn’t need to be hooked up to a sewage system. You will have to get regular septic tank pumping to maintain it and empty it when needed.

Decorating Your Home:

Once you have all of the practical steps covered and your home is self-sufficient, you can focus on making your house feel like your home. You can decorate the exterior and interior for that cottage-core feeling, making sure that you balance practicality with aesthetics.

Creating a self sufficient home is an exciting adventure and can prove that you are much more capable than you thought!

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May28

When To Start Dressing Your Home For Your Age

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When To Start Dressing Your Home For Your Age

You don’t wait for your car to break down before you service it. You shouldn’t wait for your body to demand assistance before modifying your home. The idea that home upgrades for ageing should only happen after a certain birthday is outdated and, frankly, dangerous. The truth is: smart renovation isn’t about age. It’s about foresight:

Your Home Is an Extension of Your Body:

That’s not a metaphor. That’s reality. Your home is where your body moves the most. Where you cook, clean, sleep, bathe. Where you navigate space in the dark at 3 a.m. on your way to the bathroom, it’s also where minor hazards—loose rugs, sharp corners, and tight hallways can become serious obstacles over time.

Why wait until you’re 70 to install a grab bar in the shower, when a sleek, integrated option today could protect your future self without compromising aesthetics? Why ignore door widths that barely accommodate a laundry basket, when you could future proof your house for a rollator or wheelchair years ahead of needing it?

40 Is Not “Too Early”:

A lot of people think they should wait until they’re 60+ to start “ageing in place” upgrades. But here’s a perspective shift: Start thinking about accessible design the same way you think about investing. You don’t start saving for retirement at 65. You start when it’s still decades away. You start small. You start smart. Your 40s and 50s are the perfect time to introduce subtle architectural changes. Wider doorways. Smoother transitions between floors. Lever-style door handles that are easier on arthritic hands (whether you have arthritis now or not). Not to instill paranoia but to be practical.

Design Is Not the Enemy of Dignity:

One common fear: Accessible homes look clinical. Cold. “Old.” That’s a design failure, not a necessity. The market is catching up – finally. You can now get high-style wall railings, walk-in tubs that don’t scream “nursing home,” and ergonomic hardware that would impress even the most stubborn design purist. Design should serve you, not intimidate you. It is about reclaiming autonomy, not giving it up.

Upgrading Isn’t Just for You:

If you live with a partner, plan to age in place with them. Or if you have ageing parents who might move in later, the upgrades you make now could be the difference between struggle and ease, between reaction and readiness. And there’s this: Increasing numbers of younger people face mobility challenges, temporary or permanent. Accidents. Surgeries. Chronic conditions. Thinking ahead isn’t about being morbid. It’s about removing friction from your future. It’s about empathy for yourself and for others.

The Best Time to Modify Was Yesterday. The Second-Best Time Is Today:

The moment you start asking “when should I renovate for the future?” that’s your cue. Start now. Piece by piece. Thoughtfully. You don’t need to rip out your kitchen tomorrow. But maybe it’s time to rethink that narrow staircase. Or that slippery tile in the entryway. The right time to start dressing your home for your age? It’s not tied to a number. It’s tied to intention.

Where to Begin: One Foot in Today, One in Tomorrow:

Start with a walkthrough of your home. Think like a visitor. Better yet, think like your 80-year-old self. What would they trip on? What would they find frustrating? What could bring them relief? Then start small. Prioritize changes that combine safety with comfort. Look into credible resources and suppliers who specialize in smart mobility solutions. One such place is mobility2you.com — a solid resource if you want real-world products without the clinical feel. Keep the upgrades functional, flexible, and intentional.

You don’t have to give up elegance. Or taste. Or personality. But the longer you wait to give your home the maturity it deserves, the harder it becomes. Build a home that’s not just beautiful today. Build a home that respects your future.

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May27

Bunny Love

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Bunny Love

Hello!! Johnny and I have been proud bunny parents to our mother and son duo, Melvin and Penelope, for the past two and a half years and it has been an absolute gift. They have brought an indescribable amount of joy and laughter into our lives and we just love them so much! Ever since adopting them and bringing them home, Melvin has always been our little adventurer. He loves to play and explore and never shies away from cuddles as he was handled by humans since birth. Penelope, on the other hand, is shy and timid. She clearly did not have a lot of human contact in her life and can be quite skittish.

It has been a long process to get Nelly Girl fully comfortable with pets and love and I am pleased to report that she has been making great strides. In fact, it’s almost as if she’s a completely different bunny than the one we brought home. It took a lot of patience and innovation for my bunny girl to not shy away from affection and it was worth every minute. We have been enjoying several times daily cuddles and it has been fantastic! If you have a skittish bunny, here are some of the techniques that worked for me:

Patience Is A Virtue:

I have always believed that Penelope would open up when she was ready and that meant doing everything on her own timeline. If she would run away in an attempt to pet her, I wouldn’t push it. If she was accepting of pets and love, I would utilize that time fully until she was ready to be done. If you continue to push your bunny into a level of contact they aren’t comfortable with, you are just going to terrorize them and they will consider you an unsafe person. I never wanted this to be the case so slow and steady will always win the race. And it did!!

Love Equally:

My two pet bunnies have polar opposite personalities and if you have two buns, it’s so important to not compare them. Whenever Melvin is ready for some love, I always ALWAYS attempt to give love to Penelope too. If she was not accepting of it, that was okay. Instead, I would talk to her in a soft, calm voice and look her in the eyes. That way, she was still receiving affection in a way that was comfortable for her. And, eventually, this coaxing resulted in her coming to me for pets rather than running away. This was one of the most beneficial techniques I used daily and I am so happy that my voice has turned into something that is soothing for them.

Favorite Things:

The way to Penelope’s heart has always been through her stomach lol. That girl can eat and one of her favorite things is an apple treat! If you have a food motivated bun, use it to your advantage when you try to pet them. That way, they will associate your touch with something pleasant while they are munching away on their favorite snack. Another great way to bond is by feeding them by hand. This is something I do with the bunnies daily. If they don’t come to you right away with treat in hand, that’s okay. Give them the option to do so and then place the snack down after a few minutes so they can have it on their own. Once again, patience is a virtue!

Get On Their Level:

Cats and dogs will typically come to you when they are ready for affection. For bunnies, you need to go to them if they are in their hutch. Tread lightly when you are on your way to avoid startling them, speak to them, and get on their level rather than hover over them. Bunnies are prey animals and a looming presence over top of them can be intimidating. If the bunnies are having free roam time, sit on the floor for a while and see what happens! Every morning, I spend some time on the floor doing paperwork. Eventually, my bunnies would come visit me as I was working and it is always a highlight of my morning. ❤

If you have a skittish bunny, be patient, kind, and don’t come on too strong. It took time for Penelope and we have such an amazing bond now!!

Do you have any pets? What kind of personality do they have? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah