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Check This Out!

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Check This Out!

Hello! lifewithlilred has brought me so many amazing opportunities since its birth over twelve years ago and I am so proud of my little corner of the internet. From working with way cool companies to meeting way cool people and having a space that it all my own to create in, I truly never know what is going to happen next when it comes to my blog. I certainly wasn’t expecting this latest development in the slightest!! I am so pleased to report that my thoughts have been featured in an article in The Strategist that discusses the best heated blankets! Take a look:

https://nymag.com/strategist/article/best-electric-blankets-heated-blankets.html

When I was contacted by one of the journalists from The Strategist, I sent in my reply and didn’t think much of it. Then, I looked at my blog stats and saw that I was getting traffic from the website and genuinely couldn’t believe it when I read the article. It was even better than I imagined and it was so crazy to see my blog and my name in a setting other than here and social media. After reading and rereading the article several times over, I jumped out of bed to shout the good news from the mountain tops to Johnny and he was elated. I then texted everyone I know (so like five to seven people) and put the word out on Facebook too! It was joyous for everyone to share in my excitement with me and I am still on cloud nine. ❤

Although lifewithlilred is my happy fun space, there is no question about it: It is a lot of work to maintain. I have posted daily content for so long that it is second nature but the process of creating and writing does take time and an insane amount of dedication. Seeing that article from The Strategist was confirmation that my hard work has been paying off and it just felt good. It was the assurance that there are people out there who are enjoying my page as much as I enjoy authoring it and that is, honestly, all I want from lifewithlilred. The rest is all just a beautiful added bonus!

What’s going to happen next in Lil Red’s world? Who knows! But I’m sure glad you’re all along for the ride with me!

What is something that made you proud recently? How long have you been reading lifewithlilred? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Belated Twelve Year Blogiversary!

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Belated Twelve Year Blogiversary!

Oh hey and oh my goodness! I cannot believe that I didn’t make a post earlier to celebrate my twelve year blogiversary!! The special occasion has came and passed but that doesn’t mean we can’t be excited about it now because I sure am. It is so crazy to think that I started lifewithlilred when I was twenty years old and it is still going strong over a decade later. If you told me I would still be doing the blogging thing after all of this time, I don’t think I would have believed you. Alas, here we are and I could not be more proud of this huge accomplishment!

lifewithlilred is truly a labor of love and there is nothing better to me than sitting down at my laptop every morning and sharing anything and everything with my dear readers. It is a place for me to celebrate the joy of writing and, hopefully, a place for you to have some fun! My blog is a mixture of all of my favorite things – fashion, beauty, books, horror and everything in between. For twelve years, I have carved out a little nook on the World Wide Web that is completely my own and even if no one read my blog, I would still be writing it. My page makes me so happy and my life wouldn’t feel the same without it.

My blog has changed my life in so many positive ways. I made a best friend and I have fostered connections with countless cool people all around the globe. I was an incredibly lonely and sad person when lifewithlilred started and it opened up a whole new world to me. As my blog progressed, those feelings subsided significantly because it was doing exactly what I was hoping it would: To help me make friends. It was such an amazing gift to have people to communicate with no matter where they were located and I could do so in a medium I was fully comfortable with: Writing.

I have always loved to write and filled dozens of journals with my thoughts as a teen and twenty something. My journals were my friends and I turned to them when I felt like I had no one. Now, my journal is my blog and my friends are everyone that reads it! It makes my life feel so full and I genuinely can’t believe the good fortune I had when I threw caution to the wind and started my page. Within a month, I made a best friend who I have talked to all day every day since and that is the best possible outcome of all. I can’t wait to see who lifewithlilred is going to bring into my life every day and I am so glad you are all here with me!

To my beloved readers: Thank you for coming along on this ride. I love you all and here’s to another twelve years of blogging! ❤

How long have you been blogging for? How did you meet your best friend? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

10 Year Blogiversary!!!

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10 Year Blogiversary!!!

Hello everyone!!!! September thirteenth is always a fantastic, wonderful day because it marks lifewithlilred’s blogiversary. This year is an especially exciting one because my blog baby has turned ten! I started my page as a freshly turned twenty year old and I can and can’t believe that it is still going strong a decade later. Part of me is astounded by this milestone and the other part of me is not surprised. I fell in love with blogging immediately and knew that it was something I wanted to continue. Monetary gain was never what interested me – it was simply the joy of writing and creating a page that was uniquely me.

Writing on lifewithlilred has become second nature and my mornings are not complete without it. I found a home in the blogosphere and I never plan on moving out! I have gained so much through blogging. When I began my page, I literally had one friend. Through my blog, I met a best friend right from the jump as well as countless others who I look forward to hearing from. lifewithlilred has made me feel seen and heard and I would still feel that way even if no one reads it. Writing is so cathartic and satisfying to me and that is why I continue to post daily content in my little corner of the internet.

As I think back on a decade of blogging, I think about all that I have been through together with my readers. All of you witnessed changes that were happening in real time. From holidays and birthdays, graduating college, new jobs, and getting married, you got to see it all and that is so special. You have been with me through triumphs and struggles, major milestones, losses, and everything in between. I don’t take that for granted and it motivates me every day to keep on going. lifewithlilred is just as much for all of you as it is for me and I feel so proud of that!

Thank you all for your friendship, your views, and providing me with the determination to blog for an entire decade. Here’s to ten more years of lifewithlilred and here’s to you!

Wanted: Sayonara, Summer Guest Bloggers

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Wanted: Sayonara, Summer Guest Bloggers

Hello my beautiful friends! We are officially in August and in my head, summer is already over lol. I have been manifesting a cool breeze, crunchy leaves, pumpkin spice, and everything nice since summer started. Fall is right on the horizon, back to school will be here before we know it, and I’m sure that everyone is trying to squeeze in the last bits of fun in the sun. As a farewell homage, I thought that it would be the perfect time to introduce a Sayonara, Summer guest bloggers series!

For this collaboration, I am looking for summer recaps. Did you go on vacation? Did you make an amazing dish for a neighborhood barbecue? Maybe you sported the most adorable sundress? Or, perhaps you learned a new skill, took a class, or found a new favorite hobby. Whatever you did, I want to hear the highlights and it will be so interesting to see summer aesthetics from all over the world. 🙂

If you are interested in participating, please shoot your girl an email at: sarah.mush6794@gmail.com with your ideas. I can’t wait to hear them! Much love. -Sarah

The Skills That Are Welcome On Any Resume

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The Skills That Are Welcome On Any Resume

If you’re looking to make a career change successfully, especially if it’s into a field of work that isn’t immediately adjacent to the work you have been doing so far, then you need to make sure that you have something to make up for the experience you don’t have. Today, we’re going to look at some of the skills that can make the most impact on a resume and why they’re so widely welcomed.

Computer literacy:

This is a big one. For as much as many companies might be moving towards having bespoke apps that allow their teams to quickly carry out all kinds of functions without a need for traditional computer literacy, so much of the working world is still carried on the backs of things like Microsoft Office, Google Docs, and so on. What’s more, employers are finding that the younger generations actually have less computer literacy than their older peers, due to being raised on things like touchscreen apps, so the need for those who know how to handle a mouse, keyboard, and an operating system’s files and folders are in much higher demand now. Most businesses have some degree of digital component to them.

Emergency first aid skills:

Aside from needing people to fill the roles and responsibilities that help them carry out their business, selling products, and providing services, business owners also have certain obligations to live up to, legally. Their health and safety obligations are often at the top of these. Business owners tend to ensure that they have members of their team who, while they might have other duties, are able to help them meet these first aid requirements. As such, getting an online CPR certification not only makes you a great help in an emergency, but it also helps employers tick a box in their essential health and safety requirements. Of course, you want to keep up with your certifications to make sure that they’re up to date and that you’re actually able to perform them when it’s demanded.

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Verbal communication:

Regardless of your industry, there are many situations where good verbal communication can be vital: giving presentations, meeting clients and customers, contributing to team meetings, and much more. It can be difficult to demonstrate good verbal communication skills on your resume, but you can work on these skills with things like public speaking groups. From there, some of the proof is going to have to show in the pudding, especially during the interview process, but being a confident and capable speaker makes itself pretty clear in no time.

Understanding and analyzing data:

Businesses are relying so much more on data nowadays. Collecting data from customers, software, analytic tools, and more has become standard practice in a range of industries. You don’t have to be a data scientist to learn some basic data analysis. You simply have to be able to understand datasets when you’re looking at them to be able to pull out relevant data and make observations on trends in that data. This can be as simple as looking at social media analytics to see which posts are more successful in reaching your audience and why that might be the case.

Customer service:

Your ability to handle customers with the kind of care and attention that they need could make you a valuable hire in any career involving sales, customer outreach, or general support. While customer service might be a soft skill, that doesn’t mean that it’s difficult to demonstrate your aptitude in it. You can look at customer service training courses that can give you the chance you need to both build and showcase your dedication to the craft. A focus on skills like customer service shows that you have a mind for what is important for the business, not just within your role as a worker, which many employers find valuable, as well.

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Accounting or bookkeeping:

A lot of mid-size or bigger businesses will hire someone to specifically serve as an accountant to make sure that all of their financial and organizational needs are being taken care of. However, for smaller businesses, that can be more expensive than they are able to take on at that moment. Instead, you may find that they are willing to offer those responsibilities to those who are in general admin roles. Building some skills in using bookkeeping software can help you become much more attractive as an administrator. It’s important to know the difference between accounting and bookkeeping, however, and ensure that you don’t accidentally sell yourself as an accountant unless you’re chartered.

Social media:

You might not necessarily be applying for a marketing position, but more and more people are finding that their employers require them to be active on social media. Answering questions, putting out posts, and generally managing the brand’s online community needs to be done with a deft hand. You want to be able to balance friendly with professional and not lean too far in one direction or the other. Learning how to use different social media platforms can help you slip into all manner of roles easier. Combine that with the data analysis skills above and it can make you a very valuable hire, indeed.

Resume writing skills:

Now, this skill might not technically be one that you’re likely to include on your resume itself, but it is one that will make itself apparent throughout the entirety of it. Writing a resume well is all about being able to concisely convey the qualifications, skills, and other information that your potential employer wants to see. It’s not just about the text you write, but how you format it to make it more readable and digestible by the employer. An important skill to learn is how to cater your resume to the needs and wants of the specific employer.

Beyond the skills above, you need to make sure that you’re able to handle the recruitment process, be well-prepared for interviews, and sell yourself to be able to make the transition into a new career as smoothly as possible!

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1690 Day Blogging Streak!!

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1690 Day Blogging Streak!!

Hellooo everyone!! The other day, I was pretty impressed by myself with my 1250 Day Duolingo Streak. This equals out to be about three and a half years of daily practice! Then, I looked at my amount of days of daily content on lifewithlilred and had an “omg” moment. I am on a 1690 plus day streak which is four and a half full years of every day latest and greatest on my blog! I never pay too much attention to these numbers because I am so used to doing daily practice and writing. As you can imagine it comes as a huge surprise when I do notice and do the math lol.

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Some four and a half years ago, I made the decision to start publishing daily content on lifewithlilred. Rather, I made the decision to do the best I could and no big deal if I miss a day or two. As you all know, I am a very goal and schedule oriented person so that day started the streak with no ifs, ands, or buts for a skipped day. A little bit crazy? Maybe! But I could not be more proud of myself and I look forward to writing every day. It is my release and it’s exciting to have a little corner of the internet that I carved out through this dedication.

Part of the motivation behind this streak came from me, myself, and I. However, a majority of it came from each and everyone of you. The most rewarding thing about blogging for me has always been making new friends. So, even if just a handful of people were reading and interacting, I’d still consider it a great success! lifewithlilred introduced me to one of my best friends almost a decade ago and countless others that make logging in every day a joy – not a chore in the slightest. Every morning, I can’t wait to see my notifications from the blogging community because it is what makes me happiest. A world full of friends that find enjoyment in my page as much as I enjoy writing on it. ❤

I am SO stoked to achieve a five year daily writing streak on lifewithlilred and it makes every day feel like a victory. Thank you to all of you for sticking with me – my blog would not be the same without you!

What is something that motivates you? What goals are you working towards? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Writing Prompts For 2024

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Writing Prompts For 2024

Howdy everyone!! Is it just me or does January feel like an entire year in itself? Lol, it has been rainy and so freaking cold in good old Akron, Ohio and every day has felt like an eternity. I literally just said yesterday that one of my blogging goals was to try lots of new activities and hit up restaurants and stores that are outside of the norm for me. However, I think I will do all of that when I can leave the apartment without getting drenched or frostbite lol. If you are hibernating like me this month, it might be hard to create content so I thought I would share some writing prompts to help the cause. Let’s get to it:

  • What are you most looking forward to in 2024?
  • If you are rocking a “new year, new me” vibe, what is going to be new about you?
  • What is a goal or resolution that you have achieved?
  • What is a goal or resolution that you gave up on?
  • What is something new that you want to try this year?
  • What is something that you are leaving behind in 2023?
  • How would you recap 2023? Did anything amazing happen?
  • Is there anything you really hope to accomplish this year?
  • What does a new year mean to you? Is it inspiring or daunting?
  • Do you plan on making any major changes this year? What are they?

The beginning of a new year is a time for reflection and that can be reflected in your content! This is the perfect time to start planning what you want 2024 to look like for you and figuring out the steps you need to take to make it happen. You might find that these prompts will be able to help with that, which is the whole point! This time of the year can be inspiring or it can be writer’s block central. It’s up to you, so make the most of it. 🙂

If you use any of the above prompts, please tag me in the post or shoot me a comment so I can check it out. I would love to see it! ❤

What helps you when you have writer’s block? Does the weather tend to affect your mood or motivation? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

2024 Blogging Goals

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2024 Blogging Goals

Hello!! We are a few weeks into 2024 and so far so good in my neck of the woods! I can’t remember the last time I made a New Years Resolution, but I do see the merit in setting achievable goals for my blog at the start of each new year. So I guess it’s kind of the same thing? Lol, either way, I always find that setting blog goals keeps me even more motivated to continue sending content into the blogosphere. Last year, I wanted to try and create OOTD posts as often as I could and I think I did a really good job of it! This is something that I definitely want to keep up with as well as the following:

More OOTDs:

My goal last year was to shoot OOTD content each weekend and even though I missed quite a few, I still managed to create more fashion content than ever on lifewithlilred. This was really beneficial to the blog for several reasons. 1) First and foremost, it was a lot of fun. 2) OOTD content gave me two set in stone posts per week for the outfit itself and blooper reel. For someone who publishes daily content, this was a godsend. I will be happy if I can keep up with the pace I established last year so my goal is to keep doing more of the same!

Daily Content:

I have been publishing once a day on lifewithlilred for over four years and it is an amazing achievement! With a streak like that, it is incredibly motivating to keep it up and I simply refuse to break it. Most of the time, it is very easy for me to create posts for my blog. Other times, writer’s block strikes and it can be like pulling teeth! I have two goals this year to help assist in my daily content endeavor and those are: 1) Not to be so hard on myself when I’m feeling uninspired because that just makes writer’s block even worse. 2) To try lots of new things like different experiences, restaurants, and activities to not only enjoy myself but to keep content fresh.

Ten Year Blogiversary Extravaganza:

It will be my ten year blogiversary in September and I am beyond thrilled about it! If anyone were to tell me when I started lifewithlilred that I would still be going strong a decade later, I would have thought it impossible. Yet, here we are and I am so very, very proud. To commemorate this huge achievement, I would love to do a super cute celebratory photo shoot as well as do a few giveaways and contests too. This will be the first time I will be doing something like hosting a contest on my page and I can’t think of a better time to start than a ten year blogiversary. 😀

Interact More:

I have acquired quite a few jobs in the social media field this past year and I feel like I have ignored my newsfeed on WordPress completely. I am not particularly proud of this and it is something that I would like to change. My plan of action will be to spend some time throughout the week exploring new blogs rather than endlessly scrolling through my personal Facebook. The beauty of the blogosphere is making new friends and finding content that inspires you and I definitely need more of that in my life!

Are these goals or New Years Resolutions, who’s to say? But, I plan on sticking with them and I can’t wait to see what 2024 brings for lifewithlilred!

How is 2024 treating you so far? What are some goals for your blog this year? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Friendly Reminder!

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Friendly Reminder!

Hello!!! Every once in a while do you get messages from random people you went to high school with and never once spoke to asking to join a pyramid scheme? Because SAME lol. I also receive a ton of messages asking for one of my number one pet peeves – to “pick my brain” about blogging. In other words, get free advice on my expertise because we graduated from the same high school or just so happen to be friends on social media. It is amazing how quickly the conversation ends once my consultation rates are explained. This sounds snobby, but it is very annoying – especially because I often offer advice on my blog free of charge so I know they aren’t reading my page at all!

My logic behind offering consultations for those who want to start a blog is similar to why I pay for tattoo consultations. The bottom line, is that people are spending their time and knowledge to help you and that is something that should be compensated monetarily. For my consultations, it is a $25 flat rate and in that time we will work through several key points that are essential when starting a blog. This includes: Creating a name around your vision, establishing a writing and publishing schedule that works for you, figuring out your strongest writing categories and choosing offshoot categories, networking strategies, a special shout out on my page, and so much more.

Unless you are really good friends with a blogger or social media guru, chances are you are going to be asked to pay a fee for advice. This is just a friendly reminder because for a lot of people, myself included, blogging is a business. Those who have established a name in this field worked really hard for it and our knowledge is worthy of being considered valuable. The same goes for anyone who works in a creative field – remember, this isn’t just our hobby but our livelihood! 🙂

This post was not meant to be bratty, but what the title says – a Friendly Reminder. I have been experiencing this issue a lot lately and I know that I am not the only one who can relate!

What is one of your biggest pet peeves? What else should I include in my blogging consultations? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Belated Nine Year Blogiversary!!

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Belated Nine Year Blogiversary!!

Hello!!!! September 13th was lifewithlilred’s Nine Year Blogiversary and it came as a huge surprise to me lol. Obviously, because this is a belated celebration post! Not only was the date of this a shock, but also the length of time. It feels like just yesterday that twenty year old Sarah sat down and began her blogging journey. It is thrilling that almost a decade later, my blog is still going stronger than ever with daily content for the past four years and change!

As always, the best part about lifewithlilred is all of the incredible friends and readers that have come along for the ride. And, man, have we been through a lot! You have all been there through major milestones in my life – graduating college, new jobs, and getting married. It is so special to me to know that my dear readers are there celebrating the good and offering support for the bad every step of the way. It inspires and motivates me to no end, which is the main reason lifewithlilred has kept on truckin all of these years.

Every day, I feel so excited to sit down and write and I think that my blog is a reflection of my favorite phrase “the joy of writing”. I write for me, I write for my beloved viewers, I would write for no viewers – it just makes me happy to do. lifewithlilred is something that brings me true joy and it is my safe haven that I have carved out in the great world wide web. For nine years, I have been in blogging bliss and I cannot wait to see what else is in store for my page in the years to come. ❤

Thank you to each and every one of you for being the driving force behind lifewithlilred for the past nine years. I could not do it without that love and support and it works both ways. I love all of you and wish nothing but for you to continue on in your blogging journey and experience the joy of writing every day!