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Hand Me Down OOTD

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Hand Me Down OOTD

Hello everyone and welcome to a brand new OOTD here on lifewithlilred. Today, we are going to take a look at a look I put together with a Hand Me Down sweater from our best friend, Cliff. Technically, it’s a double hand me down because said featured sweater belonged to Cliff’s grandpa! Johnny came home with a ton of clothes that Cliff was clearing out the last time they were together and nothing really caught my eye except for this spiffy little number. You can read why this will be the first and last time I wear this sweater in the Blooper Reel tomorrow, but let’s get to it:

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Striped Sweater: Designed by Arnold Palmer for Robert Bruce

Skinny Jeans: 1822 Denim, TJMaxx

Snakeskin Patterned Kitten Heels: Splendid, TJMaxx

The earrings were purchased forever ago from PacSun!

I have been telling Johnny for forever that he would look So. Good. in sweaters like this Robert Bruce one. When he brought it home, I liked it for me but LOVED it for him. Unfortunately, he saw things differently than me and claimed that the sweater was “too small anyways” so never mind lol. After he discarded the notion, I tried it on for myself and, aside from one glaring issue, was all about it. And, rather than wearing it over top of something like a cardigan, I decided to button it up as a top since the V-neck wasn’t plunging. From the cut to the colors, this is truly a “grandpa chic” piece and I just know Cliff’s grandad was styling in it. ❤

Since black skinnies were the way to go, it was time for shoes and accessories. To keep with the vintage vibes, I chose one of my favorite pairs of stud earrings from PacSun. The gold frame and red roses in the center remind me of brooches and tend to be my go tos when I am building an outfit with vintage clothing. For shoes, I selected a gorgeous pair of snakeskin patterned kitten heels by Splendid. Despite the pointed toe, they made me think of loafers and that was perfect for the elderly aesthetic I was working with lol. The colors in the pattern of the shoes and the sweater blended beautifully together and I felt like all I was missing was a cup of tea to complete the look!

As cute as this sweater might be (I really do love it!), it has since been retired from my wardrobe. Whoever ends up with it will have a triple hand me down!!

Do you like to wear vintage clothing? Where do you purchase yours at? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Super Cute Craft

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Super Cute Craft

Hello!! Whenever Johnny and I watch our nieces, we always like to do some type of craft together. The girls are especially partial to painting. Whether it be on mugs, paper, or wooden or clay figurines – they are all about it and we have many of their masterpieces displayed throughout the apartment. This past weekend, we enjoyed using one of the painting gifts that I got for my eldest niece and it was a huge hit. If you have a little who loves art and unicorns, I cannot recommend this kit by SpringFlower enough. Check it out:

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^^^ Photo by SpringFlower

I purchased the unicorn painting kit by SpringFlower off of Amazon for twenty dollars and was pleasantly surprised by how nice it was. It came with eight felt figurines that were all different from each other (Awesome!), tubes of glitter, paint, and paint brushes. The figurines were sturdy, easy to paint on, and just so darn cute. They were serving MAJOR My Little Pony vibes and, as a total nineties kid, I was living for it! Even my niece appreciated this nod because My Little Pony was her mom’s (my sister’s) all time favorite and they have several of them throughout their house. ❤

As I prepared dinner over the weekend, Johnny and my niece broke out the unicorn figurines to paint together. Before I even had my back turned, they were already laughing and scheming on what colors to use. My heart was bursting, but it simply exploded when I checked back in on them ten or so minutes later. Our niece proudly told me “TT – Uncle Johnny and I are both making rock and roll unicorns!” They created a color palette to use and made matching, concert ready unicorns. Once they were dry, our niece decided Johnny’s unicorn needed to be put by his record player and I couldn’t think of a more perfect spot!

12/10 Highly recommend this painting kit. It is an ideal activity for a day in or even setting it up as a painting station at a birthday party for an adorable keepsake!

What was your favorite childhood toy? Where are all my other nineties kids at? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

The Best Investments You Can Make In A Rural Household

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The Best Investments You Can Make In A Rural Household

Escaping to the countryside is a common dream for many people, and most often comes when we’re stuck in a traffic jam on a busy morning work commute! But of course, moving to a rural area and enjoying a more remote home is work and an adjustment to make. For this reason, learning some of the best investments you may need to make in a rural home, even if you find a worthwhile deal, is absolutely worth it. In this post, we’ll discuss some choices that may help you on that path:

You’ll find that solid fencing really does transform a rural property. Many newcomers to country living discover that boundaries help maintain excellent relationships with neighbors while keeping the local wildlife from treating gardens like their personal buffet. But it’s also true that in rural areas, sometimes homeowners just leave their property borders unattended. Sometimes this is fine, but other times it might confuse rural walkers or those who encroach on your property without permission. You’re not being over the top for wanting to make these lines clear.

You can achieve a good-looking option by investing in simple wooden fencing or hedges, which can prevent confusion about where maintenance duties begin and end. Many rural homeowners have learned through experience that clear boundaries prevent somewhat tense conversations about fallen trees or building projects that accidentally cross property lines. Before you buy a property, have the land and borders surveyed so you know what the outlines are.

Most rural homes need their own waste management solutions since they sit too far from main sewage lines. You might be surprised to learn that current septic systems work quite efficiently with minimal fuss, even if it’s not the most romantic idea or home upgrade you want to think about. While the upfront costs can feel substantial, a well-installed system often serves a property for decades when properly maintained, and emptying duties might only be needed once a year or so. If you share this with a neighbor you can split the cost. Care and mindful use makes all the difference here.

Many rural homes sit on minor and private roads that may be your task to maintain, or it won’t get done. They could be owned by a house or perhaps part owned by everyone on the road. It’s fair to say that sometimes, a private less maintained road can be a bit of a headache. That’s because rain can reshape paths overnight and you’ll find out that winter brings its own set of challenges with snow removal becoming a personal responsibility. Many rural communities will be keen in sharing these duties and having good co-operation about it, which helps you split both effort and expenses. You might want to consider either investing in good equipment or building a relationship with a reliable local contractor. This way you can discuss potential issues with potholes or water pooling before it affect your vehicles. As everyone has an interest in avoiding such issues, it’s a worthwhile investment, but one you need to prepare for.

The countryside is amazing in that it offers wonderfully dark nights for stargazing, but you’ll likely want some lighting solutions for practical purposes too. You may find success with modern LED systems because they use minimal electricity while providing excellent illumination when needed. A great portion of rural homeowners discover that carefully placed motion-activated lights are good for security and energy efficiency.

We’re not going to suggest that living in a rural environment is akin to posting in the International Space Station, but power interruptions tend to last longer in rural areas, and weather can sometimes limit access to town. That’s why even if you haven’t experienced an issue yet, maintaining a well-stocked pantry as a matter of necessity rather than convenience is a good idea. You might want to consider keeping emergency water supplies, basic medical items, and a reliable generator on hand if that’s possible. Grit and other snow-fighting materials can help too.

On a rural property, you have more options for renewable power, which might be an investment now but could pay off over time! Rural properties often have good exposure and conditions for solar power, with plenty of open roof space and unobstructed sunlight if you’re lucky enough. You may even have a water wheel as part of your building that might take some time to get rebuilt over the river, or a place you can use for biofuels. While setting up renewable systems does require renovation and installation that comes with a cost, the long-term savings could be quite significant. Back that up with functional utilities such as furnace installation for appropriate heating, and you’ll be set up perfectly!

With this advice, we hope you can more easily make some good investments in your rural household, should you ever escape to that country life you dream about!

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Beboe Blackberry Gummies Review

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Beboe Blackberry Gummies Review

Hello!! Marijuana was legalized in Ohio for recreational use a few years back and it was honestly one of the coolest things my state has ever done lol. Since then, dispensaries (or as I like to call them “Weed Boutiques”) have been popping up everywhere. Some of the ones nearby are specific only towards medical use, but the one I go to called Curaleaf offers both medicinal and recreational options. I usually opt to buy cartridges for my vape but on occasion I will go the gummy route. This can be hit or miss and I am, more often than not, less than impressed. The Blackberry gummies by Beboe, however, are something to write home about:

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Let me start out by getting this story out of the way… Johnny and I have a million different nicknames for each other. They start out as one thing, then they dissolve into something light years away from the original pet name. For example, I have no idea why I call Johnny “beboe” but I do and it is frequent word that’s thrown around our household. So, I guess what I’m trying to say by this is that I had a moral obligation to give the Beboe gummies a go. It is our namesake, after all.

I really wasn’t expecting much out of these gummies, but my first impression was a good one. The blackberry flavor was just right. I have tried quite a few Black Cherry gummies in my day and they tasted like cough syrup. Not that I need them to taste like candy, but the Blackberry was easily one of the best tasting ones I’ve used. The gummie size was a little bit smaller than a piece of Laffy Taffy (I guess we are on a candy kick now!) and after having one, all that was left was to wait for it to do its thing.

All I have to say is, if you are a fan a soothing, but giggly high – these are the gummies for you. Even on the weekends, I find it very difficult to relax and can feel guilty for having a nice time. My mind is always, always going and because of work related stress, it was racing this past weekend. Once these babies hit, it was legit like “what work?” lol. It honestly felt like the first time I wasn’t thinking about work all week because I’m pretty sure it was. Negativity disintegrated into the giggles and it was SO nice to have a laugh and not get an immediate guilt trip.

By the time I was ready for bed, I slept incredibly after many nights of constant tossing and turning. I woke up feeling fully energized and it was as if a “mental reset” button had been hit. I would happily buy the Beboes again and *highly* (lol) recommend them!

Do you have any dispensaries near you? What is your favorite brand of gummy? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Best Gift Ever

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Best Gift Ever

Hello!! Johnny and I are the proud “fun aunt and uncle” to five little darlings. There are four girls and one boy and celebrating the holidays all together was the most wonderful gift. It was so sweet to watch them rip open their presents and play the day away and it also gave me an even deeper respect for all the parents out there. We were exhausted by the time we got home! The kiddos weren’t far from our minds, though, because we spent the rest of the evening talking about how cute they were and laughing about all of the funny things they said and did. And, of course, treasuring the Best Gift Ever that my eldest niece presented me with. Check it out:

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Back in my day, my grade school would have a “Santa Shop” during the holiday season to purchase small gifts for loved ones. At our Val Gal’s school, they apparently did the same. On Christmas, she was so proud to hand out gifts that she got all by herself. This included a pretty “Grandma” heart shaped necklace for my mom, a wrench keychain for my dad, and the stuffed mushroom for me lol. I’m honestly not sure why this was my gift – part of me thinks it’s because we watched the Mario Movie together or maybe the colors reminded her of my hair. Whatever the reason is doesn’t matter because the fact remains that she saw it and thought that I would love to have it for Christmas. And she was so right!!

As an extended Christmas gift from Johnny and I, we hosted Val for a slumber party. As soon as she came barrelling through the door, she immediately saw my new stuffie displayed front and center on one of our knick knack shelves. I told her that I put it there as soon as we got home from our holiday dinner and that delighted her because it was further confirmation that TT loved her gift. Although we each got spoiled rotten this Christmas, our catchphrase during the slumber party was saying “you’re my gift” to each other. There is truly no better gift than that… Except for my mushroom. ❤

Our nieces and nephew are literal sunshine and I am so thankful that we were all home for the holidays. It really was one of the best Christmases ever!

Who was your favorite aunt or uncle growing up? What was the best gift you received this year? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Happy New Year!!

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Happy New Year!!

Howdy everyone and happy 2025!! It is the first day of a brand new year here on lifewithlilred and it’s hard to believe that this is the eleventh New Year we have all celebrated together. My resolutions are prepped and I don’t know about you, but I am ready to take 2025 on by storm! I have to admit, this last month or so of 2024 sucked on ice and I am really trying to start this year on the right foot. The best way I know how? By being upbeat, positive, and knowing that there are plenty of good things to come in 2025. And, with all of you by my side, I know that to be even more true. ❤

I hope this New Year brings you so much happiness, cherished memories, and success. I cannot wait to see the fun we get into for lifewithlilred’s eleventh year on the blogosphere and I love you all!!

Holiday Haul

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Holiday Haul

Howdy!! Johnny’s family knows how to spoil a girl rotten for the holidays and I am always so thankful to have been thought of. Well, thought of or straight up had my mind read! This year’s Holiday Haul was a particularly excellent one because I received SO. Many. Gifts that I had every intention of purchasing for myself with Christmas gift cards and moolah. Like me, my in laws love to go Christmas crazy and it definitely shows. Check it out:

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Johnny’s family is REALLY good at giving gifts that are, without a doubt, going to be used. This just so happens to be my favorite kind of gift because chances are high that I would need to buy something similar anyways so I can use that money as a little treat for me or to save up. The set of cutting boards is a shining example of that. I have NO idea how my mother-in-law knew that I needed new cutting boards because I’ve never mentioned it to her or Johnny. I was elated when I opened the set because 1) Literally all of my cutting boards suck. 2) They are all too small. And 3) I was going to buy a new one for myself during post holiday shopping. Is being absolutely stoked by cutting boards what it means to be an adult?!

Another instance of my mother-in-law “just knowing” was my bag of bath and body care. There’s no way she could have known that I have been especially partial to bar soap recently and I was just about out of the one that I was using. I tried out the Peppermint Candy bar soap she got me today and it was divine! Not only that, but I was ALSO almost out of my Bath & Body Works hand sanitizer and she had that covered too. The candles were a very nice touch as well because I never buy them for myself. As I write this, I am burning the Sweet Orange & Agave and it is the perfect zesty and invigorating scent for an early morning computer sesh.

Finally, from Johnny’s aunt Elaine, I am also sporting the adorable cropped hoodie she got for me as I write this. It is so cute and comfy and I cannot wait to pair it with leggings and the boot socks that were included too. As a practical gift, she gave us a hand vacuum which is really good motivation for me and Johnny to clean out our cars… Eventually, anyways. It is the holidays after all! 🙂

I have already been making great use of the gifts from Johnny’s family as well as buying some extra goodies for myself with gift cards. Check out those hauls soon!!

What is your favorite gift you received this year? What is a practical gift that you love? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

For The Lols

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For The Lols

Hello! Johnny and I had a wonderful holiday celebration with his family on Christmas Eve. As per Miller Family tradition, we enjoyed a delicious meal, opened presents, and then had our annual viewing of National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation. This has been the formula for the past five years and I would not change it for the world! We were treated to so many amazing gifts and an extremely funny one that I just had to share with all of you. This was mailed to us from one of Johnny’s aunts and I literally can’t even lol. Check it out:

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Johnny’s Aunt Eileen is a true spitfire of a woman. She is (as you can see) hilarious, sassy AF, and a ball of energy that cannot be contained. When Johnny opened this gift box, I didn’t see the “surprise” inside – but whatever it was gave him a full fledged laugh attack. He tossed the box to me with the adoring words of “just for you” and I was greeted by a middle finger on a spring!! We were in stitches and all in agreement that this was so “classic Eileen”. 😀

That’s it. That’s the post lol but I couldn’t not show it off to the blogosphere. And, in conclusion, this small and silly gag gift was one of our favorites so take a note from Aunt Eileen’s book and never be afraid to have FUN with your gifts!

What is the funniest gag gift you ever received? Do you have a White Elephant tradition in your family? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

It’s In The Bag: Anne Klein Edition

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It’s In The Bag: Anne Klein Edition

Hello to you and welcome to a brand new edition of It’s In The Bag! Today, we are going to take a look at the piece de resistance from my mother and father-in-law for Christmas – a gorgeous new bag by Anne Klein! Johnny’s mom managed to get me SO many things that I was planning on buying for myself and she read my mind with this purse. After restocking my skin care with TJMaxx gift cards, I thought it would be nice to use the remainder on a new bag! So, maybe shoes instead?! Take a look:

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When I opened my new Anne Klein purse, I literally clutched my pearls. It’s just so beautiful and I am in love with the dusty rose hue. Dusty rose looks absolutely stunning on my mom and sister, but it washes me out badly. So, it is a color that I don’t have any of in my wardrobe, accessories included. Until now, that is! The shape and color of this bag are the epitome of chic to me and I cannot wait to empty my old bag out so I can have this pretty little thing draped from my arm, instead.

Speaking of my old bag, it has not been it for a while and I have just been too lazy to change it out lol. It has several different compartments on the inside and you have no idea how many times I find myself per day digging through it like a racoon trying to find my chapstick. What is also especially pleasing to me about my new purse is that there are, blessedly, no compartments for all of my odds and ends to get lost in. It might not be as spacious as my old bag, but I’m using that as motivation to stop putting Every. Receipt. Ever. in it and not throwing them out! 😀

This purse is, hands down, one of my favorite gifts from Christmas. I am so excited to be a woman on the go with my new bag in tow!!

Which colors look great on you? How about not so flattering? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

December 2024 Finishes

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December 2024 Finishes

Howdy and holy WOW!! I am here today to discuss the last batch of Beauty Finishes for 2024. It seems hard to believe but I know it to be fact every time I look at the calendar in a state of shock lol. I used up a few new to me products and some old favorites this past month and, as you can imagine, I am SO excited to do my annual post-holiday skin care restock with my TJMaxx gift cards from Christmas. So out with the old in this post and in with the new! Let’s get to it:

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Would I Use Again?

Evoluderm Micellar Water: YES

Bath & Body Works Vanilla Bean Noel Lotion: YES

Vital Beauty Cooling Eye Gel: YES

SheaMoisture Deo Cream: NO

Purifect CEO Of H20 Serum: YES

Why/Why Not?

Vital Beauty Eye Gel: The Cooling Eye Gel by Vital Beauty is one of my go to products. It is one of those things that check all of my boxes when it comes to skin care – longevity and effectiveness. It took me two and a half months of twice daily use to finish the jar and I always notice a nice difference in my skin when using this product. My designer bags significantly reduce in color and puffiness for the wide awake look on a permanently sleepy girl!

SheaMoisture Deo Cream: I got the whole body deo cream by SheaMoisture as a freebie from Target. For my personal preference, I would not use this product again and was eager to go back to my tried and true Ban deodorant. That’s not to say that I don’t see the good in it, though, and I think it would be great for those who need full body coverage. I was very surprised that this travel size bottle took me over a month of once daily use to finish it so you will be getting a bang for your buck.

Purifect Serum: I really, REALLY liked the CEO Of H20 serum by Purifect and its namesake delivered. With every use, my skin felt so hydrated and soft and looked radiant. You can read my full review in the link above, but my one qualm with the serum was that I did use it up quickly. By three weeks of twice daily use, I had to hit up my stockpile for a new serum. I would definitely still use it again, though, and now I know to buy a few extra if I see it again at TJMaxx!

And, with that, the 2024 Finishes are complete and ended on a strong note. Now, get me to TJMaxx to go skin care crazy ASAP!

Which products did you use up this month? What are your thoughts on any of the above products if you have used them before? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah