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Beyond The Ear: Understanding How We Process Sound

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Beyond The Ear: Understanding How We Process Sound

We often think of hearing as something that only happens in our ears. While they’re definitely where it starts, the real magic actually takes place in your brain. Hearing isn’t just about picking up sound waves; it’s about making sense of them and turning them into meaningful information. Understanding this difference is crucial for realizing why you might hear someone speaking but still struggle to understand what they’re saying, especially in a noisy restaurant or a busy family gathering.

Your brain can’t make sense of a sound until it receives it. This whole process is an amazing biological feat. It kicks off when sound waves enter your outer ear and travel down the ear canal to your eardrum. Those eardrum vibrations then pass through three tiny bones in your middle ear to the fluid-filled inner ear, also known as the cochlea. Inside the cochlea, thousands of tiny hair cells change these vibrations into electrical signals. These signals then travel along the auditory nerve to the brain. According to the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders, this intricate system is how we hear and perceive the world around us. It’s a lightning-fast sequence that lets us instantly react to a car horn, enjoy music, or hear a loved one’s voice.

Once sound signals reach your brain, the next step begins: Auditory processing. This is what your central nervous system does with the information it gets from your ears. Think of your ears as microphones capturing audio; your brain is the sound engineer that filters, organizes, and makes sense of it all. It separates important speech from background noise, figures out a voice’s pitch and tone, and recognizes familiar sounds.

When this system works well, you can easily follow a conversation. When it doesn’t, you might hear the sound but miss the meaning. This is where the difference between hearing and understanding becomes clear. Difficulties here aren’t always about how loud something is; sometimes, the problem is clarity. Professional assessments like speech testing can help figure out how well you understand spoken words in different situations, giving a clearer picture of your brain’s processing abilities. This is a key part of your overall auditory process.

It’s normal to mishear someone now and then, but ongoing difficulties can point to an underlying auditory processing challenge. You might notice some of these signs in yourself or someone you know:

  • You frequently ask people to repeat themselves, even in quiet places.
  • You struggle to follow conversations in noisy spots like cafes or parties.
  • Following multi-step verbal directions is tough.
  • Phone conversations are challenging because you can’t see visual cues.
  • You feel exhausted after social situations that demand a lot of listening.
  • You often mix up similar-sounding words, like “seventy” and “seventeen.”

These challenges can be frustrating and isolating, making communication feel like hard work. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward finding effective ways to manage them and improve how you communicate.

If you find listening to be a challenge, you can take practical steps to improve your comprehension and reduce frustration. These strategies focus on making your environment better and using smarter communication habits. First, try to cut down on background noise whenever you can. If you’re having an important conversation, turn off the TV or radio. In a restaurant, ask for a table in a quieter spot, away from the kitchen or main entrance.

Second, set yourself up for success. Face the person you’re speaking with so you can see their facial expressions and lip movements; these offer valuable context. Don’t be afraid to politely ask others to speak a little slower or more clearly. Finally, practice active listening by paying close attention, asking clarifying questions, and summarizing what you heard to make sure you understood correctly.

Taking small, proactive steps can make a big difference in how well you connect with others and fully participate in conversations. Being mindful of how you listen and communicate can help you navigate challenging auditory environments with more confidence!

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So Cute It’s Scary Craft

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So Cute It’s Scary Craft

Hello! Marc’s is a staple discount store in the greater Northeast Ohio region that is known for its pretty good prices but better known for its famous “closeout aisle”. The closeout aisle is, indeed, exciting because you truly never know what you are going to find. It could be anything from clothing and home decor to little gadgets, toys, or seasonal goods. It is my favorite when the closeout aisle features Halloween decor and I look forward to it every year! My dad tracks the progress of when the best Halloween goodies are out and they have recently began stocking their shelves, one of which had the most delightful spooky craft on it! Check it out:

My dad purchased this adorable sticker craft for our nieces and let me bring it back to my place as Johnny and I were hosting them for a slumber party. The book contained pages full of stickers to build faces for tons of Halloween characters like witches, ghosts, vampires, Frankenstein, black cats, mummies, and more. We spent a solid hour with the girls decking our characters out with stickers and each completed four pictures. Not only was this craft pure spooky fun but it was also a great exercise in sharing and teamwork. When one of us needed a certain sticker like ears or a nose, we all stopped what we were doing to browse through the sticker options together to find the perfect addition for the picture. We shared ideas, collaborated on ingredients for a witch’s brew, and even pretended to be our characters afterwards!

This craft was So Cute It’s Scary and the girls had such a good time with it. However, I think us grown ups liked it even more! Halfway through our early spooky season sticker session, Johnny declared that he wanted to get another one. I concurred and when he returned back from work the following day with the sticker book in tow. I have a feeling we’ll be spending some down time filling the pages together and will definitely be saving some for the next time the girls are over. There is no better time for me and Johnny than Halloween and we just love sharing our joy for the season with our girl squad! ❤

If you have kiddos or are a Halloween loving adult, this is such a fabulous craft if you can find something similar. Highly recommend!

Have stores near you started putting out Halloween items? What is your favorite Halloween character? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Unique Unicorn OOTD Bloopers

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Unique Unicorn OOTD Bloopers

Howdy y’all and welcome to the Blooper Reel from my Unique Unicorn OOTD! This little look was worn to celebrate my darling middle niece’s birthday and it was such fun. The birthday girl had the best day – so much so that she has been asking when it can be her birthday again lol. We’ve got a ways to go for that, kid! My sister put together such a delightful party and even hired a face painter for the festivities. Although the kids had a blast with it, I daresay that I enjoyed it the most. How often does an adult get the opportunity to get unicorn style face paint?! The answer is: Not often enough. The face painter really did do a bang up job but these pictures do not do her work justice! Let’s take a looksee:

Johnny and I recently hosted our two big nieces for a slumber party before they go back to school and it was a hoot. We did lots of crafts, ordered pizza, and watched Toy Story 4. And, as per slumber party tradition, we had ice cream sundaes for dessert! Normally when I am with the girl squad, I am constantly picking them up, swinging them around, or giving piggy back rides. This time, however, was different as I can’t lift more than ten pounds post surgery. The girls understood and were SO attentive to their TT and it really warmed my heart. ❤

When I got up to start sundae prep, my middle niece stopped me to ask if I could still carry ice cream lol. Blessedly, I could still swing that! The following day when my sister picked them up, I started to carry some of their belongings down to the car. I wasn’t thinking about my post op instructions whatsoever but my biggest niece was. She stopped me in my tracks and said “TT you can’t carry that!”. She remembered what I had completely forgotten as I am forever a DIY kind of gal. Both of their concern was so sweet and it was one of the best slumber parties ever!

This little story is a firm reminder to myself to not carry heavy things lol. Shout out to my bestie girls for having my back!

Are your kids ready for back to school? What is your favorite animated movie? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Unique Unicorn OOTD

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Unique Unicorn OOTD

Hi! This past week we had a beautiful birthday celebration for our darling middle niece and it was so joyous. Friends and family gathered to celebrate our special girl and we couldn’t have asked for a better sunshiny day! My sister even hired a face painter for the party and she was a huge hit for the kids and your girl alike lol. You know TT had to get her face painted too as the extra aunt! My nieces were tickled that I participated in the face paint and immediately clocked the KPop Demon Hunters crop that I wore just for them. We love our Huntrix girls!! Take a look at this Unique Unicorn OOTD:

KPop Crop: 5 Below

Mini Skort: Kyodan, TJMaxx

Lavender Platforms: Olivia Miller, Walmart

The lightning bolt earrings were purchased on a vacation to Universal Studios many moons ago!

In hindsight, it was a mistake to wear an all white ensemble to a child’s birthday party because some stainage definitely happened on my skort lol. However, I am pleased to report that the stains came out in the laundry and it’s as good as new. GREAT SUCCESS! Anywho, I started styling this look in the KPop crop department as I have a couple of different ones from 5 Below and I love them all! I decided on the one featuring Rumi as she is my birthday girl niece’s favorite and even has a singing doll of her. Honestly, it’s really cool and I kind of want one for myself! 😀

Next up was a skirt, shorts, or jeans and I chose both of the first two options by wearing a skort. I am all about my Kyodan tennis skorts and they are so perfect for running around like crazy people with my nieces. No wardrobe malfunctions? No problem! Although the crop top is more of a cream hue, it still paired well with the crisp white of the skort and I adore the sweet movement that the school girl pleats provide. From there, it was onto shoes and accessories…

I didn’t need to browse my shoe collection because the lavender Olivia Miller platforms were an obvious choice. Once again, it wasn’t a perfect match to the purple in the crop but it was close enough and that’s all that matters to me. I got these babies for FIVE BUCKS at Walmart and am still blown away by that purchase. You just can’t beat a pair of Olivia Millers for that price! The last addition to my OOTD was a groovy pair of bedazzled purple lightening bolts that I snagged at Universal Studios. You’d be amazed at what fun jewelry you can find at zoos and amusement parks! With that, I was ready to celebrate the birthday princess on her big day!

Stay tuned for the Blooper Reel from this OOTD and remember that if you have the option to get your face painted: Go for it! It was a hoot!

Are you celebrating any birthdays soon? What would you have a face painter paint on you? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

T-Shirt Time

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T-Shirt Time

Hi! I recently enjoyed a shopping trip with my brother to Belden Village Mall as he had some gift cards to spend and I am always down to browse. It was honestly crazy being at a mall because it is the last place I think of when I want to shop. You all know that I am a TJMaxx girl! However, I think my extensive tenure working retail at Summit Mall more than makes up for my lack of going now considering I basically lived there lol. We hit up a couple of stores at Belden Village and had a great time seeing what’s good. I’ve got to give credit when it’s due because their Hot Topic ruled and I just could not say no to these hilarious graphic Ts:

When I saw the I ❤ Hot Dads shirt a la Twilight on display, I literally clutched my pearls. I am very familiar with the Twilight franchise as I had a client who adored it and, I’ll tell you what – I sure do love those hot dads lol. Sweet Charlie and Carlisle are never far from my mind and have always ranked high in my hot dad category so it’s nice to have a shirt to celebrate that. It really is too funny and I cannot wait to see the reaction I get when I wear it out in public. Twilight fans UNITE! I didn’t think it was possible that this shirt would continue to give to me but then I noticed what was underneath them on the shelves and truly couldn’t believe my eyes…

There were Supernatural shirts!!! I have another client who got me and Johnny hooked on Supernatural and we have been loving watching a couple of episodes every night. Supernatural is essentially just CSI but with ghosts with episodes that are jam packed with humor, crappy effects, and mystery. It’s a blast! Johnny and I have actually looked up Supernatural Ts before but all of them pale in comparison to the one I found at Hot Topic. It reminds me of those tie dye shirts of wolves howling at the moon at different angles and it cracks me up. I was beyond excited to show Johnny as soon as he got home and we have decided to schedule who gets to wear it and when lol. What can I say? We’re super Supernatural fans!

Shout out to Hot Topic for gifting me with these Little Treat Ts. I am obsessed!

Do you like to shop at the mall? What’s your favorite store? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

Healthcare Heroes

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Healthcare Heroes

Hi! The month of August has been a whirlwind of appointments to prepare for my LEEP and tubal, have surgery, and a visit to Aspen Dental for a cleaning. This has all been a bit stressful but thanks to the expert care I received, it was basically a cake walk. My gyno, the hospital staff, and the team at my dentist’s office provided the absolute best care and I am so thankful for that. Through simple conversations and their genuine concern, so much of my anxiety was eased to the point that I walked into everything with the utmost confidence. It can be hard to track down medical practitioners that are an excellent fit for you and I feel lucky to have such a trusted team in my corner!

As you all know, my gyno has been monitoring the abnormalities in my cervix for quite a while through routine biopsies. Those were always a bit scary but it needed to be done and her calm, cool demeanor soothed the butterflies in my basket. What I have appreciated about my gyno since my first appointment with her is that she speaks in layman’s terms so I am never in the dark with even more questions. Leading up to the surgery I, of course, had a lot to clarify for my own peace of mind and she was so patient with me. By the time my surgery date rolled around, I had no questions for her or the staff as preparations were underway because all of that had been explicitly covered with my gyno. It made my surgery day such a breeze because I went in feeling totally ready for what would happen next.

A week out from my surgery, it was off to the dentist where I continued to receive exemplary care. I have been going to Aspen Dental for years and will continue to do so because I simply adore my dental hygienist. She is well aware of my nerves when it comes to dental care because of a horrible oral surgery gone wrong. During my cleanings, she allows plenty of time for me to take breaks and expertly uses story telling to take my mind off of the work she’s doing on my teeth. This past appointment, she told me all about the concerts she has attended ranging from David Bowie to Lady Gaga and I was entranced. So much so that I barely felt any nerves whatsoever throughout my appointment.

I have to go to Aspen four times per year because of my gum health and I am pleased to report that I had my best visit yet. It was so good that now I only have to go every four months! Score! Both my hygienist and dentist were so proud of me and I felt such a childlike wave of pleasure as they sung my praises. I have been working really hard on my oral health and applying their recommendations and the hard work paid off. After this great success, I just had to thank them for making going to the dentist not scary anymore and they both recalled my state during my very first appointment there because I was straight up trembling. Now, I can walk into their office with my head held high and a major phobia under control!

Having such amazing medical care is a gift that I do not take lightly. Thank you to all of the Healthcare Heroes out there for everything you do! ❤

Do you have any phobias? What is your least favorite medical appointment (I’m not fond of the eye doctor!)? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

5 Differences You Notice Instantly When You Get Your Roof Fixed

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5 Differences You Notice Instantly When You Get Your Roof Fixed

Your roof is one of those parts of the house you probably don’t think about much until something goes seriously wrong. It’s only then that you start noticing drafts, potential ceiling stains, or even the unmistakable sound of dripping water during after a storm. That’s why you can’t miss the impact of repairing a damaged roof. No matter the level of repair you need, whether you are dealing with missing shingles, age-related deterioration, or even a minor leak, investing in professional roofing repairs will not only protect the top of your home, but it will also transform how your home feels:

Does your upstairs feel freezing in the winter? It’s no wonder that roof repairs are on top of the to-do list to winterproof your home. Your roof and attic are part of the thermal boundary that protects your living space from outdoor conditions. So when your roof doesn’t fulfill its job anymore, you struggle to regulate temperatures both in winter and summer. This is because the roof also provides a strong insulating function. It ensures the outside air doesn’t come into your home through the top.

Insulation doesn’t just make your home more comfortable. It also makes it cheaper to run because your heating and cooling system doesn’t need to fight against the cold winter air (or the hot summer air) inside the house. The HVAC system doesn’t need to work harder, and therefore your energy bills also show a difference. Naturally, you should ensure that insulation is suitable throughout the entire property and not just in the roof area, but there’s no denying that the roof is one of the major ways in for outdoor air.

There’s nothing quite like heavy rain when you are worried about roof leaks. You are likely to find damp patches on the ceilings just below the roof. This can also bring musty smells and long-lasting moisture problems. When your roof can withstand the rain, you can simply chill and enjoy a cup of hot cocoa while the rain pours outside… not inside!

No, seriously, it does. The roof may not be a mind-blowing difference you’d notice in photos. But it does improve the curb appeal of the property, even if you can’t pinpoint the exact elements that elevate its appearance. There’s no discoloration in the roof, no visible missing shingles, or no sagging sections. When the roof looks the part, the entire house looks better for it.

The roof is designed to protect the structure and materials underneath it, which in short, means the entire house. Damaged roof coverings can allow wind-driven rain into a building and that unresolved damage can eventually affect the entire structure’s strength. This means moisture can damage decking, seep into insulation materials, and fragilize walls.

Fixing roofing problems early is about much more than ticking one task off the to-do list. It’s a protective layer that looks after your home and your comfort!

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5 Below Clothing Haul

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5 Below Clothing Haul

Hi!! October is my Halloween happy time but spooky season has come to stores early and it absolutely tickles me. It is so fun to see Halloween decor galore in store (I like to rhyme!) in August! While I love seeing what’s good at TJMaxx, I am always especially excited for the Halloween drop at 5 Below. Gasp! Don’t tell TJs lol but it is really nice to get spooky little somethings without feeling like I’m breaking the bank and 5 Below scratches that itch. I have had many a Halloween haul there and recently had a frighteningly good score with new PJs and a fabulous T shirt for Johnny! Check it out:

I am an avid fan of 5 Below pajamas and have an ever growing collection of their sweet and cheap lounge wear. Their PJs come in the most adorable patterns, are uber soft and comfortable, and buying a set is fourteen dollars in total. It’s such a steal! As soon as I saw their two newest Halloween PJ additions with the bears in costume and tiny ghosts, they were as good as mine and I was SO eager to bust them out. I donned my ghosts and pumpkins this weekend and they were perfect to spend some lazy days in post surgery. These PJs actually remind me a lot of the Aerie line from American Eagle as I used to covet their pricey comfortable apparel and the fourteen buck price sure beats fifty dollars for a pair of pajamas! I am in trouble if 5 Below drops more Halloween patterns in this set because I’m going to want them all!! 😀

And, of course, I couldn’t leave 5B without a little treat for Johnny too! Every spooky season 5 Below drops the most fabulous horror graphic Ts. They are seriously Hot Topic level in both style and quality and Johnny loves the Michael Myers one I got him last year. I legit gasped when I saw a Texas Chainsaw Massacre T last week because holy WOW is this shirt cool. The Texas Chainsaw Massacre is my all time favorite horror movie and, although Halloween takes the cake for Johnny, it is high up on the list for him too. This movie poster print is everything and Johnny put it on as soon as I gave it to him. It made me so happy! There are a few more that I have my eye on for the next time I end up in 5 Below’s loving embrace because there is nothing better than getting a shirt that would have costed twenty-five smackers at the mall for five. Great success!

Ghosts, teddy bears, and Leatherface – Oh my! This 5 Below Clothing Haul gave sweet with a side of scary. Stay tuned for Pajama Party OOTDs coming soon!

What is your favorite classic horror movie? Do you have your Halloween costume planned already? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah

From Hobby Space To Home Office: Remodeling Your Purpose

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From Hobby Space To Home Office: Remodeling Your Purpose

Our homes have really stepped up their game lately, haven’t they? More than resting quarters, they’ve become our offices, gyms, creative studios, and even classrooms. If you’ve ever tried to make a corner of the dining room work for your sewing hobby or taken work calls from the guest bedroom, you know it’s not ideal. Refreshing your home can give you a productive and relaxing spot for your passions and your professional life:

Rethinking Your Home’s Layout:

Before you grab a sledgehammer or hit the furniture store, take a moment to really look at how your home is set up right now. Are there any rooms you barely use? Maybe that formal living room that only gets used by guests on holidays or the spare bedroom that’s become a catch-all for clutter. Either of those could be the perfect spot for your new dedicated area. Also, think about how you move through your day. Perhaps swapping the dining room and living room could create a better, more private workspace away from the main hustle and bustle. Don’t be shy about rethinking your home layout to better fit what you need now, not just what you needed when you first moved in.

Hiring for Complex Renovations:

Once you have a good idea of what you want your new space to look like, it’s time to think about the practical stuff. While painting a room or assembling flat-pack furniture is totally a doable DIY project, some jobs really do need a pro. If your dream office needs a new window for more natural light or you want to add a sink to your craft room, you’re getting into areas like building codes, electrical wiring, and plumbing. For these bigger projects, it’s smart to hire a qualified contractor. They’ll make sure the work is done safely and correctly. A professional can also help you sort out permits and ensure your new space isn’t just pretty, but also solid and up to snuff.

Creating a Dedicated Craft Zone:

For anyone with a creative hobby, having their own dedicated zone is an absolute dream. It means no more rushing to clear your project off the kitchen table for dinner, or constantly hunting for your supplies. When you’re planning your craft area, think about maximizing vertical space. Shelves, pegboards, and tall bookcases can hold a ton without eating up precious floor space. Good lighting is super important too, so aim for a mix of overhead light and a focused task lamp. You can find amazing ideas for a home office craft room that cleverly combines functionality for both work and play. The main idea is to create a spot where you can organize your tools and leave a project until inspiration strikes again.

The Rise of the Home Office:

With remote work becoming a long-term thing for many of us, a makeshift desk in the bedroom just isn’t going to cut it anymore. When setting up a proper home office, you must establish a clear boundary between your work and personal life. A good workspace should feel comfortable and actually help you get things done. Also pay attention to ergonomics and get a supportive chair or a desk at the right height to avoid aches and pains. And don’t forget about sound! Soft furnishings like rugs and curtains can help absorb sound and make your environment quieter. A dedicated office helps you mentally “clock in” at the start of the day and “clock out” when you’re finished.

Spaces That Inspire Productivity:

Ultimately, the environment should really get your creative juices flowing. This is your chance to surround yourself with things that make you happy and help you focus. Pick a wall color that feels calming or energizing to you. Add some plants to bring a bit of nature indoors and hang art that sparks your imagination. When your environment is organized and suited to your needs, it supports your well-being and boosts your office productivity. 

Remodeling a room for a new purpose is a smart investment in yourself and your daily happiness. Your home should adapt to your life and refreshing a space is the perfect way to start!

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New Wool Buddy Drop

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New Wool Buddy Drop

Hi!! For the past several months my mom has been wool felting and it is so exciting to see her try something brand new. Every project she has completed is better than the last and she is constantly improving. I’m so proud of her and I love the bumblebee she made for me! Her most recent wool buddy was a unicorn as per her granddaughter’s request for her birthday and it is, easily, her biggest and best creation yet. Her first go at the unicorn, admittedly, looked more like a giraffe so she scrapped it and tried again. The end result is SO dynamite and my niece adored it! Take a look:

This unicorn wool buddy is giving My Little Pony and I am living for it! I am genuinely so impressed by this handmade plushie and I’d be a stone cold liar if I said I didn’t want one for myself. While I am blown away by the size of the unicorn and the skill it took to make it, what I love most of all is that she tried again. Attempt One was leaving a lot to be desired and the proportions were too thin. She knew what needed to be done to improve it by bulking up the size and did exactly that. And, in doing so, hand crafted something that she was proud of too. To try again is to put forth that extra effort and really lock those skills in and I think that is so commendable. ❤

It was a total joy to collaborate with my mom because she was open to any and all suggestions to make a special gift for the birthday girl. I picked out the colors for the mane and tail and, of course, that had to include green which is the b-day princess’s favorite color. I also thought some hooves would look nice and my mom made them yellow to match the horn. The last idea I had of a My Little Pony style marking on the side did not come to fruition as my mom was a bit nervous about it but that’s okay. Maybe she will try one if she makes a unicorn for me next. After she makes me a little ladybug to go with my bumblebee, of course!!

I am seriously on pins and needles to see what my mom crafts next because this unicorn exceeded all expectations. Fabulous job, mom!!

Do you have plushies at home? Which My Little Pony is your favorite? I want to hear from all of you, so leave me a comment and let’s chat! Much love. -Sarah